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Maleah, 47

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Put your seatbelt on gentleman because I’m a special kind of woman has a lot of great qualities and attributes besides my curves. I love to be around funny, positive men that are secure with themselves and happy with their lives. I have lots of married friends and it would be awesome to be able to go out together with them *** being the dreaded third wheel all the time lol. Looks can be deceiving. lol, shallow assumptions based on my appearance and or style. I am much more than meets the eye. I am not dating you 21-..come on now... I am looking for a partner who is mature, has values and some life experience who challenges me mentally as well as physically. Physically I do like varying traits and have a weakness for goatees,scruffy faces...soul patches..unshaven look. Love baseball hats, dark or blond, or shaved short...salt and pepper hair, athletic builds or larger builds, big and tall is nice, taller than me is a must. A sarcastic witty, gentleman over someone uncultivated...duh..if you are a gym rat who allows it to define and consume you, it ceases to be compatible for me. I am all about getting back in shape but I am never going to be a runner, or a gym rat if I wanted to. I am someone who likes to stay relatively active and recently underwent shoulder surgery, so just getting my range of motion back...Slow going but would love to find someone capable of understanding that I can't go into a moshpit or into a batting cage anytime soon LOL but will love going on walks and hikes and possibly grab a drink or a bite to eat..catch a movie, concert, play, etc. I love having a glass of wine or a drink on the weekends or to see a concert, stand up comedy, etc. I love seeing live bands sometimes BUT, I am OVER the nightclub/ bar scene, and are more into going out to dinner and finding different activities...arts, theatre, movies, roadtrips, lasertag..hanging out with friends and family or having people over..entertaining, game nights... over the partying every weekend or nighty. If you are into bars/taverns/getting drunk every weekend or often we won't be a match. Same thing goes for 420. Once in awhile is fine...daily..yeah, not so much Cheech :>..love volleyball, badminton, pingpong, Wii.. family oriented, BBQing, playing games.. Romantic weekend getaways to the mountains, San Juans, etc LOVE!!..love traveling, haven't done it much :( public affection, feeling cherished and feeling that you are proud you are with me.. being romantic and small things like flowers or cards/notes for no reason, hand holding, etc.. in all the dorky random little ways that mean so much but take little effort...I am a sucker for. If you can BBQ or cook or like to entertain together, LOVE that too. If you are not afraid to go to a game night at my friends or families house and can just go with the flow, BONUS POINTS!!!!!!! Also, please no shallow minded homophobic, racists or super conservative small minded types either. I have a diverse group of friends and family, and was raised to accept and love everyone equally. If you think it's acceptable to refer to a person of color as 'colored' , newsflash, you are ***, and that is rude as hell... don't contact me and seriously....REALLY???? Where do you live ?? Go rent 'THE HELP'...educate yourself...regardless ..PLEASE DON'T BREED. ***************************************************************************************************************I know most guys don't actually read these....but it is so impressive when you actually do and have something to say that isn't related to my figure, DOUCHEY MUCH ?? LOL..NOT LOOKING FOR A HOOK UP/ONE NIGHTER or a FWB********************** Meet at starbucks or a local dive or quiet coffee shop.. go for a little walk around the waterfront...*****UPDATE***** SERIOUSLY ....NOT ON HERE TO HOOK UP..ESPECIALLY NOT ON THE FIRST DATE...NOT LOOKING TO SEXT....SOOOOOOO OVER IT. LOOKS CAN BE DECEIVING!!! I AM NOT A PARTY GIRL...BAR FLY..TRAMP...SO QUIT TALKING TO ME LIKE ONE. SWEET JESUS ..also I am NOT A COWGIRL BY ANY....ANY MEANS... don't assume that because of my hat. I am not a fan of country music, decor or cowboys....just a preference. Save your hate mail okay and focus on the next real country/cowgirl you see :> ALSO PS...I LOOOOVE KIDS SO IT'S GREAT IF YOU HAVE SOME..HOWEVER I AM NOT HAVING ANY AT 46...LOL. I ALSO AM A BIT OF A SOCIAL SMOKER..MOST PEOPLE DON'T EVEN REALIZE BECAUSE IT IS A COUPLE HERE AND THERE AND I NEVER DO IT AROUND PEOPLE THAT MIND.and I don't ever smell like it..such a turn off. Gum...fruity body spray lol. Not compatible with someone that thinks they can control me..lol

