Let’s say you are dating this really nice girl and you are genuinely fond of this relationship. It’s been a few dates already and it seems like a perfect time to get intimate but then she suddenly stops you and it turns out that she has never actually had sex with anyone. How should you act in this situation? What are the rules? Should you make a move or wait for her to be ready?
Dating someone who has less sexual experience than you is totally normal, especially in your twenties. Though, you should be ready that this relationship might be different from what you have experienced before. If you want to enrich and develop your relationship with your partner, here are some tips to consider before starting dating a virgin.
What are your expectations?
It may feel awkward but it’s extremely important to talk about sexual life. Ask her if she feels comfortable having sex at this period of her life? Or maybe she wants to wait until to know each other better.
Be open about your priorities as well. Do you think it will be a long-term relationship or is it just a short fling for you? Talk to her. Don’t pressure her with having sex earlier than she is ready for it. But at the same time, if she doesn’t want to have sex until marriage, think twice if you are really ready for it.
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Is it important for her?
A lot of men think that the first sex for a virgin is a big deal. But it’s not true. Not every girl cares about her virginity that much. So, instead of freaking out that you’ll be the “first one” for her, better find out if she really cares about it that much. Or maybe she is just waiting for the right moment to do it with someone she would eventually like (this even might be you!).
Take things slowly
Don’t push her to do it and don’t force her to decide when she’ll be ready. Don’t rush things out, especially if you are looking for a long-term relationship. Start with the little things and maybe eventually she’ll be the one to make a first move.
Be there for her
Emotional support is very important, especially if you are dating a virgin. Be there for her, support her need to wait some time. Make sure she feels comfortable and not confused when you are finally making a move.
Start with an emotional intimacy
Being close emotionally is very important when you are dating a virgin. Having a mental boundary with her will significantly improve your relationship. You have to be sure that your partner trusts you and only then it may lead to the physical contact as well.
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Dating a virgin is not as scary as it seems. It may require a bit more responsibility than with any other girl but if you are looking for a serious long-term relationship, it will eventually pay off.