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Shebah
Vinita
- Oklahoma
- United States
Online
Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 33-43
The Bait - a divorced single mother with three sons (almost 17, 15 and 12). What a catch huh? What you get - A woman who know's her own mind, can be funny, sarcastic, loving, loyal, spontaneous, unusual in my own way, (and I'm human so I do have faults.) Most importantly, I'm always honest and expect the same from pretty much everyone who want's to be around me. Some days I just want to cuddle, others I just want to be left alone. I'm 36 years old. I've loved and been loved, hurt and been hurt. I'm tired of the games people play and quite simply just want to be with someone who "gets" me. Someone who can do his own thing and leave me be when I just want to sit and curl up with a good book. I'd like someone who likes to take long walks, but is also content to sit in front of a campfire on a warm summer's night. I'd like someone who is similar to me in that we can enjoy the same things, but It would be nice if he had his own thing to do once in awhile and maybe a thing or two to introduce me to.- Every kind of music has it's own mood, and the mood I'm in determines the music genre playing on my radio. I have my preferences ***'s, top 40's, some mild (mild?) rap, rock, and lately some hard rock... Ok,sometimes I really enjoy some country, too but not too often. Classical on a rare occasion... I'm not overly fond of jazz. Yeah, I don't like jazz. I like puzzles. As in putting little pieces together to form a pretty picture kind of puzzle. Simple ones. ***pc) That way I can turn on some relevant to my mood music, sing along (off pitch and barely on melody) and sometimes just mindlessly put the little pieces together, reflecting on my day, the past, my sons, or perhaps the future and what it may bring. Join me sometime - the conversations could be endless, enlightening and entertaining or just plain silly. I love laughing until I cry. Sometimes I snort. I'm a girly girl like that, you know. (sarcasm!!!)I'm not interested in being around anyone who does any kind of drugs, even if it's "only once in a while." Drugs are not my thing and if you want to be around me, even as a friend, please respect that ok? Best way to impress me? Keep it simple and real. I don't care if you fly a jet plane, drive a beater car or chose to walk - what's important is the way you treat me (including strangers on the street) and the respect and devotion you show me will be returned tenfold.***updateI decided to update this for a few reasons, but primarily because I felt I needed to add a few things to my profile. If It appears I don't answer you back right away, just give it a bit. There are times I send messages from my phone but they don't post - it's something I've just recently noticed. Give me time to get back to you ok?One very important thing a person needs to know about me is that i rarely if ever make the first move... or the second or third. It's just me. If you are interested and would like to continue to date or get to know me, you are going to have to let me know by deed or word or "action." If i'm interested, I will let you know. On a walk - if I say that couple looks cute walking hand in hand... maybe that's your first hint that I'd like for you to ask to take my hand, or for you to just do it. Also - I'm short and have short legs! if you are over 6 feet tall and are walking ahead of me to the point that I have to nearly jog to keep up... yeah, not really a good indication that you are interested and I will react accordingly. I've been called stand-offish.... I don't mean to be. But if it's something you notice, perhaps trying to draw me out or make me laugh. It's likely that I'm unsure how your feeling or what you are thinking and I draw within myself unknowingly. Draw me out! There is a whole lot going on inside that the right guy will be able to bring out of me. I'm a very loving, forgiving, optimistic person that has a whole lot to give to the right guy who can figure me out.- the guy who figures me out, or "get's me" will likely capture my heart.I could rattle off ***things about me, my life or the reasons I'm where I'm at today both physically and emotionally, but everyone has a story to tell. I'd like to know your story, and I'd hope that the right guy would want to know mine. Knowledge is a very powerful thing, but without knowledge or understanding - there is nothing. Update ***I'm rarely on here, and I haven't been for months. Yeah, I dated a bit but I'm still on here. Figured I'd stick around for awhile and just see how things go. Interested? Message me, but I probably wont answer if all you have to say is less than a sentence, you just seem to want to hook up, or if your profile is written like something my 8 year old nephew would write. Okay, thank you and have a great day/week/month... you get the idea.Right now - I'm looking forward to November and all the wonderful things the month brings. I refer to deer hunting. I have a gun and intend to use it! And a license. Licenses for hunting are required. Oh yeah! Can't forget Thanksgiving! I love mashed potato's and gravy and stuffing and turkey.... my mouth is watering! So, as of right now, I'm (obviously) single and interested in getting to know someone. I've no intentions of jumping into something right away, and quite honestly, shy away from relationships that seem to move too fast. If you tell me you love me after 4 weeks (after we've actually met in person and gone on a few dates) don't be surprised if I run away. That's freaky fast to me. If you are looking to move in with your next girlfriend next month, or the week after that, please move on. Oh! and my hair is back to the natural dark blonde. I will try to get another photo posted here soon since the one from May is getting a bit outdated now.That is all. For now.
