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Kathern
Kershaw
- South Carolina
- United States
Online
Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 45-55
Hello all! I'm looking for someone to spend time with and enjoy what each day brings.I miss the connection that comes with a relationship, and having someone there for me and me for them. For many years I thought I wasn't in a hurry to settle down again but now realize that I'm missing out on the opportunity to make memories with "my" someone. I've been divorced for 11 years, have one grown son, a future daughter-in-law, one dog and two cats and a job that I enjoy. I work with animals and have been blessed with the chance to make a difference in their lives. I don't have one particular thing I HAVE to do in my spare time. I'm always up for adventure and spur of the moment activities. I enjoy spending time with friends, grilling out or dining out, and being outdoors. However, I don't mind vegging out in front of the TV sometimes (who doesn't love the occasional lazy day?). My friends have been telling me lately that I don't get out enough so maybe I can change that. It's time for my new chapter in life to begin and I'm hoping this chapter includes someone I can't go a minute without thinking about! This is my second time on meetville and I'm hopeful that this time around will be better. While I understand that each person on here has their own agenda and are free to pursue what they're looking for, I need to make it clear what the "rules of engagement" are when contacting me~~be honest! If you're looking for a promising future with someone, say so. If you're looking to date, with no interest in commitment in your future, say so! I'm not a mind reader, guys! :) There is nothing more annoying than taking time to get to know someone based on what they say, only to discover their intent is the exact opposite. True? If we keep the lines of communication open it will be easier to determine if we're compatible or destined to be great friends.Good luck to each of you and I hope you find what it is you're looking for! The best first date is the one that is pressure free, something casual in a relaxed atmosphere. You can't learn much about a person in a crowded restaurant or a movie.
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Delora
Kershaw
- South Carolina
- United States
Online
Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 45-55
About me??? Very hard to describe myself….but I do know that I am a warm hearted, honest person and will give 110% to a relationship, no games!! My friends tell me that I am very enjoyable to be around because I am so down to earth and easy to get along with. I will go along w/the crowd and never complain. Love hanging out with my girlfriends and my family. My family means the world to me. I have two beautiful daughters that I love to spend time with, they are my pride and joy. I enjoy great company and a lot of laughs…life is too short. Quiet dinners and spending a nice quiet evening at home watching a good movie, nothing can beat that! Oh yea...I love my wine!! MOTTO TO LIVE BY...Life should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, martini in the other.
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Jerry
Kershaw
- South Carolina
- United States
Online
Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 46-56
One more thing I would like to add here....I do get busy. I do have a life. And I try to answer but sometimes it doesn't happen :-) and when I read profiles I see what commonality there is(that is a word isn't it)lol anyway if I see you want barbie or just don't have same interests I am thinking I don't match.,if you are my dads age. Well I had a dad:-) this site is not my life:-) Please though that does not mean that you then need to reply with mean notes because you didn't get a response or the one you wanted:-) amazing how many people send mean responses or ones to cut a person down:-) I would like to think that common ground is a good start and being mean a bad start:-) hey just my opinion:-:-) With that I did remove all I said I was looking for and my about me!!!!!! Yep I did!!!lol:-) :-) :-) :-) and guess what I can !!!lmao Now everyone be nice and play nice on the playground:-) Just meet for couple drinks and see if want to connect again
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Tansy
Kershaw
- South Carolina
- United States
Online
Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 47-57
If you are looking for Barbie - keep lookingI am not young, thin, pretty or dumb. What I am is warm and genuine and looking forward to adoring the man who wants to be with me.Online dating has made us lazy. It is hard to meet someone... put yourself out there. I am looking for someone who isn't just sitting behind a computer saying they are going to put themselves out there but actually going to do it! So if you are not willing to meet me for 15 minutes please don't bother me. I am not here for your entertainment but am seriously looking for a relationship. I am looking to have some fun. I want to act silly and goofy and enjoy that I am with someone who isn't afraid to hold back and do the same. I can put the same boring sentences here that you are reading in every lady's profile. We as humans are not looking to be in a boring, hateful, self-absorbed relationship and most of us love the beach/mountains etc.... So what we are really looking for is someone whose eye's sparkle when we walk into the room. Someone who even when you are disagreeing would rather sit next to you than across the room from you. I tend to be that type of person. I am loyal to a fault. I forgive easily. I am just asking that you actually want to be with me - you want to enjoy me. The rest will come naturally. Great sense of humor is a major plus! Make me laugh and I will be yours... What is unique about me is something you need to discover in how I make you smile.For the most part I am a strong, independent, intelligent person. I have a good work ethic and a stable job. I love to laugh. I consider myself very lucky for the friends that I have. I appreciate everyone of them.% in their hobbies and activities. I have a unique imagination and like to apply that to 'every' aspect of my life. I don't want someone who will settle for boring sweet and kind, I want a man that is looking for fiesty and fun and is full of energy and excitement.Favorite line: "Can you imagine what would happen if I ever let you close enough to touch? Come into the fantasy, you'll never want to leave, Baby that is guaranteed"I have only 2 hard limits... I don't date smokers nor someone who is already in a relationship (especially married men). I don't think there is an ideal first date. The simplest thing could be the greatest thing or a complete disaster depending on the chemistry between us. I would prefer to meet for a drink - somewhere simple where we can chat for a little while.
