Personals in Farmington, ME

Effie

• Farmington

• Maine
• United States

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Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

I am a woman with a creative background who loves to be with people who can make me laugh, whom strangers think I may be shy, but inside has a wicked grin, the occasional inappropriate thought, and friends whom I prove this to often. I am extremely loyal, compassionate, affectionate, and non-racist (don't judge me by my intolerance to intolerance). I love a good conversation, and to have my mind challenged. I believe I am smart enough that you wouldn't be tempted to throw blonde jokes my way. (well maybe once in awhile, I often push a door when it clearly says PULL). I make mistakes, but I own them. I need feedback and the truth. (I have yet to develop the skill to read minds and as cliche as it sounds, communication is key). The type of man I thrive with is an outgoing take-charge kind of man, it brings out the best in me. While I'm very independent, it's nice to throw the keys to someone else for a change. I enjoy my own company, but it's nice to share time with a good man. I've learned that looks are for the most part irrelevant (although you need that initial spark) and that it's how a man makes her woman feel that's important. And this goes both ways. A small gesture goes a long way with me. My musical favourites run from blues and rock and everything in between. I love to watch live bands. I'm just looking for someone special to share some of my favourite things to do, and would love to be introduced to some new ones.While I'm fine with myself where I am physically, I am a constant work in progress, working on bettering myself and need someone to accept me as i am right now, and enjoy the ride with me. I am a big woman with an even bigger heart. If you judge me by my hair colour, skin colour, or body size, you will miss entirely who I am. My mantra? Say what you mean, and mean what you say. I think that bridge should be crossed when we get to it. Something casual and simple.

Abril

• Farmington

• Maine
• United States

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Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

One of my favorite hobbies is riding my motorcycle, but I am very creative and like to write and do artwork as well. I am a born-again christian, and involved in ministry work and am looking for someone who is "equally yoked" with me and lives their life according to God's Word and Will. I want to feel secure in my relationship knowing that it will weather any storm as long as it's built on the right foundation. My desire is to meet someone who puts God first, loves me for who I am, is completely trustworthy and would never hurt me by jeopardizing our relationship in any way. I guess my heart's desire is to meet someone who shares the same values, has the same morals, knows and respects purity for what it truly is, and wants to grow old along with me. Not that complicated, but oh so hard to find! On a lighter note, (no pun intended), I love all kinds of music including christian rock, musicals, songs from the 50's and anything mellow. I especially enjoy riding my motorcycle through the metroparks but occasionally like to be the passenger as well! It's a big plus if you like motorcycles and enjoy riding. I also am a cat lover, and have two furry felines that really keep me company. If you are allergic to cats or if you smoke we would not be a good match. Sorry, but I believe in being upfront and honest right from the beginning. I am petite but strong, with long brown hair past my waist and my uniqueness is noted in the fact that my eyes are two different colors which is a great conversation starter, but unfortunately doesn't come off too great in pictures! Good luck in all of your searches and God Bless! I would like to add that if your relationship with the Lord is not your first priority and you feel you do not share the same spiritual morals and values as me, then please move on. You will be wasting my time and yours, as I am looking for a man who puts God first, a man who just doesn't talk the talk, but whole-heartedly walks the walk. P.S. Some people confuse the differences between a religion and a relationship. I am not "religious," but my relationship with God and how He fits into my life is very important--there is a difference... My idea of a first date would be in a setting where there would be the opportunity for a good conversation. This could be in a restaurant or even having a cup of coffee at a quiet coffee house somewhere close in the neighborhood. Later I'd love to go for a walk around the park or by a lake setting and use this opportunity to observe and see how we connect. If I feel at peace and it goes well, then a second date may be an option, possibly going for a motorcycle ride through the park and having a picnic lunch together.

