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WranglerArkansas City
- Kansas
- United States
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Man. 61 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: woman. In age: 44-64
Hi! My name is Wrangler. I am divorced catholic caucasian man without kids from Arkansas City, Kansas, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.
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PamellaArkansas City
- Kansas
- United States
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Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 30-40
I am a 33 year old who loves to play with my kids an laugh. I am newly divorced and am just looking for someone to laugh with. I have a 13 year old boy who amazes me more everyday. I have a 6 year old who drives me crazy but I wouldn't have it any other way. I work at a greenhouse and enjoy working out in the field an getting dirty planting stuff. I'm usually laid back an enjoy the outside and just want someone to make me laugh. Dinner, movie , lots of laughing !!
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Austynlauppeu0Arkansas City
- Kansas
- United States
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Man. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: woman. In age: 21-30
Hi! My name is Austynlauppeu0. I am never married agnostic caucasian man without kids from Arkansas City, Kansas, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.
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CielArkansas City
- Kansas
- United States
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Woman. 29 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 26-36
I work from home and don't get out too often but am looking for a life partner. I have a huge heart and just wan someone to share it with. I enjoy playing softball and spending time with family but a quiet night in is always the best. Please don't waste my time if you're not looking for something substantial. Too many booty calls on these sites and that is soooo not me! My ideal first date would be going somewhere public but quiet enough to be able to have an intimate conversation. Following that up with something fun if things go well is always an added plus.
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WinonaArkansas City
- Kansas
- United States
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Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 29-39
I make mistakes, I'm not perfect, I'm out of control, sometimes a lil crazy, and at times hard to handle, but if you can't handle me at my worst, you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.As with material possessions or professional achievements, relationships give our ego a method by which to identify who we are to the outside world. The problem is that we attach so much of our identity to the external appearance of our relationships that we lose touch with the parts of ourselves that are wise and conscious. The attachment to this false identity leads to a feeling of desperation rather than fulfillment. After all, without the relationship, or the job, or whichever other false identity we have chosen, who would we be? Besides the ego identification, it's easy to develop a dependency on companionship. That independent person that we once were starts to evaporate. Our mind becomes fogged and as our self-identification begins to attach itself to the other person, unconsciously or consciously, we become afraid to lose that person. We become dependent on that person and fearful of loneliness. Out of our emotional insecurities, we start to become needy and to seek out validation from our partner. So, *** focusing on the celebration of love and partnership, it becomes a game of how to protect ourselves from loss. Out of a desire to avoid appearing needy and out of a fear of losing our partner, we start to filter what we say. In doing so, we do not communicate our needs clearly, openly or bravely. We somehow become convinced that our partner will magically know what to do to fulfill our needs. When our needs are not met, we secretly blame the other person and begin to resent them. When we are unhappy, our partner will pick up on the clues, and in turn, secretly resent us, thus starting a vicious cycle in the silent destruction of a romantic partnership. So much of what needed to be said was not said, and bad feelings are bottled up and start to accumulate for both parties. Have you ever had a friend come to you and complain about all of the things they are unhappy about with their partner? Those are the kinds of things they should be telling their partner, if they actually want a change. Worse yet is when one partner openly communicates their needs only to find that the other party is simply not listening, or does not fully acknowledge what was said, or makes them feel guilty for having those needs. Deep down, we are all really good people. But this doesn't mean that any combination of two good people will make a good partnership. There is such thing as a bad fit, and it is okay to admit it. The best fits are ones where the most important values for both people are met. They must have life goals that align with one another and have a mutual attraction, understanding, and level of respect for each other. Both people must be committed to making the partnership their top priority. Sometimes, even when we realize that our relationship isn't a good fit, we justify staying in it with what seem like logical reasons. We may feel that we won't find another person who accepts and loves us as much as the current partner. Or we may be afraid to be alone, so we simply settle by default. Each time we are reminded of the bad fit, we brush it under the rug and distract ourselves with some other thought. We may feel that we are doing a service to the other person by staying in the relationship, but in reality, we are hurting them by not being honest with them and ourselves. And we are accumulating bad feelings and bad energy in our inner space. The problem comes when we find ourselves in a relationship and we are constantly comparing our partners with this conjured-up "perfect" person. When that happens, we stop appreciating our partner for all the beautiful qualities they do possess. The truth is this perfect person does not exist. More importantly, we may not actually need all of these qualities in a partner to be extraordinarily happy. What we need is to identify the most important qualities that we must have in order to feel satisfied and fulfilled . By not having identified the must-have qualities in our chosen life partner, we end up settling, and since the person cannot give us the things we truly need, we start to resent them. This will snowball into larger issues. In life, we will get random results if we have not specified what we want. Identifying and understanding what it is that we need in a relationship, allows us to set clear intentions, and in doing so, moves us closer to realizing our intended desires. I'm up for anything fun.........
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GabiArkansas City
- Kansas
- United States
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Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 32-42
I\'m the competitor\'s competitor. I always want to win and I always want to outperform my highest level. Please don\'t message me if you smoke, do drugs, are looking to hook-up, or are under my height.
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KamilahArkansas City
- Kansas
- United States
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Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 28-38
... I'm sure that's what all the girls on here say.... I love all sport, both to watch and to play (most of them) and love a footy match on a Saturday , although my reaction would be varied in regards to the strip you wear to watch it... A great night out = dinner , drinks , dancing - on their own - or all three !!! But a great night in = Sofa , nice food , wine and cuddles with crap TV... Want to travel and visit some beautiful places and need to find someone to do that with - bora bora next on my list , and Whistler to ski. I love to ski in the winter, city break in the autumn and spring , and lie on a beach in the summer, as I love all of the seasons within their own right... I don't follow the sun :-) I have a very varied taste when it comes to books- maybe as varied as my taste full stop! If you are genuine, honest and funny - (Tall is always a bonus) and seek an adventure then get in contact..... Great sense of humor is very important and I love to laugh ... Although sometimes I don't get the joke- so sorry if you have to explain things :). Take care of myself, love to work out and love to shop ( who doesn't ) and spend an afternoon in a spa , but love to also be in slobs on a Sunday with my hair scraped back , after a nice long walk and a roast and red wine ! ... Eventually would like to travel to every country in the world. Fast cars amazing... But strolling along just as great - if you with the right person. I am fiercely independent , so if you are looking for a girl who will do everything you say .. its not me ....Message me , would love to chat and see if you hold that crown, and can truly sweep me off my feet ! I would be the perfect princess ..... In every way :-) x Something exciting .. and different.
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DaniArkansas City
- Kansas
- United States
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Woman. 29 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 26-36
I enjoying cooking, now if I could find someone to cook for! Huge Angels fan as well as the 49ers. I enjoy going to the game as well as staying home and watching it on TV. Like going to concerts any where from Pink to Jason Aldean. Always up to trying new adventures. NOT LOOKING FOR A ONE NIGHT STAND, IF YOU ARE PLEASE MOVE ALONG! Something simple to where we could get to know each other. Getting something to eat, coffee or even grab a drink.
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TallboyArkansas City
- Kansas
- United States
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Man. 69 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: woman. In age: 44-62
Hi! My name is Tallboy. I am divorced other african man with kids from Arkansas City, Kansas, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.
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BreanaArkansas City
- Kansas
- United States
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Woman. 28 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 25-35
I'm 28 years old. I'm sophisticated and classy. I love to have fun and be out doors. I have a Bachelors degree. I'm working two jobs. Love going to crossfit. I love anything outdoors, going to the movies, bowling, dinners, concerts and etc!