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Gertha
Kershaw
- South Carolina
- United States
Online
Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 43-53
Hello I\'m just a person that has been through some tough things this year but I\'m trying to keep my head up. I try to stay a positive. I need a mate who can help to get thru with a happy smile.
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Izetta
Kershaw
- South Carolina
- United States
Online
Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 46-56
I am a healthy and happy woman with great enthusiasm for life and a deep capacity for love and generosity. I’d describe myself as intelligent, passionate, creative, authentic, and feisty. I have a sassy sense of humor and an adventurous streak. I love learning and am endlessly inquisitive. I am inspired by people who do things--in small and big ways--to make the world a better place. I have woven these passions together to start my own business. While my work brings me much joy, I am happiest when I balance that with relaxation, fun, and meaningful relationships. Health is important. I prefer playing sports to watching them. (Tackle football, anyone?) I have a strong artistic side and enjoy painting and creative writing. I'm looking for a long-term relationship with a man who is easy-going, open-minded, curious, and most of all, happy. I’d like to find someone who values intelligence, motivation, and creativity, and who enjoys life’s simple pleasures. Someone who takes delight in a storm, in fall, and other natural beauty. Someone who values sharing everyday home by cooking, working in the yard, or just watching a movie together. I offer loyalty, affection, support, communication, and the space you need to pursue individual interests. I hope for the same from my partner. A good first date is relaxed and an opportunity to talk and hopefully laugh. It could be meeting for coffee or dinner, a picnic, a walk somewhere nice, or something else to spark conversation. Nothing fancy or expensive (and I don't expect you to pay in any case). If it's nice out, then let's meet outdoors. No matter what we do, let's just be ourselves.
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Sukie
Kershaw
- South Carolina
- United States
Online
Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 46-56
I am technically a single parent, although my older two are out living on their own and my youngest didn't want to move right before senior year, so she is living with my ex husband. I've been divorced for 15 years now. I am not active in church at this time bc I haven't found a church 'home' since moving, but even when I am active, I'm not a religious freak. I'm fairly liberal, yet conservative in some areas - go figure. I'm not a girlie girl, or high maintenance, but I do have a thing about purses !! I love sports, more and more watching and not playing, but I don't live by any certain team schedule - getting out and living is far more important ! I also like camping, fishing, drag racing, motorcycle rides on my bike (or yours), poker runs, playing cards, bbq with friends, NASCAR, Top Fuel, shooting pool, boating, float trips, anything water related, I'm there !! I am open to trying anything, within reason... tired of sitting on the sidelines of life. I'm not a slob or a neat freak, I'm somewhere in between. The thing I miss most about not being in a relationship is having another adult to share my life with; intimacy, holding hands, and someone to hide behind watching a scary movie. Call me a romantic if you must, but there is nothing like that feeling when a single touch can run a shiver up and down your spine. I'm hoping to find a man that's honest, caring, capable of being sensitive, but a man's man, if you know what I mean. He would have to not only tolerate kids and the noise and mess that comes with them, but actually enjoy being around them. You have to like dogs, tolerate cats, and not be afraid of reptiles. I'm a jeans & t-shirt kind of girl, and although I do dress up occasionally, I'm more comfortable hanging out with someone in jeans over a suit. And here's the deal, I ride a motorcycle 75% of the time. I've tried dating guys in the past that don't ride, and it just doesn't work. So I HAVE to add in here that you MUST ride a bike... not like bikes, not used to own one, not going to buy one some day, but you need to have one now, and ride it, or there's just no point. I'm sorry, harsh reality, I know, but I am what I am and I'm not about to change !! Just as I wouldn't try to change you. So here's the tricky part, since I'm not into one night stands or couples or any of that....but I'm not into JUST "vanilla" sex either... so it would help if you're