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Lysanne, 49

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About Me

You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly.- Sam Keen.I am a happy and positive person, kind, warm and always smiling. Love a good joke and am a passionate, affectionate and incorrigible romantic. I was born in Kiev, Ukraine and came to America 25 years ago. I had a happy childhood. Growing up I have learned to swim, tried cross-country ski. Performed in the Drama Theater, played keyboard and sang backup in a High School band. Learned how to play the piano in music school (my Mom made me do it). I'm a good cook and still love to make my traditional childhood Ukrainian and Russian dishes. I taught myself how to speak and read English. Took 3 years Salsa dancing lessons, loved it! I have one son who is 28. Also have four beautiful daughters who will steal your heart, oldest is in college. I'm not looking for a father for them, they have one; just for a great male role model. We are a very happy bunch! It could be anything: cup of coffee/tea or glass of wine with great conversation, a walk, or a casual dinner, somewhere not loud so we can hear each other, etc.I am looking for a heterosexual (Im not a prejudice person) Gentleman. Who enjoys doing things outdoors, but also enjoys quiet times at home. Someone who enjoys regular dates just the two of us, but also enjoys sledding or hiking with the kids and watching PG movies with popcorn and hot chocolate! I'm not into extreme thrills activities, more of a cautious type. I am a mother and I like children. If you are a father, that’s great too. In Profile my answer is NO to wanting more kids, meaning newborns. Well, unless they’re grandkids ;) I'm not in a hurry but am looking for serious relationship. And just to make it clear, I want to take my time to get to know each other first. I am looking for a Gentleman. This is our chance! "There is a freedom that comes in having nothing to hide. Living a life of integrity allows you this freedom."Honesty is very important to me.I don't understand what men have to gain in posting their age younger than they are. The truth will come out...it's still a lie that would make you wonder: "What else did you lie about?"No thank you!PS ****I will respond only after seeing your photo. I would like to see your RECENT (within a year!) photo too. Would like to see your photo without sunglasses and baseball hats, please! Also, when you're 15 and + feet away, or your picture is sideway or upside down (there is a rotate button!) it's very hard to really see you!!! I'm divorced since 04; if you're recently separated we're not a good match.No one likes rejection but we would never know if it will work unless we try.Thank you for reading my Profile; and if you are interested *** we can get to know each other :)Here we go, gentlemen, take a first step to communicate.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Brielle

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Hi there, and thanks for viewing my profile. I'm an upbeat woman who's been fortunate to live in many places and meet a variety of people. I enjoy many things, but anything where humor and laughter are involved is always a favorite. I enjoy watching football, basketball, and baseball; tailgating is one of my favorite things to do! I've been known to wager in a little competition every now and then, as long as I get a handicap and a huge head start :) I'm certainly a “girlie girl” (please don't mistake that for high maintenance) with a touch of tom boy and enjoy a strong, confident man who just so happens to enjoy engaging in friendly banter and teasing around with me. I'm an intelligent and driven woman. I love discussing a variety of topics, and I prefer stimulating conversation over drama and gossip. I'm confident but not arrogant. I'm passionate and sensitive but also strong and capable. I'm extremely loyal and very much self aware. I have a great capacity for love and life and am a very compassionate person.Okay. Seriously, I struggle to describe my perfect match because he could be basically anyone from anywhere. As I'm aging, I'm finding that I enjoy meeting men from different walks of life (don't get me wrong: you must have teeth, a good source of income, character, intelligence, and attractiveness). I've decided not to put too many geographical limitations on my profile because I don't necessarily believe that the love of my life lives within a 50 mile radius. I imagine he's imperfect and comfortable with it - not afraid to make mistakes and learn from them. He's attractive, in good shape, and takes pride in his appearance. He probably doesn't mind that I'm a little bit silly at times, and he likes to play and have fun. When faced with a situation that looks hopeless he'll start laughing and tackle it willingly. He's a lifelong learner and believes that a relationship with his love interest deserves as much effort as he puts into anything else in his life. My job is as important as his, but I know that in order for a relationship to thrive, both partners must put time and energy into it. What I've learned most from my prior relationships is that both partners must put effort and dedication into the relationship, and that once trust is broken...it's hard to recover - so don't break the trust. My guy requires some time alone, yet he looks forward to building a connection and enjoys the magic of chemistry - he likes getting wrapped up and whispered to at night....and of course he totally digs me (despite all my faults), and I feel the same about him as well. I do love the pictures of men proudly holding their fish or deer they conquered: it shows they can provide for their woman. :). Cutest!I hesitate to write anything negative, but there are a few things I want to put out there so that you won't waste your time. If you have commitment issues and are only here for computer entertainment or to constantly be validated then please pass me by. I believe a relationship should begin with a degree of friendship, a touch of butterflies, a twinkle in the eyes, flirtation, admiration, and an appreciation of what the other brings to the table. I believe that a kiss is very telling and vital in determining if sparks will fly. Further Intimacy is reserved for someone very special.* I can't emphasize enough that if you can't be faithful in a relationship, then pass me by. I'll gladly support you doing that, but other than my daily four mile walk/run and weight workout four days a week, you won't see me participating in any extreme sports. Fishing, hunting, boating, and skiing are more my style. :) I believe that an initial date should be at a casual venue where there is no pressure on either of us and we can have a warm or cold drink together.

  • Kayly

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Currently divorced and out on my own! I have three sons (ages 19, 16 and ***which I have joint custody of. I have two great, quirky canines. I have a B.F.A. and taught art in NC public schools, then received my A.D.N. I am creative, spontaneous, independent, outgoing, hard working, enthusiastic, and very active. I am looking to meet someone to share common interests with, experience new adventures and hopefully share quite a few laughs with as I adjust to my new life.

  • Nikole

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am a jeans & t shirt kind of girl, I can dress up, but I am most comfortable in my Levi's and Nikes.I prefer to have a BBQ *** home with friends, but a nice dinner out also fits my social schedule.I like beer not wine and will be the first one to make fun of myself.The romantic in me likes lightening storms and lavender roses.Next fasten your seat belts because I love sports and can have a conversation about them. I am a huge Ducks Football fan and usually have people over to watch the game with me and my boys.You will not find me singing in the shower (lucky for anyone within ear shot), but if you pull up next to me at a stop light you will most likely find me singing along with the radio. But trust me you really don't want to hear it.I love car shows, there is nothing like an old classic and the sound it makes.I am not a thrill seeker so you will not find me bungee jumping or sky diving, my motto is "why jump out of a perfectly good airplane?"I recently started learning to golf & it makes some not very lady like words come out of my mouth! I am faithful always and love family and friends. I love Starbucks & watching fireworks. While the kid in me still enjoys carving pumpkins, sledding, snowball fights and going out looking for the perfect Christmas tree. coffee or a drink preferably some place we can talk and hopefully share some laughs.

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