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Serenity, 41

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About Me

I cannot describe my personality in one word, at least a dozen of those words describe me (artsy, hippie, hedonist, geek, sapiophile, etc. etc.). Yup, human beings are dynamic, go figure.I love my life, my kids, my dogs... even my son's cat. At this point I would describe my life as nearly perfect. I'm happy with all I have, all I've done, all I've let go, and all that I hold dear. I have a descent job (career)... Let's leave it at that.I do not drink, as a personal choice, I don't have an issue with it, just don't enjoy it.I have tattoos. I love my tattoos. I love people with tattoos and the stories behind them.I'm an artist, I guess you'd say semi-professional as I've sold paintings here and there for a long time. It's one of the greatest loves of my life... creative expression.I'm a very handy person. I enjoy doing home renos and I love to learn new things.I enjoy staying active. I hike and bike and exercise rigorously 4 to 6 times a week, depending on the week. I love music of all genres (more so with rock, less so with country and rap). I'm a concert junkie, it's how I plan my holidays/road trips. Music is life!!Something that totally sets me apart from other women... I absolutely loathe shopping, I'm not into makeup and fashion is just something that happens... So, yeah, I'm not a "high maintenance girly girl". I do, however, love to cook. I'm a chronic quitter... with smoking that is. I've done this on again/off again thing for years, quitting for 2 years at a time. One day it will stick, just hasn't yet. I've been on my own for a long time. I preferred to raise my kids without a "step-parent" in the picture. I guess I'm a little old-school in that regard. But now they are nearly grown, it's time to change pace. What I seek is another completely dynamic person with positive and negative qualities that mesh well with my own positive and negative qualities (yes, we all have them both). I would prefer someone relatively close to my age who is a music and art lover. Someone who likes to hike, bike and stay active. Someone who is secure in who they are on their own and as a "couple". By no means do I "need" anyone to the point that I'll settle again, that never works. All that I have is too important to let just anyone in. Compatibility, communication, commrodary... Those are all top priorities. And, of course, the standard, honest, sincere, intelligent, kind... yadda yadda... I think those things go without saying. :) Thanks for your time and best of luck to all in the search.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    First time I've ever done anything like this, just interested to see what's out there and maybe find a friend who has similiar interests. I work too much (trying to change that) and have 2 beautiful daughters, 14 and 10, that are my life! I live in the middle of nowhere but enjoy it thoroughly. As I sit here typing on my deck with the music cranked and not one neighbor close enough to complain :)I would consider myself a rather laid back person. Generally have fun doing most anything. I'm a huge NY Giants fan (loving on the "other" Haven't had much time to enjoy many hobbies recently but I love to play poker, go bowling every once in awhile and bike trips with my girls. I love all types of music, listening to and playing as well. I enjoy being outdoors, hiking, biking and enjoying this beautiful state we live in. Camping and bonfires (when we don't have all these fire bans) with a few cold beers, just wish I had more time.One key point to who I am is the fact that I am brutally honest! At 41, I'm very much over playing games! I deal with enough teenage drama through my daughters world that I have no desire to deal with it in an adult relationship, friendship or otherwise. I've come to the conclusion that life is going to take us wherever it chooses and as soon as we accept we're just along for the ride, the sooner we can relax and enjoy it!In regards to the "occasional" smoker in my profile..... for those of you who smoke, you're well aware there is no such thing. Didn't want to lie so "occasional" means I'm trying to quit but not quite there yet. One of these days I hope I can change that status to "Non"! I'm also NOT looking for a one night stand or friends with benefits!!....or any other location that appeals to you :) Ok, maybe we should hold off on the boat ride until the 3rd date. Somewhere we can actually hear each other, get to know one another (silence in a movie theatre just doesn't work so well)!! Good conversation and lots of laughter sounds perfect, over drinks or coffee, your choice!

  • Corona

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    My life since my sons birth has All been about him and now I have decided that while he is still my first focus, I am interested in meeting an *adult*. I must admit to raising my son to be a football fanatic, but make no mistake, I am a very feminine woman who just happens to like and actually understand football. I am very laid back with No time for 'wasting time'. Be real and be honest and that is the first huge step. The rest can be All fun. :-)Very Important: I am not seeking a father for my son. He has a great relationship with his father and we get along well. Somewhere with good music, food and conversation. And Not in that order. -)

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