Single Women & Men in Bunker Hill, Illinois

Lilmatt

• Bunker Hill

• Illinois
• United States

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Man. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

Looking for: woman. In age: 20-27

Hi! My name is Lilmatt. I am never married other caucasian man with kids from Bunker Hill, Illinois, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

Samiya

• Bunker Hill

• Illinois
• United States

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Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

Looking for: woman. In age: 44-54

I like sports, anything romantic, fires, camping, living life on the edge just a little, am outgoing and spontaneous but am content with a fire and a movie to cuddle to. my ultimate match would be very positive, good hearted and responsible but still likes to have fun. somebody real .. Someone who runs a little deep and isn't just surface. If you're the one send me a message :-) Anything other than the movies where we can actually talk and get to know eachother. Maybe dinner and a car ride.

Gayla

• Bunker Hill

• Illinois
• United States

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Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

This part is hard. So returning to this site again after a little break. Looking for someone to spend time with and will accept me the way I am. I work full time and go to school full time as well. This leaves little time to waste so if you're a player and looking for playmate or casual anything-- look elsewhere. I had been out of the dating scene for several years while I raised my two children and had attempted to meet a good man who wants a good woman to be by his side but haven't had the best luck. I am returning to try this again. I am a little shy at first but will open up as I get to know a person. I mainly like classic rock but also listen to country, hard rock and classical. I like to go camping, hiking or long walks, or just hang out and enjoy good conversation although I haven't spent much time recently on any of these since I don't enjoy these by myself. Like I said earlier I am a student and love what I am studying. I believe one is never too old to learn something. As for what I am looking for- I am looking for a person to spend time with and to do activities. I would like to get to know you first and spend quality time getting to know you as a person. I do not want a man who wants to change me or fix my flaws but one who will accept me as I am, flaws and all. Everyone has flaws. I am not looking to change you and don't want to have to change to be with you. I do not want to be taken care of but want to share everything the hard times and the good, to work out the differences and to learn from each other.

Tommyk

• Bunker Hill

• Illinois
• United States

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Man. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

Looking for: woman. In age: 22-42

Hi! My name is Tommyk. I am never married other caucasian man without kids from Bunker Hill, Illinois, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

Ellen

• Bunker Hill

• Illinois
• United States

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Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

Looking for: woman. In age: 44-54

I'm a very passionate, deep thinking person. I value people and learning new things. I won't ask for anything that I'm not willing to give. I abhor inequity and will always fight for the underdog. I spent 20 year of my life doing something that I didn't really want to do and then changed careers "mid-life" to finally follow my passion. So, I'm in a really good place now and finally doing something meaningful that I also love. I love being a mom and am at once terrified and elated that my girls are getting ready to "leave the nest". They're amazing people and very important to me. I've been through a few relationships - each with their own unique positives and negatives and all of them have helped me grow tremendously as a person. Now I want to find someone I can settle in with. Life is unpredictable. I don't want to spend whatever is left of it alone. Right now, I really just want to find someone I can hang with, talk to about anything - someone who has some time and wants to spend it with me. I want to focus on friendship first. I have always told my girls, "Marry your best friend". It's so important. I want someone who doesn't have the kind of baggage that keeps them from moving forward and living life. I want someone who understands the value of time - who is self-confident, enjoys what they're doing, realizes that life isn't all about work, and also values relationships. I'm trying to be present in my own life, so I want to be with someone who is present as well. I can handle intense, but I'm trying to be more easy going - so if you are that would be great! I have a good group of friends, so hopefully you like meeting new people. I also like hanging with my kids occasionally, so hopefully you don't mind teenagers. I can just as easily sit around at home and watch TV or go out for dinner and drinks and prefer to have a little of both in my week. I'm a talker and a listener - very "open book". I'm definitely a people person and although I can talk to anyone, I prefer to fill my life with "real" people. If any of this sounds good to you then send me an *** I am pretty content to do anything, but for the first date probably meet out for dinner and/or drinks somewhere - spend some time talking and getting to know one another.

Lesleigh

• Bunker Hill

• Illinois
• United States

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Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

