We all enjoy dating and falling in love. But when it’s a time to commit, men are usually getting scared of responsibilities they have to take on.
Another reason why men don’t commit is that commitment is not really popular nowadays. A lot of couples don’t need to commit to be happy together. However, it’s not always a sign of a healthy relationship.
It’s even harder when your man is emotionally unavailable and not used to express his feelings at all. It seems almost impossible to make such a man ready to commit, though there are a few tips how to help you.
Actions are more important than words
Usually, emotionally unavailable men show their love with actions, not words. It’s a two-way street. Maybe, what he is waiting for is a commitment from you, and not just in words, but in actions. Be always there for him, motivate him in anything he does, accept everything in him (even his bad sides), and, most importantly, show him your love. He may not hear it from you every day, but he should feel it and see it in your eyes.
Get to know his family and friends
If your man introduces you to your family and friends it means that your relationship is serious. And usually, friends and family members are the people whose opinion he respects. So, getting along with his closest family members and best friends would really help you to make him ready to commit.
Make him feel comfortable around you
Feeling relaxed and comfortable around you would make any emotionally unavailable man appreciate being with you. Allow him to relate on you and become the most important person in his life.
It might sound very difficult to achieve but in fact, you just need to know him well enough, so you’d be able to understand what he needs without words.
Let him know what you want
In most cases, men are not ready to commit because they are scared… to lose. It may be surprising but most men don’t show their feelings just because they are not sure if you feel the same. So, the main thing you need to do is to show him that YOU are ready to commit. You can even tell him directly about it. But don’t repeat it constantly as he would feel pressured to do it. Let him know about your feelings and wait for his next step.
Don’t be upset if he is not ready to commit. It doesn’t mean that he doesn’t love you, but men and women understand relationships differently, and sometimes for a man wanting to be with you is already some kind of commitment.