Singles In Inver Grove Heights, MN

Charlyn

• Inver Grove Heights

• Minnesota
• United States

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Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

So here is my attempt at being absolutely honest.Firstly,Gentlemen, I think you mean well...however,asking for long explanation of someones life is not making conversation, it feels like an interrogation.I went to a lot of trouble to write quite a bit here, if your profile consists of 3 sentences, and write me simply asking me to tell you "My story" you are an idiot.If you are even remotely wondering if you could be a narcissist... I beg you ,Nay I implore you, keep clicking. ;)Having said that..Lets start with the bad.1. My hair does not always look like this,yes it is long,and red,and at the moment in a pony tail. It can look nice,I know that,at times I clean up okay.I am not a Barbie,anyone wanting that is going to be sorely disappointed..lolI am a real person,right now I have and my hair in a ponytail,and that is how I wear it half the time..2.I am picky, I've heard....Cant really help that.Its not at all that I think I'm so great or anything else,except I still believe "The One" is out there somewhere.I'm only putting myself through this to find him.I read people writing here that looks don't matter.I tend not to believe that, in most cases.. Looks do matter...a lot. Some people just prefer one look to another.Personally I seem to be attracted tall semi scruffy,men with a cute smile. Yes,like everyone,I know.Men in ponytails are about the sexiest thing ever in my book.Bald can be very sexy on the right guy. Goatees are cute, big furry beards,just not doing anything for me.Very pretty yuppie looking men,are just a no..It is a safe bet to say,if you get a manicure more then me,its a no..Exceptions are always possible.After that,who really knows what makes one person so irresistible,and another..just not..:(I know all this sounds shallow,in the end suppose it is,again..cant help it.In some way I do believe" The One" must look like in some way what I'm attracted to... I don't pretend to have the answers.Fate hardly cares what I think anyways,I have found that out..3.I'm not a "things" person.... Yes, I like stuff,not quite enough to give up much freedom to pay for it.No I don't steal. Yes,I do work.I don't begrudge you yours(things)either.Its just not something I care about.Your things don't impress me at all,I don`t care what kind of truck/car you have,where you live. I have my own truck,my own place. I'm not looking for someone else's.4. Almost deleted this..I like musicians.. I always have,I have no idea why,it is a problem I am aware of. Im seeking help.lol..It could be something I will get over,however it seems unlikely.I am not starstruck or a groupie type.I have no musical talent at all. Casual musicians,guitar pickers,seem to also seem to fit this requirement. It could just be the long hair,no amount of soul searching has produced the answer for this.I would actually be dead glad to date a man that isn't a musician. I have not had good luck with them..It just seems my fate. One I`d be VERY happy to change. If that is you..please let me know.. Seriously...5. I am more of a Tomboy then a princess type,if you are afraid to get dirty,I will laugh at you..I own dresses and high heels, I clean up nice I think.I also own mud boots and tons of old jeans and old tshirts.6. I have kids.Young ones at home.(12and ***I am not having anymore.. If you hate kids,are annoyed by them,stop reading now. I would like it if you had kids,that makes sense to me. I am certainly not having anymore...7.I am a terrible typer. I work on the computer,its not improving.It looks like I am drunk half the time. I`m not.8. If I really like you,I will say stupid things.I don't know why,I try not to,I just do.I only get my foot out of mouth long enough,to get the other one in.Its unlikely this will change either,as much as I wish that it would.This fortunately does go quickly,its possibly a bloodline curse..I'm not sure. Kind people generally find it funny. Judgmental people do not find this funny,I try to disclose it,I know it will happen.I dread it every time.. The good thing,is also this is an isolated issue,that is only activated around men I really like alot..9. I have horses,and farm animals.If we end up together,I'm going to ask you to help with the fences.. That is just life,fences break down,they need fixed.It is very hard to do by yourself. If that sounds like a nightmare for you,Im not the girl for you.I will however do things that are in compensation for said fence fixing help etc..The Good.1.I am not shallow,I do not judge people by their station in life or their bank account or by the car they drive.I've had a lot of money,and driven the best cars,and lived in fantastic places. I do not any more,because it wasn`t worth the cost,in freedom.Everyone has their priorities,and we all find them at different times.Life is an adventure,if you stop growing,that when you start to get old. I am certainly not the person I was 10 years ago,or even last week.2.I am good with children and animals,I will like your dog,your dog will like me,your kids will like me.. This has always been a constant,Im not bragging,its just true.3.I can cook,quite well I have been told.I don't eat fast food,okay I try not to.I try to cook with as much organic as can..Chemicals are bad..I grew up on a farm.. Real food is good..I would really like to grow much more of my own vegetables etc. I blew it on the garden this year,next year I have huge plans.You should care about this in some way. I think the world is slightly in trouble,it is good to have your own food,also you know where it came from,and it tastes better. I am not a crazy zealot,I just think it makes sense. Its fun to grow things isn't it?4.I`m not crazy,colorful yes,but never in a dangerous way.My exes all still speak to me.Most still like me a lot,and we are friends. If you run,I will not chase you. I am neat like that. Even if hurts I will not chase you,life is not a movie,if people runaway,its because they do not want to be near you. I respect this thinking. Its not romantic to stalk.5.I am nice,I don't do mean and nasty things that men fear girls will do.If you lose your job,I will not leave you,I never leave anyone in bad times.This has also been a downfall of mine. If I love you,I am loyal like a dog.I don`t turn in to a devil if I have pms.6.I know things,I read things,I like to talk to men I like..I have ideas,I wont just smile and nod,, lets not call it a date... I also thought I should add that I am a serious MMJ advocate/activist, so if that bothers you, probably better to keep clicking. If you have any interest why, just ask ;)What I definitely do not want to do, is go for a ride on anyones harley......

