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So, how do we succeed at this dating game? Guess I am still trying to figure that one out. If you are on this site, perhaps you are, too.The way I see it is: what we have here is not a problem with scarcity-- there are many many MANY great single guys and gals out there.What we have is a sorting problem. And the way we sort is pretty simple: we openly and honestly tell each other what it is we want and need in a relationship. We also talk about our deal breakers. These open conversations do require the participants to be willing to be vulnerable, for that is truly the only way that anything wonderful can happen between us.(I did say the sorting was simple, I sure didn't say it would be EASY...)As for me, what I am looking for is good conversation and affection. Someone who shows as much interest in me as I do in them. Long, slow, passionate make out sessions. Lots of laughter. A long-term committed relationship is the ultimate goal, yet I am perfectly fine with taking it slow until we both discover that that is what we want.Authenticity and integrity are very important to me, and crucial for a fulfilling relationship.I'll be who I am, you be who you are. If our personalities and interests and dreams mesh, we may be onto something.If not, well, thanks for playing, best of luck...So, shall we have that conversation? I'm up for pretty much anything. We could keep it simple. Coffee or drinks. A walk in the park. Beer and ice cream. I'm game:)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electronic Rock Internet Browsing Caribbean Irish Middle Eastern Action Comedy Volleyball
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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I consider myself intelligent, with a great sense of humor. I am looking to meet some new people and see what happens. I am open to friendship or a relationship. I am a huge sports fan, love football & basketball. I enjoy outgoing men who like to have fun. That special man should be tall (6'0 or taller) handsome, sexy, intelligent, honest, caring and active. If your not the whole package don't bother wasting your time.

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    First time I've ever done anything like this, just interested to see what's out there and maybe find a friend who has similiar interests. I work too much (trying to change that) and have 2 beautiful daughters, 14 and 10, that are my life! I live in the middle of nowhere but enjoy it thoroughly. As I sit here typing on my deck with the music cranked and not one neighbor close enough to complain :)I would consider myself a rather laid back person. Generally have fun doing most anything. I'm a huge NY Giants fan (loving on the "other" Haven't had much time to enjoy many hobbies recently but I love to play poker, go bowling every once in awhile and bike trips with my girls. I love all types of music, listening to and playing as well. I enjoy being outdoors, hiking, biking and enjoying this beautiful state we live in. Camping and bonfires (when we don't have all these fire bans) with a few cold beers, just wish I had more time.One key point to who I am is the fact that I am brutally honest! At 41, I'm very much over playing games! I deal with enough teenage drama through my daughters world that I have no desire to deal with it in an adult relationship, friendship or otherwise. I've come to the conclusion that life is going to take us wherever it chooses and as soon as we accept we're just along for the ride, the sooner we can relax and enjoy it!In regards to the "occasional" smoker in my profile..... for those of you who smoke, you're well aware there is no such thing. Didn't want to lie so "occasional" means I'm trying to quit but not quite there yet. One of these days I hope I can change that status to "Non"! I'm also NOT looking for a one night stand or friends with benefits!!....or any other location that appeals to you :) Ok, maybe we should hold off on the boat ride until the 3rd date. Somewhere we can actually hear each other, get to know one another (silence in a movie theatre just doesn't work so well)!! Good conversation and lots of laughter sounds perfect, over drinks or coffee, your choice!

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am a mom of two very wonderful girls 9 & 12. I have my daughters full time and I love every minute of it.. I own my home( actually I make the mortgage on time) and I can mow the yard when I have to. Of course starting the lawn mower is another story and I can't make lawn patterns. Just kidding I make great lawn patterns. I am looking for someone that is a christian and dedicated to their family. I believe for a relationship to work we need to have the similar beliefs. There are many things that I can compromise on but religion is not one. For me Christian is more that just believing there is a god. Now with that said I am not a religious finatic just wise enough to know if you attend church and pray god will answer.I tend to be sarcastic . I am a strong and independent women but yet I can lean on someone if they allow it.The man for me will be willing to be faithful in the good and the bad. I am looking for someone that is willing to give as much as they receive. I am not one to forget your birthday. The little details are important to me. Ps I am hoping you don't think your best photo for a dating site is in the bathroom.I have lots of interests including camping,( in our travel trailer not on the ground) if you can back up a trailer that is a definite plus in my book. I really enjoy reading and traveling. I don't smoke, I rarely drink and I don't have any tattoos.I have a great job that I really enjoy. I make my own schedule but at times its a little demanding. My music tends to evolve with the taste of my 12 year old daughter. Have a wonderful day. Lets meet for Coffee to see if there is chemistry. With out Chemistry there is really no point moving forward

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