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Mildred, 43

United States, Louisiana, Ruston

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Dating really sucks:***that was said with a wrinkled up nose) I'm looking for a baggage free type of guy or at least someone who only has one or two bags and doesn't expect me to carry them, because realistically we all have some.( have lost 60 and still have some more to go) Funny is a requirement along with being divorced or not married. Yeah....I know...I've heard all the stories about no sex blah, blah..advice? sh*t or get off the pot and/or don't involve me...simply said:) This goes right along with that....am not into sharing at all...HUGE issues with that since childhood. I'm self sufficient but not at the point where I can be a sugar mama, so employment is another requirement. I've been opening and shutting my car door for years, but wouldn't mind someone doing it for me every once in a while. I'm not super funny just mostly, sarcastic. I can't say that I'm the most exciting person. I really haven't done much as I really concentrated on trying to give my daughter all the things I didn't have, but I'm coming out of my shell now:)What happened to the old saying "honesty is the best policy"? There truly is somebody for everybody. If all you're wanting is to get laid, just say so. Somebody will do the job, I'm sure. It just doesn't seem right to misrepresent what you want. My feelings....I typically don't give money to the guys standing along side the road with their tin cans...but, I did turn around and go back after reading the homeless guy's sign that read "I need a beer:) Honesty gets you everywhere:) Looking for a man that can be satisfied with one woman only. Seems like there aren't very many of you out there! If you decide to ***, give me a little more to work with than "Hi"...It's not easy for anybody, but surely you have more in ya than that:) And if you don't, there's probably no reason to even bother. Another thing, have a pic or attach one. I've posted mine. It is a dating site..Falling in love...When it comes to loving, you need not fall but rather surrender. Surrender to the idea that you must love yourself before you can love another. You must absolutely trust yourself before you can absolutely trust another and, most importantly you must accept your flaws before you can accept the flaws of another. I think it would be fun to wonder around downtown farmer's market sampling food and drinks while buying all the stuff to cook a great meal together later.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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