kinky, adventurous, creative, willing to explore...and have a high sex drive....and no, I don't want to teach any of you young pups, etc. so don't bother writing. I have more freedom now than I have had in years &- I don't have a problem going to bars, or live music anywhere. However, if you live night after night in a bar, or you drink daily, heavy drinker, alcoholic, etc - we will not be a match. I need a man that knows his limit and I don't have to babysit. If you want to date several women at once and keep them all waiting for your call - we will not be a match. And if you're only interested in a woman for her looks, a barbi girl to show off to your friends, pass on by, cause I'm far from Barbi !! And last but not least, if you're looking for a one night stand - we will not be a match. *Please take this next part to heart, it's VERY important !! I am writer at heart and LOVE communication. If you send me an ***, tell me about yourself, why you decided to write to me, what was it about me that sounded interesting. If you send one sentence "how u doin?" or similar, I'm sorry, but you give me nothing to work with and I know I won't bother responding because you didn't take the time to really make an effort and respond to my profile. I'm sorry if that sounds harsh, but I'm looking for a partner, someone real. I'm not interested in getting involved with anyone that doesn't have the time to put into a relationship or isn't up to making an effort. Life's too short, and I'd rather be alone than involved with someone that puts me on a shelf and only takes me down to 'play' when he wants too. While I am looking for a long term type of relationship, I'm in no hurry to jump in without going through the process of becoming friends, dating, etc. So don't let that scare you off, and if things don't 'click' between us, then we both made a new friend, and I don't know anyone who has too many friends !! (Especially when they're new in town !!) Oh, and here's a hint guys - if you get drunk the first time we meet, guess what ? BINGO !! No second date ! If you oogle every woman in the joint on our first time meeting, again, no second chance. And please, high school is over, no baby mama drama, no drama queen daughters, etc. I think that just about covers everything. I'm as real as they come, ask me anything, I'll answer honestly, and that, may very well be why I'm still single. So if you really don't want the honest truth, don't ask. Good luck finding what you're searching for, I'm very close to throwing in the towel... too many games out there. I'd suggest some place quiet over coffee, but might be a little too intimidating for some? Coke's sitting on our bike's looking out over a lake, stars lighting the surface of the water while we talk? Game of pool over a cold beer? Where or what doesn't matter, it's the "who" that really matters ! I'm pretty open to suggestions. First dates are not a problem for me, it's second dates that require a little more thought and planning !!
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Lucila
Kershaw
- South Carolina
- United States
Online
Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 46-56
I like to go out to eat, go to the movies, the beach ,I am a fun loving person, spend time with my family. I love my job and caring for people. My favorite kind of music is country.
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Kirstine
Kershaw
- South Carolina
- United States
Online
Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 43-53
I am pretty easy going and am not high maintenance. I am looking for someone with a great sense of humor as I love to smile and laugh. I could list qualities I'm looking for such as loving, caring, thoughtful, honest and faithful, but aren't we all looking for those qualities? I feel you have to meet someone and get to know them before being able to say there is a connection. In regards to physical attraction, this is more than just a picture. Once I meet someone and spend with time with him and look in his eyes, this usually lets me know. The simple things in life can bring the most joy. I am a romantic at heart and small gestures such as opening a door, pulling out a chair, leaving a card/note is a pleasure. I really cannot state there is one thing in particular that will make a great first date. As long as I am with good company, anything we do can be fun.
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Jonquil
Kershaw
- South Carolina
- United States
Online
Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 47-57
Born with a playful spirit, hearty intellect, vivid imagination, good nature and a penchant for fun and adventure. I’m searching for a person who likes learning, sharing, and has high self-esteem.