Have you ever been in the situation when you both deeply respect each other, take care of each other, but something is missed? How could it happen? You loved each other so much and thought it would never end, but now seem to leave together just because you’ve got used to.Maybe one of you needs more than the other can give? Maybe one of you expected more from these relationships? There are a lot of reasons why you don’t feel love and affection anymore and it’s not always just because you’ve been together too long and the sparkle has gone. But once this thought craved into your head and hasn’t left it yet – just stop and think if you really want to live the same way the rest of your life.
This situation is really complicated and stressful for both of you. Especially it can be hurtful if your relationships were going well before. But, believe staying in such relationships can destroy your life and the life of your partner. The longer it lasts – the harder it will be to stop later.
I don’t want to encourage you to break up immediately (and of course you are not going to do it right now). Just ask yourself how many times you told yourself that everything would change and your great feeling would come back to you? But, according to my personal experience, if nothing changes – nothing changes.
Listen to your heart and to your common sense – if they tell you that there is nothing to fight for, just maybe it’s time to say good bye?