In the modern world of the Internet and online dating texting becomes really important. And if as Millenials we are pretty familiar with how texting works and what are its main rules, the new term “sexting” still seems foreign for most of us.
Sexting combines a lot of things together. It’s not just sending some cheesy text to a girl you like. You may end up being ridiculous to someone you are trying to impress, or in a good case, you may move your relationship to a completely new level.
If you want to be good at sexting you need to remember some of the following rules that would lead you to success.
Know your partner
Sexting is always better when two partners want it mutually. Sending your nude photo to a random girl/guy is not such a good idea. If you want to chat with a stranger, better start carefully by asking them if they want to try sexting with you, or make the first move with a sexy compliment. Make sure that you both are relaxed and don’t take it as something serious. There is nothing worse when sexting starts getting serious and someone starts feeling awkward or embarrassed.
What about nudes?
It’s rude to ask for naked photos and send nothing back. Sexting should be a fair game. Your partner should be interested in sending you her/his photos, ’cause it’s obvious that he/she wants to get something back as well. Just remember the most important rule of sexting: NEVER include your face into those extra hot nude photos you are sending to your partner.
Though nudes are an important part of sexting, it shouldn’t be the main one. A good sexter knows that it’s not that much about pictures as about language. Use dirty talk just like in real life to turn your partner on.
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Go into details
Even though you don’t really see and feel each other, it’s still all about emotions. Describe your actions in details and don’t forget to describe what you’re feeling at the moment.
Forget about emojis
Emojis is the last thing you need in sexting. Again, your language would make a better impact than visual images. The only emoji that can be appropriate while sexting is the winky-face, though you should post it once in a blue moon. Don’t make this X-rated conversation childish.
Be a little bit of a tease
Like in real life a little bit of teasing wouldn’t hurt. Though details are important, don’t tell your partner everything and create some mystery. Use language to make their imagination work and don’t go too straightforward with your actions. Everything comes in time to those who can wait 😉
Once you’ve sexted, you can’t unsext, so keep in mind that you need to know and remember some sexting rules to make this activity pleasant not only for you but for your partner as well. Sexting is great also because you can practice it with your partner no matter if you’ve just met or you’ve been happily married for more than 20 years. And if you’re looking for someone who’ll share your interests, don’t forget to install Meetville app on Android and iOS right now and go on a date with local singles!
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