They don’t fool around or go crazy when they get jealous. This is what mature women are, those who are independent and can live without a man but are pretty open to a beautiful relationship either.
Dating a mature woman can be a challenging but fantastic adventure. It is an experience full of lessons to be learned. If you’re going to fall in love with someone mature, there are some things you should know:
1. Don’t expect you can fool her around
You will have to stop beating around the bush and start being direct because she will behave like that with you. If there is a problem or something that bothers you, she will find it out. She’s a problem solver and wants you to be the same too.
2. Don’t expect a relationship based only on text messages
Mature women are effective communicators and written messages will not satisfy them. Obviously, it’s okay to send some text messages to stay in touch during the day, but your main form of communication should be by phone or face to face.
3. Don’t expect to impress her by making her jealous
Any immature attempt to make her jealous by talking about other girls or posting photos with other women on social media will backfire. Mature women don’t usually get jealous, because they’re self-confident enough to know what (and who) deserves their time spent, or what / who does not. If she is going to commit to you fully, she in return will expect the same from you. There are no games that are worth it.
4. Don’t expect to have meaningless conversations
Mature women are cultured, passionate, and cosmopolitan. They’re ready for real conversations about real issues, and even if there’s an episode of their favorite show in the background, their minds will keep spinning around the things that really matter. If you want her attention, you’ll have to keep up with her.
5. Don’t expect times of indecisiveness
She probably has a stressful job that forces her to spend her day making decisions or dealing with other people’s nonsense. If you expect endless conversations like: ‘I don’t know. Where do you want to go for dinner today?’ (Or repeating “I don’t know, you choose” over and over again) you’ve got the wrong place. She wants you to make decisions and make plans.
6. Don’t expect her to put up with disrespect from you
Not her or any other woman. Women are brave and they know what they want. What they don’t want is to be with someone who treats them badly or disrespects them.
7. You must be constantly motivated
Dating a mature woman is like tying a powered backpack around your back. She lives her life aware of her goals and with a vision for the future. If you are the man who has chosen to share her life, she will rub off on her ambitious nature, if you are not already like that. By your side, you will have a companion for life. An equal, a partner, a confidant.
8. Prepare to commit yourself to her
Mature women are loyal as they expect honesty and commitment from you, but they are more than willing to give it back with the same intense passion that they apply to any other aspect of their life. There will be no one more worthy of your trust than a strong and independent woman. Why? Because she decides what she wants in her life and she sticks with it once she gets it. When it turns out that you are what she wants, she gives you everything.
9. You will have new experiences
Long before meeting you, she already led a life full of passion and emotions. Throughout this journey, she has developed unique hobbies, interests, and experiences. Also, she has a list of things that she wants to do in the future, and that she wants to share with you.
10. You will have a good time every day
When you are with a mature woman, you know no boredom. She is always on the go, and although she likes to linger on the couch, at the same time she can think of spending a weekend in the mountains. And even if you are the one planning it, don’t be surprised if she adds her personal touch.
11. Get ready to build a beautiful life together
As someone motivated, ambitious and intelligent, you want to build a beautiful life for yourself. You have goals, dreams, and expectations for the future. There is no better feeling than knowing that the woman next to you shares your ambitions and also strives for them. You will never be happier than with a mature woman since she lives her life eager to do her best. She loves with intensity and will motivate you to be the best version of yourself while still being the man she chose.
As a final piece of advice, please don’t avoid strong women and don’t be intimidated by their passion for life. On the contrary, appreciate the fact that you found her. But if you still haven’t, Meetville is the right place to meet local singles. Sign up today and start dating mature women!