Have you ever been rejected? If not – you are probably one of the luckiest people on our planet. Every day thousands of couples start new relationships and break up, thousands of people try to get back their exes and start everything from the scratch. But it’s not so easy to come into a dating world again, especially if you’ve already got some negative experience with your previous partner.The first and the most essential thing to do for everyone who avoids dating because of the fear to be rejected and for those who are just sick and tired of fruitless attempts to find a soulmate is not to take it too close to heart – it means not to take it personally.
On the one hand not to treat dating personally seems to be just impossible. Of course, meeting new people with the purpose of building up a close emotional and bodily contact can’t be totally detached. But, on the other hand we should realize that the reality usually doffers from our expectations. And moreover we shouldn’t make any assumptions when we date other people.
The reasons why he/she didn’t call you back are numerous: maybe he/she really liked you but just isn’t ready for long-term relationships or maybe he/she started dating someone else etc. Anyway, there is no need to find out this – just move on.
If a couple of your dates went well and you are fully satisfied don’t make any ambitious plans. Actually, two-three meetings mean nothing. So, in order not to get disappointed in future take the things as they are. Slow down and enjoy the process.