Dating somebody new or planning to ask a girl out can be extremely nerve-racking when you are not sure whether she actually likes you back. It turns out all you need is to take a better look at her behavior around you.
In this article, you’ll learn how to catch signs of flirting and attraction, how to respond to a physical touch and whether you should be the one to initiate the conversation. You’ll be able to understand women better and dating will become easier and much more fun.
Read her body language
Recognizing body language is probably one of the easiest ways to tell if a girl likes you. “Strong eye contact is one of the most important sign,” tells dating coach for men Michael Valmont. “It’s not the only sign though; girls often bite their lower lip or touch their lips when they are interested. Does she looks relaxed and sits close to you with an open posture (arms relaxed instead of crossed and shoulders facing toward you)? It’s a sign that she feels comfortable in your presence. Is she staring at you while you’re not looking, and then turning away as soon as she sees your eyes move toward her? It’s a great sign that she’s into you.”
Allow an occasional punch
Physical touch is surely one of the biggest and most exciting signs of attraction. To grow chemistry and a rapport with you she will lightly punch your arm while laughing, or playfully push your shoulder. She will invent reasons to be around. And she’ll be the one to stay by your side when all her friends leave.
Listen up when she’s talking
Some girls may be not so eager to hug you right away, but it is through communication that they reveal their feelings. Yet they can still hide some facts, for example, their boyfriend’s existence. But that’s not so bad at all, as it proves the girl is doing her best not to scare you off. Joshua Uebergang, communication skills coach, observes that in a conversation women are often the ones to initiate. “They might comment on your height, your clothes, or where they saw you before. Whatever the reason a woman approaches you, she does so because she wants to talk with you!” If she asks many questions, gives frequent compliments, it’s a good sign she’s at least attracted. With the significance of social networking today, there has appeared an entirely new level to the way women choose to flirt. And men may tell by the contents of her messages and how quickly she responds to yours whether you’re high enough on her priority list.
Overall, it’s not that difficult to understands what a woman is feeling towards you. All you need to do is to be more careful and notice these little signs she’s showing you.
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