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Ella
Ruston
- Louisiana
- United States
Online
Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
I am truly and utterly bored with this site! Does anything or anyone ever come out of this? In want something spectacular - un-ordinary and fantastic. Is that too much to ask? Does anyone actually read this ??? High School students need not apply!! If I do not respond to your message - I do not need additional messages sent to me that are hateful because of my lack of response. SWF seeking SWM Please read profile - not looking for anyone under the age of 35!!!! So if you are 26 and send me a message askin if I like younger guys - here's your answer: NO!!!! We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems—the ones that make you truly who you are—that we’re ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you’re looking for. You’re looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: the right wrong person—someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, “This is the problem I want to have.”I will find that special person who is wrong for me in just the right way.Let our scars fall in loveAnd this says it all:"It doesn't interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for, and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing.It doesn't interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dream, for the adventure of being alive. It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon. I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow, if you have been opened by life's betrayals or have become shriveled and closed from fear of further pain!I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own, without moving to hide it or fade it, or fix it. I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own, if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, to be realistic, to remember the limitations of being human. It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling me is true. I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself; if you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul; if you can be faithless and therefore trustworthy. I want to know if you can see beauty even when it's not pretty, every day,and if you can source your own life from its presence. I want to know if you can live with failure, yours and mine, and still stand on the edge of the lake and shout to the silver of the full moon, “Yes!”It doesn't interest me to know where you live or how much money you have. I want to know if you can get up, after the night of grief and despair, weary and bruised to the bone, and do what needs to be done to feed the children. It doesn't interest me who you know or how you came to be here. I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire with me and not shrink back. It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom you have studied. I want to know what sustains you, from the inside, when all else falls away. I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments." GO GRAB A BITE (APPETIZERS & DRINKS) FIND A GREAT LIL BAR WITH LIVE MUSIC... AND LET THE CHIPS FALL WHERE THEY MAY!
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Susie
Ruston
- Louisiana
- United States
Online
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
My hobbies include spending most of my time with my 2 kids, going to the movies, and spending time with friends. I like the outdoors. I am looking for someone who is good hearted,loving,caring,respects others,has a good personality,likes to laugh and have fun. I am a very down to earth person who is honest, caring and has a good heart. Not looking for a hook up, please don't message me if you are. Good Luck!
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Anne
Ruston
- Louisiana
- United States
Online
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
Girls are like apples on trees,The best ones are at the top of the tree.The boys don't want to reach for the good onesBecause they are afraid of falling and getting hurt.Instead, they get the rotten apples from the groundThat aren't as good but easy.So the apples up top think something is wrong with themIn reality, they are amazing.They just have to wait for the right boy to comeAlong....(Rose Rosado)You really cannot say if an apple or fish is right for you, if you are always looking for the next one. It's amazing how many people will take the apples on the ground, only to be disappointed later. I've been doing online dating long enough to realize: Some people are not serious at all and out for games. Other people will take the first apple they find to fill their sense of worth. I guess I'm in the last category, knowing online dating is just another resource. You need a mental and physical connection. A true lasting relationship takes time built on a foundation of trust, honesty and communication. A few contacts doesn't constitute a commitment, nor does a few dates constitute a relationship. You bring the ladder though, I'll hold it to steady the climb. If you attempt the climb for anyone on here, you're probably unique. Wow...unfortunately, I proved myself right that most of you want to remain in cyberspace. I guess you can't get a date,if you don't meet.If you get my number, why text me rather than call me? I think that's bad dating etiquette, your initial contact is to text. And then, you just want to text. Sounds fishy! I don't know why some individuals think I'm going to ask a bunch of questions, or answer a bunch of questions, via text messaging. We can learn about each other on the phone and in person. I'll remain guarded and cautious, as you should too. If you are interested, show me. Too many people never want to take anything offline. I would like to talk on the phone or text a little before we meet to see if it's worth our time. Your time, my time, it's all valuable. I'm not looking for a text buddy though. Let's keep it casual, as a meet n greet. No pressure, no expectations.
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Shelia
Ruston
- Louisiana
- United States
Online
Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
I'm pretty laid back. Family and friends are important to me. I enjoy a variety of things, especially if it's outside. I try to work out ***times a week. Looking for some one with similar interests. A current pic is always helpful....as it is nice to know who I'm talking to. I believe a good first date could be dining out or coffee for conversation to get to know each other better. Or something fun like bowling where we can interact and talk and have some fun all at the same time.