Kevinethi6U

• Farmington

• Maine
• United States

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Man. 60 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

Looking for: woman. In age: 38-64

Hi! My name is Kevinethi6U. I am widowed catholic caucasian man with kids from Farmington, Maine, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

Mattpra2

• Farmington

• Maine
• United States

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Man. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

Looking for: woman. In age: 29-46

Hi! My name is Mattpra2. I am divorced other caucasian man with kids from Farmington, Maine, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

Sheila

• Farmington

• Maine
• United States

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Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

I enjoy the outdoors. I like to hunt, fish, camp, ride motorcycles, golf,and travel. I would like to meet someone to have things to do with. I also enjoy cooking and working on different household projects. I am interested in developing a friendship first and then see where things lead. Don't like the bar scene. Would like to meet someone who has a sense of adventure is honest and secure. lonely not desperate. not into being a pen pal. If you don't have a picture I will not respond.

Shanta

• Farmington

• Maine
• United States

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Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

I love to travel and also love to be home. I enjoy life; it's good. I do not dwell on things I can not change. I look at challenges in life as an opportunity to grow. I continue to expand my knowledge and awareness by taking classes, workshops and reading. My passion is helping others heal and awakening their inner healer.I like varied music but am drawn to sultry artists.My intention is to meet the right man for me, someone who is kind, loving, lighthearted (you don't take yourself to seriously). I like to travel, hike, kayak so it's important that you are able.

Trula

• Farmington

• Maine
• United States

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Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

I've been told that have one of those personalities that can get along with anyone. It is mainly because I listen and care about what you're saying. My life has been enhanced by working with children and young adults, who keep me young and remind me to appreciate life and live it to the fullest. It is important for me to stay active. Simple things like a game of catch or Frisbee or even washing cars together are fun. My bike riding is getting better. I'm not a fan of camping, but will do it once in awhile if a canoe trip is involved. That doesn't mean I don't like the outdoors. Campfires are the bomb!!! Dinner and movies are fine! I'm into gardening and interior decorating and I'm not afraid of hard work. It's fun trying new things and I really like school. I am very much into the KC music scene and can show you lots. I am spiritual person of strong faith but not so much about religion. If I had the ideal relationship it would be someone who works hard, owns their own home and likes it that way! It needs to be someone who takes time for me by listening & seeing each other fairly regular basis. I'm over the "playing game" but willing to try because as male and female we truly think differently and it is a must! Real intelligence is super sexy, which is very different than being a "know-it-all"! That would be my Mr. Right! Maybe our time together will lead into something and perhaps it wont; but either way we can still have a friendship and that's very cool. Life is too short not to enjoy the company of others and take chances. If I sound I sound like someone you would like get to know then inbox me. I look forward from hearing from you. First date? I'm sure we'll think of something we can agree on!

Lamberttravhl

• Farmington

• Maine
• United States

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Man. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

Looking for: woman. In age: 23-33

Hi! My name is Lamberttravhl. I am never married catholic caucasian man without kids from Farmington, Maine, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

Kaylee

• Farmington

• Maine
• United States

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Woman. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

Looking for: man. In age: 18-28

Hi! My name is Kaylee. I am never married spiritual but not religious caucasian woman without kids from Farmington, Maine, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

In

• Farmington

• Maine
• United States

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Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

