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Brandy, 53

United States, Maine, Farmington

Offline, last seen Sat, 15 Aug 2026 13:45:15

About Me

I would really like to just get on with my life and move forward. I do not mind having alone time at all., it allows us to reflect and learn from our life and ourselves every day.. But i am ready to enjoy the rest of my life laughing and not spend so much of it alone..or working or mowing the grass or watching a sitcom and crack up laughing and know that i am the only one in the house. So with that being said....... Here goes me... If you are ready for this me..I am the type of girl who will burst out laughing in dead silence at something that happened yesterday.. I believe that what lies before us and what lies behind us is nothing compared to what lies within us.. I believe that if you have enemies..good..that means you stood up for something in your life. I believe that someday someone will walk into our lives and make us realize why it never worked with anyone else. I would just like to say that I am about as real as it gets... I still have the little girl in me with hopes and dreams that i still wait for to come true..one of them still.., that i will find the one love to gracefully grow old with.Sometimes it would be easier to be alone but loneliness is everything it's cracked up to be! whether we want to admit it or not....we are all looking for the same exact thing and late at night when the lights are out and no one is looking ...we all feel the lonliness tug at our heartstrings, yet still a glimmer of hope we find what we yearn for. I personally believe it truly doesn t matter what the first date is about as long as there is a connection and chemistry with each other...you can actually just sit and stare at a rock with a person and be happy... if they are the right person.. it is all in who you are with....and that is a fact...! i love nature..it is one of the greatest of all things...i love the rain...thunderstorms...the first snowfall.....autumn..walking thru the leaves...the stars...campfires. All of which are fantastic alone, but would only be even more great when shared with someone that you want to spend the rest of your life with..........first date? i would just like to spend some time together ..get to know one another...take a walk in the evening....maybe just sit down outside in the middle of god and nature....and talk....about whatever it is that we feel is important at the time and if we feel comfortable with each other..conversation will come naturally...and take it from there.....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Country music Soft rock music Movies Theather Quiet time CampingChristian music Family gathering Gardening Vacations Hanging w/friendsI am not into the bar scene. I like to hear the rain drops on the roof while cuddling on the couch. I am honest and look for honesty in people.I enjoy watching the sunset. I like going to movies, camping, going on vacation, cruises,theater, concerts and hanging with my friends.I try and be positive even when life throws me a curve.I enjoy having someone to come home to.I enjoy being with and doing things with my family.I try to eat healty, but enjoy making cookies at Christmas.I like a variety of music. I do not care for hard rock or rap. I can be shy, but there have been times people say I talk too much.I enjoy listening to the innocent things the kids. I teach religion to say. (They are too honest!)I fell comfortable dressing up and in jeans.I would like to meet someone who is upfront with their likes and dislikes. I would like to just meet, have coffee or something to eat. We could meet and just talk, get that "just meeting you uneasy feeling" over with. I would be willing to go play putt putt golf if you don't laugh when it takes me more than par to get the ball in the hole. On a real rare occassion I might be willing to go bowling if we get the alley to put in the "bumper things" so I might get some of the pins down.

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