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Elayne, 50

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About Me

I'm a self-sufficient, savvy, smart woman with two fabulous grown daughters, a good job, good friends, and my own home. I don't need someone to complete me, but I'd sure like to spend time with a kind, honest, employed, trustworthy man and see where it goes. not me, but I do it anyway), yoga, fashion, modernism and modernist style/decorating, cooking, dancing, karaoke, wine, beer and tea.I am trying to go day by day, and not attach to outcomes, like all the rest of the Buddhists-in-training out there. Grieving too. I've had a pretty devastating loss recently. From it I've learned that death is actually not the worst thing. The worst thing is not living while you're alive.I’m good at: writing, teaching (my job), smiling, laughing, drawing people out, talking, listening, meeting halfway in arguments, trying or learning new things, caring deeply about certain issues and showing it, traveling, finding my way around strange places and not getting freaked out, dressing up (or down), yoga, cooking comfort foods, dancing with abandon, judging character, letting the right ones in.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    First thing people notice about me is my energy. I definitely have a zest for life! I've been called a "force of nature" probably for my love of life and for the people in it!!! I love being outdoors, whether working in my yard, visiting beautiful wineries, enjoying my backyard, skiing in The Sierra,rafting, hiking, camping, biking, swimming.I'd like to kayak and would like to learn how to surf! Makes me appreciate what I have. Now that the kids are self sufficient and don't need their Mom so much, it's time for me to move on with my life. I am looking for a man who is smarter than me, strong, with a zest for life. Someone who can teach me things, and enjoy every day with. I look forward to next chapter. Maybe a place in the foothills with a little vineyard, garden, some chickens. Traveling to all the places I haven't been and those that I love. I enjoy all genres of music and love seeing live bands. Especially at a beautiful outdoor venue. I'm even thinking about taking up guitar. Music has always been a big part of my life. I sing all the time! I know I have a lot to offer a relationship. I'm a great loving partner and enjoy sharing all the day to day experiences with the man that I will love and adore.There is so much more I could say here, but that would take away all the mystery! If what you've read so far interests you,and you think you could be THE GUY, don't be shy. I'd love to hear from you! Picnic, hike, bike ride, glass of wine at sunset. Forget the coffee meet and greet. Boring!

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Whew... Filling out this form was a pain. I answered the questions as honestly as it would allow me to .lol. I am a single mom with 3 teenage boys at home, ages 16,14,***I also have a 24 year old son). First and foremost I am not looking for a dad for my boys or a man to pay all my bills, so relax and take a deep breath.....I have been single since ***, with a brief stint of stupidity in ***where I married again. That lasted about as long as a sneeze. As soon as the band of bondage was on my finger, Mr. All I can say is I'm a dork. So noooooo more marriages for me.I have a car, roof over my head, and work full time. I am in a transitional period of my life. I just finished earning my degree this summer (with honors) so I am now looking for a career where my degree comes in handy. I have been buried in school for two years, and my social life has been nonexistent. I haven't dated during this time and figure it is time to quit being a hermit and see whats outside my front door. About me: What do I say? I am a BBW. I have red hair and green eyes. I am a real woman and not a beauty queen.My heart is as big as my butt. I am comfortable about my age, I have wrinkles and war wounds from having kids. I am just me. I am a bit shy at first, but once I get to know someone then my real self emerges. I have a wicked sense of humor, and not much fazes me. I am easy going, kind, I laugh till tears are rolling, and I am very down to earth. I know a lot of people say that, but with me it is true. My humor will show that once you get to know me. I guess that's the basics about me. You are welcome to say hi and can ask me anything except my weight, bra size and favorite sexual position. If you meet me you can pretty much guess the first 2 things and the 3rd thing is something that will be known IF we are ever in a situation where I need to tell you. I have no idea. depends on the day of the week, the hour of the day and the person I meet. I am pretty open for suggestions. The only thing is I know it will not be naked. Honestly guys , I am not looking for a quickie. I am not a prude at all, l am just not looking for sex only. I am looking for someone who would like to meet and say hi and go from there. I am looking for someone to date, who would like to go to dinner some time, or for coffee, maybe meet me out somewhere, join my friends and I to listen to music and dance. I have been out of the dating scene for a while, so I plan to just "wing it" and see where it leads. lolI am a bit old fashioned, in the sense that I will not message a man first on here (or maybe too chicken lol) So if you want to talk to me, please send a message and say hello

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

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