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Letty
Vinita
- Oklahoma
- United States
Online
Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 33-43
I have been on and off of this site. I am done with the liars.....so if you are looking for a hook up, keep looking and if you can actually be honest and sincere than that is a good start. I am looking to date one person and see where it goes from there.A little about me......I am a teacher for the last 18 years, I have two children and we are very involved in sports. I help coach my sons soccer team and I played in a womens soccer league and play coed softball. I enjoy getting dressed up and going out as much as I like to throw on sweats and watch a game. I enjoy alot of outdoor activities....the beach, minigolf, volleyball, and I also like to shoot pool. I am an affectionate, caring, honest person. I love animals and I like to be creative and artistic in my classroom. I do not want a long distance relationship or a penpal. If we start to talk, I am someone who actually likes to meet the person face to face. That is the only way you are going to know if there is any connection. Thank you for reading my profile and good luck in your search!!sorry if it sounds rude...I am just done with the bs. I am very sarcastic, like to have fun, and people watch...hehe! I say if it is not working for you maybe you are looking in the wrong place..try something different because you never know until you try!!
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Tirzah
Vinita
- Oklahoma
- United States
Online
Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 33-43
If you like traveling, dancing and adventures - we already have a lot in common;) I am not big into motorcycles (any kind) just saying. I can be very laid back, but also very spontaneous and ready for a trip at any given time lol. It can be local sightseeing or foreign country exploring. My Moto - don't put off things for tomorrow, do them today! Dinner and beach
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Kerrie
Vinita
- Oklahoma
- United States
Online
Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 35-45
Not a big fan talking about myself, so I'll keep It short & sweet..If every word I said would make you laugh i would talk forever. I have learned to love the people who treat me right & forget about the ones who don't, living without regrets and I believe that everything happens for a reason. I want to make everyday a good one, the bad days come on there own. "Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish"I am really laid back yet I have Scorpio tendencies, I like to try anything once, Can't get enough of the ocean and the calm before a storm. I love to read, garden and keeping busy. I enjoy spending my free time with my family, friends and my dog. I love the warm months of the year and the changes in the season. I enjoy road trips with friends and or good company. Good tunes plus good company equals a good time always.
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Psychorook
Vinita
- Oklahoma
- United States
Offline
Man. 28 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: woman. In age: 19-25
Look for the one that I can take home. The one who I can show off it doesn't matter if ur plus size doesn't matter if ur if people can see ur ribs I do not care.
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Xena
Vinita
- Oklahoma
- United States
Online
Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 35-45
Im an openminded,outgoing,outspoken what u see is what u get kinda girl. I have a strong personality and I want a strong MAN by my side. I enjoy goin out for the night..dinner ,drinks and music but I also enjoy home time with a good movie and just relaxing. Always open to new ideas and experiences.Please Do Not Contact me if you don not have a picture and if ur under the age of 36. Thanks My idea would be coffee or a drink,. but am open to your ideas.
