SIMILAR PEOPLE
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HerlindaOffline
Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
Looking for someone with common interests whether its hanging out at home or going out for a nice dinner and listening to some music. Nothing serious but if the chemistry is there, we'll see where it may lead. Fun, relaxed, get to know each other over a drink and dinner.
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NamOffline
Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
So, how do we succeed at this dating game? Guess I am still trying to figure that one out. If you are on this site, perhaps you are, too.The way I see it is: what we have here is not a problem with scarcity-- there are many many MANY great single guys and gals out there.What we have is a sorting problem. And the way we sort is pretty simple: we openly and honestly tell each other what it is we want and need in a relationship. We also talk about our deal breakers. These open conversations do require the participants to be willing to be vulnerable, for that is truly the only way that anything wonderful can happen between us.(I did say the sorting was simple, I sure didn't say it would be EASY...)As for me, what I am looking for is good conversation and affection. Someone who shows as much interest in me as I do in them. Long, slow, passionate make out sessions. Lots of laughter. A long-term committed relationship is the ultimate goal, yet I am perfectly fine with taking it slow until we both discover that that is what we want.Authenticity and integrity are very important to me, and crucial for a fulfilling relationship.I'll be who I am, you be who you are. If our personalities and interests and dreams mesh, we may be onto something.If not, well, thanks for playing, best of luck...So, shall we have that conversation? I'm up for pretty much anything. We could keep it simple. Coffee or drinks. A walk in the park. Beer and ice cream. I'm game:)
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SerenityOffline
Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
I cannot describe my personality in one word, at least a dozen of those words describe me (artsy, hippie, hedonist, geek, sapiophile, etc. etc.). Yup, human beings are dynamic, go figure.I love my life, my kids, my dogs... even my son's cat. At this point I would describe my life as nearly perfect. I'm happy with all I have, all I've done, all I've let go, and all that I hold dear. I have a descent job (career)... Let's leave it at that.I do not drink, as a personal choice, I don't have an issue with it, just don't enjoy it.I have tattoos. I love my tattoos. I love people with tattoos and the stories behind them.I'm an artist, I guess you'd say semi-professional as I've sold paintings here and there for a long time. It's one of the greatest loves of my life... creative expression.I'm a very handy person. I enjoy doing home renos and I love to learn new things.I enjoy staying active. I hike and bike and exercise rigorously 4 to 6 times a week, depending on the week. I love music of all genres (more so with rock, less so with country and rap). I'm a concert junkie, it's how I plan my holidays/road trips. Music is life!!Something that totally sets me apart from other women... I absolutely loathe shopping, I'm not into makeup and fashion is just something that happens... So, yeah, I'm not a "high maintenance girly girl". I do, however, love to cook. I'm a chronic quitter... with smoking that is. I've done this on again/off again thing for years, quitting for 2 years at a time. One day it will stick, just hasn't yet. I've been on my own for a long time. I preferred to raise my kids without a "step-parent" in the picture. I guess I'm a little old-school in that regard. But now they are nearly grown, it's time to change pace. What I seek is another completely dynamic person with positive and negative qualities that mesh well with my own positive and negative qualities (yes, we all have them both). I would prefer someone relatively close to my age who is a music and art lover. Someone who likes to hike, bike and stay active. Someone who is secure in who they are on their own and as a "couple". By no means do I "need" anyone to the point that I'll settle again, that never works. All that I have is too important to let just anyone in. Compatibility, communication, commrodary... Those are all top priorities. And, of course, the standard, honest, sincere, intelligent, kind... yadda yadda... I think those things go without saying. :) Thanks for your time and best of luck to all in the search.