There are times when our instincts are trying to tell us something but we somehow refuse to listen. There are signs that the guy that we’re with is truly not “the one”. Though he may seem great on the surface, there are things about him that just don’t add up.
If you just don’t feel happy with him or if something just feels off then it’s time to break things off. You want to get out of this type of relationship with the wrong guy before you feel stuck. So be honest with yourself, be on the lookout for these signs, and then make some necessary changes in your love life.
You are unhappy more than you’re happy
Sure most couples fight from time to time and that’s normal. However, if you feel that you are unhappy more than you are actually happy then it may be time to change things up. Love should make you feel good and so too should the right guy.
If you are struggling to feel happy most of the time, then this is not a good match for you. He is not going to make you happy in the long term if he’s not doing a good job of it now. Remember that as you move towards a breakup!
Read also: 4 Types of Men Who Will Never Make You Happy
You have doubts about him
You want to believe that he’s a good guy, but you have some serious doubts. There is something about him or his personality that just isn’t meshing for you.
There is something that is leaving you in a perpetual state of doubt and you just can’t turn your back on that nagging voice. You are doubtful about a future with him, and that’s when you know it’s truly time to call it quits.
He doesn’t talk to you nicely or treat you well
There may be good times with him, but you can’t help but focusing on how he acts sometimes. If he is the type of guy who doesn’t talk nicely to you then this is a basis for concern.
If you feel that you are making excuses for him treating you badly or you don’t feel comfortable with how he talks to you sometimes, then it’s time to break up. You deserve to be treated nicely and there are no excuses for anything else.
Your instincts tell you something isn’t quite right
You can’t quite place what it is, but you know that something is amiss. Something inside of you is telling you that this guy is not a match for you. Your inner voice is almost screaming at times to walk away, but you don’t want to believe it.
This guy seems great in theory and on paper he’s everything that you want. Yet your instincts are painting a very different picture, and that’s when you need to pay attention to that aspect of things. If your instincts are trying to tell you something then listen to them and move on!
We don’t often want to believe that a guy is wrong for us when they seem so great. There are times though when it becomes apparent that this guy is not for you, and that’s when you have to be honest with yourself and move on with your life. Break up with Mr. Wrong so that you can eventually find Mr. Right, otherwise, you will hate yourself later on for not doing so.
Break up sounds like something very emotionally difficult. But don’t worry, we all have been there and sometimes it’s really for the best. If you want to make this time easier for yourself, check these tips how to get over him and try to move on. And the best way to forget your ex is to find a new boyfriend! Install Meetville app on Android and iOS right now and go on a date with local singles!
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