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Thetower
Ruston
- Louisiana
- United States
Online
Man. 29 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: woman. In age: 18-45
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Melinda
Ruston
- Louisiana
- United States
Online
Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
Many things catch your eye - only few catch your heart. I am looking for a heart connection. Someone who would rather be with me than search the latest singles! ** If you apparently have any of my DISLIKES - don't write me a nasty *** didn't write you back! ** ** Do any of the guys actually read profiles?**My attraction is Caucasian men. I don't have an age range but let's be reasonable, please. I admire in someone at least an Associate's Degree from college and find I don't get along very well with hispanic men.Me: My heart is HUGE. I've learned the best form of love, quoted by my Dad, and know these are the truest hearts that get hurt most. But living and not loving is, to me, not really living! My friends say I'm a great friend, honest, loving, loyal and always give 110%. Now if I can just find that in a match ... :) My match: He will have a faith in God, someone who knows the value of God's forgiveness, knows not to make a big situation out of something small, knows the beginning is a learning process, must be loving, supportive, attentive, have his own self being, respect my self being, be motivated, "mostly" healthy, enjoy a night in as well as a night out, love the beach and love to travel, must at least "like" Somehow we will just "FIT" together! :DSomeone recently told me: A real man doesn't love a million girls - He loves one girl in a million ways! Original PA girl here so go PHILLIES/EAGLES! I will still cheer for TX teams!Let me list who will NOT hear from me ...DISLIKES:Smoking/dipLarge visible tattoosBody piercingsFacial hairRiding on motorcyclesExcessive drinkingThank you for reading a little about me. I know my entire person cannot be written here so if you have any questions for me, please ask! Blessings! ** If you have no photo or have apparent dislikes I have listed in my profile - you most likely will not get an *** ** Keep it simple
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Journey
Ruston
- Louisiana
- United States
Offline
Man. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: woman. In age: 18-29
Hi! My name is Journey. I am never married other caucasian man without kids from Ruston, Louisiana, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.
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Allison
Ruston
- Louisiana
- United States
Online
Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: woman. In age: 38-48
Looking for someone that can be them self and have a good time and laugh. I love the outdoors ...... Camping, boating, swimming, hunting, fishing.....pretty much anything outdoors. I'm very laid back and go with the flow kind of woman. I have a 12 year old son. His father and I are very good friends. We have been divorced for 8 years. We live in the same neighborhood a few streets apart. Our son lives with both of us and goes back and forth between our houses. I'm not looking to have a three some with you and your boyfriend or let him watch! If you are male and reading this please hit the "next" button. I love my animals. Just looking for happiness and my missing piece to complete me. Depends on who you are with. Something you both enjoy and somewhere you can sit and talk.
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Norma
Ruston
- Louisiana
- United States
Online
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
I am retired and because I had epilepsy in my past I do not drive. I have 2 children that I love dearly but do not see them often, but I smile for days after I do! I am pretty much a homebody and I am looking for someone who isn't. LOL I need to get out of the house more before I go insane. I love to do a lot of things and I hope your are willing to show my what you like to go out and do for fun ) Write me and lets see. I also like to rollerblade and ride bike. I am not much in to running. I have a membership to the Y thru my retirement but I never use it (it is kinda funny going in there and telling them I am on the silver sneaker program) I have a little bit of pride! LOL*** I just want to add that I hate the fact that I don't drive makes it so a lot of good people on here don't want to peruse a relationship. I have dealt with the cards that have been issued to me and accept the person who I am. It is not easy being an extraverted person living a introverted life style but I do and I don't let it get me down. So please don't make me feel bad about not driving or that I don't have many interests that I persue. If this is the worst thing about me and I am able to accept it that should show you what a strong person I am and that I really don't need to be made to feel bad about it or do I need your sympathy. Just accept me for who I am and don't ask me out if me not driving is going to be a problem for you. It isn't for me!
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Opto
Ruston
- Louisiana
- United States
Online
Man. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: woman. In age: 25-40
Hi! My name is Opto. I am separated other caucasian man with kids from Ruston, Louisiana, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.