Cassia

• Inver Grove Heights

• Minnesota
• United States

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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

I do not like to write about myself. I did meetville a year ago and I thought I found a great match....but It did not work out. I am giving a second chance to the site... Spent 20 years in US and I still have an accent. I am 43 and I dont play games. Looking for a passionate relationship. I am funny, educated with a great job.I would like to see your picture (real and recent). surprise me!

Toro

• Inver Grove Heights

• Minnesota
• United States

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Man. 25 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

Looking for: woman. In age: 19-40

Hi! My name is Toro. I am never married other hispanic man without kids from Inver Grove Heights, Minnesota, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

Serenity

• Inver Grove Heights

• Minnesota
• United States

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Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

I cannot describe my personality in one word, at least a dozen of those words describe me (artsy, hippie, hedonist, geek, sapiophile, etc. etc.). Yup, human beings are dynamic, go figure.I love my life, my kids, my dogs... even my son's cat. At this point I would describe my life as nearly perfect. I'm happy with all I have, all I've done, all I've let go, and all that I hold dear. I have a descent job (career)... Let's leave it at that.I do not drink, as a personal choice, I don't have an issue with it, just don't enjoy it.I have tattoos. I love my tattoos. I love people with tattoos and the stories behind them.I'm an artist, I guess you'd say semi-professional as I've sold paintings here and there for a long time. It's one of the greatest loves of my life... creative expression.I'm a very handy person. I enjoy doing home renos and I love to learn new things.I enjoy staying active. I hike and bike and exercise rigorously 4 to 6 times a week, depending on the week. I love music of all genres (more so with rock, less so with country and rap). I'm a concert junkie, it's how I plan my holidays/road trips. Music is life!!Something that totally sets me apart from other women... I absolutely loathe shopping, I'm not into makeup and fashion is just something that happens... So, yeah, I'm not a "high maintenance girly girl". I do, however, love to cook. I'm a chronic quitter... with smoking that is. I've done this on again/off again thing for years, quitting for 2 years at a time. One day it will stick, just hasn't yet. I've been on my own for a long time. I preferred to raise my kids without a "step-parent" in the picture. I guess I'm a little old-school in that regard. But now they are nearly grown, it's time to change pace. What I seek is another completely dynamic person with positive and negative qualities that mesh well with my own positive and negative qualities (yes, we all have them both). I would prefer someone relatively close to my age who is a music and art lover. Someone who likes to hike, bike and stay active. Someone who is secure in who they are on their own and as a "couple". By no means do I "need" anyone to the point that I'll settle again, that never works. All that I have is too important to let just anyone in. Compatibility, communication, commrodary... Those are all top priorities. And, of course, the standard, honest, sincere, intelligent, kind... yadda yadda... I think those things go without saying. :) Thanks for your time and best of luck to all in the search.

Jockobatzi

• Inver Grove Heights

• Minnesota
• United States

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Man. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

Looking for: woman. In age: 35-55

I love trying out something new and can have fun doing anything from staying home to partying it up in the city. I don't have many demands on my partner, you should be just a nice and decent person. Not sure how this sight works. I usually chat on *** yahoo messenger. Not sure if this sight is any better than all the other ones. jockobatzi8ball *** yahoo . com

Tenley

• Inver Grove Heights

• Minnesota
• United States

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Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