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Jon
Vinita
- Oklahoma
- United States
Online
Man. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 18-42
If you're interested in chatting with me message me on *** I don't do *** I'm pretty open to new things. However, I have no expectations here. I'm a kind loving person with a big heart full of love waiting for the right person of they're even out there. Recently, I finished my second bachelor's degree. Hopefully, better money will be coming soon. If you want to know more ask. "May you find love, light, & peace!"
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Sister
Vinita
- Oklahoma
- United States
Offline
Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 18-37
Hi! My name is Sister. I am never married other caucasian woman with kids from Vinita, Oklahoma, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.
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Cinderella
Vinita
- Oklahoma
- United States
Online
Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 35-45
Hi there!I have been on this site a year and half now and it seems the site/people haven't changed too much. I'm not sure why I continue with the site, maybe its the hope of finding love and believing it's out there reguardless of whether your on the net, bar or maybe even the grocery store. I have, however had no luck with either concept. I remain hopeful that someday I'll meet that guy that just gets me, and I him as well. I have been on a few dates from guys that I've met from the site. I have had some really great phone conversations but they all seem to end the same. I'm tired of empty promises and the idea that I'm given, that I might be the "one". I have thought maybe some of them might go somewhere, although you can see I'm still here. Do me a favor don't tell me what I want to hear show me the things that a man hasn't up to this point. Talk is cheap be a doer not a talker. I've been on the dates where they say "gosh I can't wait to see you again" or "I really like you" and then no phone call the next day. I really have to admit even though I will be 38 soon, I truly still don't understand men. I'm not here to find "one night stands" nor am I willing to settle for that matter, I'm looking for the "real deal". I have been in love and I have lost love, I know what they both feel like and I know how scary they can be too. The guy I want to meet doesn't have to be perfect he just has to be perfect to me. Perfection is different to everyone my kinda perfect, is the guy that laughs, has fun, enjoys life. Live life to the fullest that way you'll have no regrets. I do want to fall in love again someday, however I want it to happen as it's suppose to no rushing just falling. It would be nice to for the guy to feel the sameway with me. I often wonder "am I crazy" haha not like that, but to think that love can still happen for me. I like to remain optomistic and think that's why I still believe in love, it's because there is a man out there somewhere for me. Are you the man that can showme how a real man treats a woman? I sometimes wonder if the nice, romantic, sincere, and confident men still exist. I was married for 10 years (seperated the last 2 years) and I enjoyed married life and I've discovered that married life suits me and that single life isn't all that exciting, at least not to me. There are many things I can say about myself like how I'm confident, strong, motivated, romantic, and very outgoing, however at the end of the day these are just words its actually what you see with your own two eyes that's really matters. All I really hope is someday someone see's me for me and love's everything about me, I want that kinda of love that you see in couple's that have been married for 50 years. They just get one another, they know what they both need and want, sometimes even without words. I stay hopeful that this too will happen for me. I know that putting this all out there might scare some, however I've been on here for this long what do I have to lose. I'm tired of hearing how much of a sweetheart I am and tired of being let down. I'm not here for games, I am just looking for love. There is a lot more about me and I would love to share it with the right person. I'll say this, I love music (countrygirl), movies, and just spending time with good company doing whatever may come our way. If any of this sounds like a woman you want to get to know or just chat with, talk to me, I promise I wont bite, well at least not right now ...hahahaA few things to add... I love sports especially Hockey, Football and Baseball. I'm always up for a good time and I also love a good concert with good company. I' would love to just meet someone that I could have a great time with. Please do me and you a favor and don't respond to this posting unless you're really looking for something special. No head games, just looking for the possibilities of the real thing. "A heartbreak is a blessing from God. It's just His way of letting you realize He saved you from the wrong one!" “It is better to deserve someone and not have them than to have them and not to deserve them.” -...Lets just have fun and be ourselves!!
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Jonathanlefoia
Vinita
- Oklahoma
- United States
Offline
Man. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: woman. In age: 18-37
Hi! My name is Jonathanlefoia. I am never married other native american man with kids from Vinita, Oklahoma, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.