I wish I knew the secret or had the talent to write about myself that would attract the kind of man I am seeking. I have tried several ways to write in this section, but I am not meeting many unique or special men who focus on the important things in life. I've searched and searched profiles that all seem to read the same and have nothing about them that tells me they are men who realize the traits one needs to have a good romantic relationship. I am convinced that perseverance will find me a man with honest and good character; someone who stands out from the mediocrity of mankind.We decent and intelligent women get it - men are usually more about the visual and physical chemistry than you are about the heart, mind and soul. But when will you men get it that the success of a romantic relationship is NOT about looks, snuggling, flowers and walks on the beach holding hands?!!! It is nice to have those things and they do happen with the right person, but the reality is, no matter what you WANT, what you NEED is a truly decent, kind, loving, honest, generous, not needy, compromising, communicative, flexible, compassionate, loyal, humane, respectful, understanding woman!! And what a decent woman needs in a man is exactly the same thing. The success and longevity of the relationship will be based on getting what you NEED, not just what you want, and your ability to seek and reach the enlightenment about which I am writing. Attraction is important, of course, but if your preferences are so shallow or limited, or based on society's false pretense of beauty, perhaps you may want to evolve more as a human being and allow your attractions to be influenced by the light inside the other person, which makes the outside shine with a physical beauty more impactful and real than you could ever imagine!I am not materialistic or shallow. I'm not really concerned about your Harley's or boats, love for sports, how much money you make, your height, weight, hair, music loves, muscles, the car you drive, the house you live in, the way you claim to love God but you don't know how to show love to your fellow mankind, or that you want a woman who wears high heels! That shallowness will attract shallowness and it will get exactly what follows.What "I" care about is your humanity, your self-respect and respect for others, your integrity, your open-mindedness, your empathy, your genuiness... your ability to evolve, grow and learn...your vulnerability to open yourself up to soulfully loving a woman while retaining your masculinity...your hopes, goals and dreams...your care for animals, the environment, children, the helpless, the disadvantaged, the weak...your ability to get through each day with optimism, fortitude, child-like innocence, fun, adventure, spirituality, awe, forgiveness and thankfulness.The success of a relationship will be valued by our ability to uplift, uphold, support, encourage and unselfishly help each other. I want a one-in-a-million man and will search the earth for one. I am willing to relocate for that one-in-a-million man.I believe in volunteer work. I was a volunteer for a NYC homeless shelter for two years and a volunteer tutoring children with school work for 6 years. I have an unmarried older brother who had a stroke two years ago and I am his POA, his medical advocate and I cook all his meals for him to assure proper nutrition. I am loyal, dedicated, determined, loving and full of faith.I don't want a man who has a "type." Even if I am your type, if you are not evolved enough to understand that anyone you meet has the possibility to change your life for the better, open up new worlds and dimensions to you, expose you to a love or experience you have never known before...well, you would probably bore me after awhile anyway. I like open-mindedness, not closed, conservative awareness. I really like people who walk through this journey and world and actually "live," not just exist. I'm not appreciative of a man who does not attempt to treat each person who messages him on this site with respect, knowing she is a human being with a heart and soul, not an anonymous entity to disregard and mistreat. The virtual/computer/internet world is no excuse to be unkind. I message every single man who contacts me. Sometimes it is a "thank you, but no thank you" response, but I always respond and wish the other person well. Remember that when a woman messages you, even if she is undesirable to you, it is still a compliment and didn't your mother teach you to say, "Thank you"? Why is this any different?If you are an honest, genuine man who has written an honest profile on here, be patient with the women who are interested in you, but need to be assured of your genuineness before giving you private information and meeting in person. Allow us to expect the respect from the men we meet on here that you would want your mother, sister, daughter or female friend to expect. It is very confusing and scary while internet dating. Have empathy. I understand there are women on here who are not genuine also; they misrepresent themselves in a variety of ways so they do not want to actually meet, but don't assume that if we delay the meeting, it is because we don't want to meet!I am very fun-loving, honest, direct, loyal, open-minded, intelligent, well-traveled, well-spoken on just about anything, very easy to make new friends all over the world, very dedicated to family and loved ones, diverse in interests, extremely optimistic and positive while retaining a sense of reality, frugal and hard-working. I am a risk taker (never with stupidity or regarding anything illegal) and that has produced a lot of unique, wonderful experiences as well as several hardships. I live life to the fullest and have absolutely no regrets. When I die, I will die peacefully and in the comfort that I went after everything in life that I wanted and loved a lot along the way. I am an extremely flexible person with many interests and likes. What we actually do on the first meeting doesn't really matter. What matters is you are respectful, honest, considerate and communicative about wants/needs/expectations. I would hope that before we meet, we already have an honest comradery and attraction started. I didn't join this site to meet men and date; I can do that on my own right where I live. I am tired of the monotony and mediocrity of what I meet. I joined this site to meet ONE very unique, incredible, special man who has evolved enough to understand this whole profile and is open to understanding that I may be a woman so unique and loving that his life will never be the same after meeting me.