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Wilhemina

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I would have to describe myself as a spunky, passionate, thoughtful, sweet, sarcastic, playful, caring, intelligent, and sometimes a little nutty, lady! I love flowers, children, jewelry, ball gowns, shoes, beer, baseball, hockey, and even a naughty joke now and then! I enjoy cooking beautiful meals, lighting candles, and taking bubble baths! I like to drive my car with the top down and my music turned up way too loud! (while singing of course) I love "people" from all walks of life, and make a point to speak to as many of them as I can.I am quite personable and can hold my own in most any conversation. I am curious and often find myself "googling" all sorts of random things for more information. I ask questions and I am a good listener. I try to be. I am far from perfect and I know how to forgive. I am compassionate, and I have a great sense of humor! On that note, I am hoping to meet someone wonderful, who I can spend some quality time with laughinchatting, playing, traveling, dreaming, relaxing, and just really enjoying eachother! I love to spend time with friends and would love to meet a great guy that I would be proud to bring along to meet them!! :) I hope that he would have some great friends of his own as well. I say this because I believe someones ability to maintain good, longterm, friendships says tons about who they are!! I am mother to two amazing young adults! They are the most important people in my life and I spend as much time with them as I can. I find that I am most attracted to a man who makes his family a priority and is involved with his children. A man who treats or treated his mother like she is god's gift to the world, speaks volumes to the man that he is. A true gentleman is a MUST in my book, as well.. It's all just great stuff!! I know that I want to be with a man who is secure in who he is and who knows how to treat a woman! Someone who can show his feelings and be honest about what he thinks. Beating around the bush is such a waste of time!! Don't you think? It is important to me that he takes pride in taking care of himself and knows how to enjoy the finer things life has to offer.(and the little things) :) I enjoy being out and about and would probably not do well with someone who is a MAJOR home body. Cozying up and relaxing at home is always nice, just not when it is 75 degrees and sunny outside! Look where we live!! I LOVE IT!! I have this little problem where my mind sometimes thinks my body is 24 years old. I am slowly learning...especially after a pretty major elbow surgery this past year! I do hope that I will always be able to participate in some sort of "sport" for many years to come! I am a romantic and a very sensual woman. Romance can happen anywhere..cooking dinner together and bumping into one another as we move around the kitchen...taking a walk and holding hands...locking eyes across a room and knowing that we are both thinking the same thing.. and kissing..and kissing..mmmm..I am also a fan of time for "ourselves"..if you like an occassional golf trip or hunting excursion with the boys, fine by me! I value my "alone" or "girl time". Two people who can maintain some range of "self" while being part of a great couple will stay together longer. Curious about the other 99.9% ? That would depend..... I'm not a big fan of "coffee dates"

  • Lysanne

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly.- Sam Keen.I am a happy and positive person, kind, warm and always smiling. Love a good joke and am a passionate, affectionate and incorrigible romantic. I was born in Kiev, Ukraine and came to America 25 years ago. I had a happy childhood. Growing up I have learned to swim, tried cross-country ski. Performed in the Drama Theater, played keyboard and sang backup in a High School band. Learned how to play the piano in music school (my Mom made me do it). I'm a good cook and still love to make my traditional childhood Ukrainian and Russian dishes. I taught myself how to speak and read English. Took 3 years Salsa dancing lessons, loved it! I have one son who is 28. Also have four beautiful daughters who will steal your heart, oldest is in college. I'm not looking for a father for them, they have one; just for a great male role model. We are a very happy bunch! It could be anything: cup of coffee/tea or glass of wine with great conversation, a walk, or a casual dinner, somewhere not loud so we can hear each other, etc.I am looking for a heterosexual (Im not a prejudice person) Gentleman. Who enjoys doing things outdoors, but also enjoys quiet times at home. Someone who enjoys regular dates just the two of us, but also enjoys sledding or hiking with the kids and watching PG movies with popcorn and hot chocolate! I'm not into extreme thrills activities, more of a cautious type. I am a mother and I like children. If you are a father, that’s great too. In Profile my answer is NO to wanting more kids, meaning newborns. Well, unless they’re grandkids ;) I'm not in a hurry but am looking for serious relationship. And just to make it clear, I want to take my time to get to know each other first. I am looking for a Gentleman. This is our chance! "There is a freedom that comes in having nothing to hide. Living a life of integrity allows you this freedom."Honesty is very important to me.I don't understand what men have to gain in posting their age younger than they are. The truth will come out...it's still a lie that would make you wonder: "What else did you lie about?"No thank you!PS ****I will respond only after seeing your photo. I would like to see your RECENT (within a year!) photo too. Would like to see your photo without sunglasses and baseball hats, please! Also, when you're 15 and + feet away, or your picture is sideway or upside down (there is a rotate button!) it's very hard to really see you!!! I'm divorced since 04; if you're recently separated we're not a good match.No one likes rejection but we would never know if it will work unless we try.Thank you for reading my Profile; and if you are interested *** we can get to know each other :)Here we go, gentlemen, take a first step to communicate.

  • Elayne

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I'm a self-sufficient, savvy, smart woman with two fabulous grown daughters, a good job, good friends, and my own home. I don't need someone to complete me, but I'd sure like to spend time with a kind, honest, employed, trustworthy man and see where it goes. not me, but I do it anyway), yoga, fashion, modernism and modernist style/decorating, cooking, dancing, karaoke, wine, beer and tea.I am trying to go day by day, and not attach to outcomes, like all the rest of the Buddhists-in-training out there. Grieving too. I've had a pretty devastating loss recently. From it I've learned that death is actually not the worst thing. The worst thing is not living while you're alive.I’m good at: writing, teaching (my job), smiling, laughing, drawing people out, talking, listening, meeting halfway in arguments, trying or learning new things, caring deeply about certain issues and showing it, traveling, finding my way around strange places and not getting freaked out, dressing up (or down), yoga, cooking comfort foods, dancing with abandon, judging character, letting the right ones in.

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