Hey there gents. I'm a smart aleck, a little reserved and button up till I get to know folks, but improving on that with age! Looking for someone who also loves to point and laugh at others! lol. I love music and am rarely anywhere without it playing. I lean toward classic rock/ some alt rock and blues, but truly have yet to find a genre that has completely earned my disdain... This is true?? I'm a big fan of NFL football, but not the Seahawks. You local boys will have to get over that one. I'm originally from the 'Burgh and I bleed black and gold. Here we go! I am a mother of 5 beautiful, fantastical, amazing kids and 3 grandsons. They are my heart and soul and have been and will continue to be my priority in this life. I have done what I must to ensure the best life for them, and because of that I have few regrets concerning them. A worthy goal! My oldest daughter and her family are here and my reason for choosing this place. Quickly, I dig live music, men who have a decent command of the English language (prolly drives me nuts, and "than" and "then" are NOT interchangeable, folks!), who can turn an occasional tool, and I am a bit of a geek so if a bit of Marvel or silly Syfy bothers you, well I'm not supressing my enthusiasm, so there you go. Star Wars rocks. (If that piqued your interest, the next answers are Empire, DUH!) l enjoy getting into the details of film and the shows that I like. DVD extras, commentaries, and even some podcasts, are fun if I'm into something and have the time. That's the key. Time. But what is sheeting rain good for? Lol! I love Breaking Bad, Mad Men, Game of Thrones, House of Cards, and occasionally a good comedy though in my opinion they're hard to find. As for books, I like to read a good story. Love that guy! Having literally just moved into the area, 2 things are true. First, I really don't have time to complete this thing and say anything all that clever as the job hunt is on. Second, please understand that I am starting OVER here. Literally. Job, place, life, friends. So if you want to know what I bring to the table? Me. I work very hard, love the people I bring into my life like crazy, and am a passionate person about the things I believe, and the people I back. If you've read this far ( and don't want to punch me just over football alone) give me a shout. You might even be able to tolerate the ACTUAL me! No pressure, good music. Light conversation. A drink, a bite, or even a walk...Time to just chat and see if we click. Could find a friend at least, or more later at best .

Kellie

• Inver Grove Heights

• Minnesota
• United States

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Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

Hi.... Well it's really simple... Please don't message me if you're a lier. I've been lied to enough to last 2 life times. I'm easy going, people usually like my company, I think.lol.. I like to smile so if you think you can make me smile then message me, and who knows, maybe we can smile together. Other then that, if there's anything else you'd like to know, just message me. Let's just do something simple, quiet, personal, no crowds.

Edithe

• Inver Grove Heights

• Minnesota
• United States

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Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

This is the part where I try to describe who I am and what I want without making myself look like a conceited princess or a shallow *ss...Ok I got this:Transplanted myself here from East Coast and I do like it despite the rain. Miss my family (roots) & the food so I try to get back more than once a year.Sports...Yes! I like to watch and go to games esp if my team is playing but, it won't rule my Sat or Sundays.I'm a beach girl... always will be. I grew up with it in my back yard. I do camp & have to say 3 days is my max Lol, I'll be missing my shower gels by that time.I have two teenagers and they live with me 50% of the time. They are the joys of my life when they are not bickering with each other :) While I am a package deal and before we even "go there" , we would need to build our relationship first. I am listed as separated, legally yes, but make no mistake we live in separate homes and are cordial where we need to be especially involving the kids. If you have been divorced you know how expensive it can be especially when the ex keeps wanting to adjust or rewrite a part who knew it would take this long ...filed last October. We have as drama free as it can be. I date until I find that "spark" but then I go offline and I do expect the same from my partner. I actually like the results I get from going to the gym, lately dating and the dining out process (I Am A Foodie) has allowed me to put a few back on...Ugh so I'm back in gym ***days. I enjoy red wine, but not against any microbrewery or vodka martini that comes my way. I completely own that I have a travel bug, always planning the next big ( or little) So many things to be passionate about but lets save that for when we meet...no? I know who I am and I will know it when I feel it, my heart leads the way...I'm looking for a partner yes, but I know it doesn't happen overnight. It takes effort on both parts willing to work together. I love waking up to someone but I'm not afraid to be alone. I know I'm not into just having "fun" or casual hook ups. If that's your thing, cool just have at it with someone else.Thank You and good luck in your search :)****PRIVACY NOTICE:Warning! Any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. IT IS RECOMMENDED THAT OTHER MEMBERS POST A SIMILAR NOTICE TO THIS OR YOU MAY COPY AND PASTE THIS ONE First meet..coffee ( I know ANOTHER coffee date) but if its the most comfortable then why not? An activity sure but... I can get pretty competitive, just sayin'First Date... possibilities are abundant

Laudine

• Inver Grove Heights

• Minnesota
• United States

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Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

I'm a professional Geographer these days who doesn't get out to shows anywhere near as much as I used to. I fill my free time with:Books- lots of books. Mostly nonfiction, usually ***a week. Cooking/baking/canning/eating- I'm a lover of food, what can I say? You'll find me in the kitchen creating a meal or rustling up a pie or some jam at last a couple nights a week. 'nuff said. 'nuff said.Swap meet/thrifting: I do love vintage stuff, particularily household stuff, and I love finding treasures.

Rob

• Inver Grove Heights

• Minnesota
• United States

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Man. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

Looking for: woman. In age: 22-32

Hi! My name is Rob. I am separated catholic caucasian man without kids from Inver Grove Heights, Minnesota, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.