Looking for: woman. In age: 47-57

"The world is full of hopeful analogies and handsome, dubious eggs, called possibilities."“Once you stop looking for love you will find it” but I do know they were wrong. I tried it for a very long time and found only apathy awaited me. The less effort I put in, I of course met less people and stayed in my safe familiar routine.I give more credence to someone who advised me that by pursuing your own interests and doing what you love, you are more likely to find someone who has the same interests. Unfortunately, my sedentary interests are not really conducive with meeting new people. I have come to realize that I have become stuck in my comfort zone. I guess I am probably like many of you who realize that looking online is a now a viable option whereas it once had a bit of a stigma attached to it.Which is not to say that I don’t like the outdoors since I do enjoy camping, hiking, barbecues with friends, that sort of casual stuff. I certainly would do more of it if I had a partner that shared those interests. I have lost 75 pounds in the last 2 years and continue on the path of better health and a more active lifestyle. I realize saying that you are “trying” to lose weight is a bit like people who say they are “trying” to quit smoking. That is why I have only brought it up now after I have done it long enough to know it is not something I will give up on. I also want to find someone who will encourage and join me in more active adventures, even just a simple hike.I certainly don't think it is wrong to look online, I just think we may limit ourselves. I have a friend who has dated a few guys she met online and said something that really made sense. She said that she probably judges too quickly. Some people she dismisses just based on pics or one badly written paragraph in their profile.She mentioned how one serious relationship she had years ago she never would have had if it were someone online. She worked with a guy that she did not find physically attractive, and did not think was interesting. After working with him over several months, he opened up more and his great personality came through and she found herself thinking he was attractive, both inside and out. Although it ended after several years, she looks back on it fondly, and wonders how many of the guys she went on just the one date with, or did not even respond to online, may have been her perfect match. I guess we all may be guilty of that, expecting *** So I am striving to be more open and hope others out there will do the same. I do crave and thrive on intellectual stimuli. This does not mean the subject has to be heavy or controversial, it simply means I enjoy verbal communication with someone who can contribute but not dominate the conversation. The know-it-all people of the world are the biggest turn-off! I really enjoy when a relationship reaches the comfortable level. I know some who need constant drama but I love when it becomes comfortable and even a bit routine. This does not mean boring or stagnant.One of my favorite activities with friends is “wine cheese” night. We buy all different types of cheese and crackers along with assorted toppings. We gather together and slice up the cheese and toppings while drinking wine and talking. Just the prep time can take an hour. A simple pleasure that I find never gets old.I know this might sound a bit cliche’ but the biggest turn-on to me is a wicked, sharp, self-deprecating sense of humor. I can find humor in almost anything and appreciate that in others. Here are my deal breakers:Sense of humor. Top of the list. Has to be there. Even if you are somewhat shy, as long as you appreciate and understand my sense of humor, we are off to a great start. If you are too serious, there is no chance for us to mesh.You must not use the word irregardless. You must have basic grammar skills such as never stating, “I seen that.”You must love animals. You must be able to eat without your mouth open and you do not scrape your teeth across the fork.You drink socially but events, meals etc. do not get planned around the fact that you will be able to drink at said event.I will in turn offer you loyalty, humor, adventure, conversation, hopefully everything you are looking for. I love good conversation and friendly debates. I love my family and although you do not have to be close to your family you need to accept that I am close to mine.There is this great song that really sums up my feelings these days.;I'll miss you till I meet you." :)I have more to share but if you are not interested by now, I don’t think the rest would change your mind. Hope you are out there! Something simple, like meeting for coffee.

Coxaustin0Pf

• Bunker Hill

• Illinois
• United States

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Man. 24 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

Looking for: woman. In age: 18-23

Hi! My name is Coxaustin0Pf. I am never married other caucasian man without kids from Bunker Hill, Illinois, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

Nerissa

• Bunker Hill

• Illinois
• United States

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Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

Looking for: woman. In age: 47-57

I am a woman that believes in treating others as you wish to be treated. Kindness and tenderness in a relationship are not signs of weakness but of strength... I think work is a few hours in between our time together and although I like my job it doesn't make me who I am. I am childlike and playful as often as possible and love to tease but also spoil. I am very passionate and require the same. I prefer a woman that is more feminine then me but don't believe in roles as I can embrace the more creative feminine side of my spirit by cooking as well as swing a hammer and "take a look at it" if something needs fixing. If a label were necessary then I would say I am a soft butch and am old fashioned and like to open doors for my date. I want others to stare at us and be jealous of how connected and passionate we are. I am very well read and am turned on by intelligent conversations and I also love water amusement parks woo-hoo is what you will hear me yell there....I am silly yet deeply intuitive. You will find me to be very loyal, protective of those I care for and faithful once committed to someone. I am tough without being hard and love a woman with spine who can call me out when needed and soothe me when I am wounded. My family is important to me and living life fully without the drama is what speaks to me. Communication even when its hard is a must for me. Being open and honest allows another in to really know you. I am deeply connected to music and it is very important to me to be surrounded by beautiful noise and beautiful sights...Please no smokers, no drugs, no shady behavior...I mean that quite seriously the no shady behavior part as it is simply rude to not truly mean what you say...Time is precious and meant to be spent joyfully and lovingly. For my part if there isn't a connection don't try to make it happen. Offer the hand of friendship *** are the old fashioned great smelling women with long soft hair who know how to be a lady in the streets, the girl next door, and a tigress in the sheets? On our first date we would.....(you didn't think I would spoil the surprise and give it away did you?) PLEASE....NO SMOKERS.....

Babara

• Bunker Hill

• Illinois
• United States

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Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

I am a fun loving person who is looking for someone to share the fun with me. I love music and going to concerts, watching or going to a sporting event, outdoor festivals, going to the beach and many more things. I am looking to develop a friendship first, and see where it goes from there. On a first date, it would be nice to meet somewhere for coffee, or a drink so that we could talk and begin to get to know each other.

Maye

• Bunker Hill

• Illinois
• United States

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Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

ME: First and foremost, I am a Christian. I am very involved with my church and have built some wonderful friendships there. If that's not your thing, then we would not click.I have a great career and and my co-workers are the best on planet earth. I have 3 grown boys. I hang out with them quite a bit. They are the coolest people I know. I have a wide range of interests. I have a lot of hobbies, and not nearly enough time to enjoy them. I love to be outdoors, I like to run, or lift weights at the gym. And I just bought a bike. I thought I was in shape before, but I am trying to take it to a whole new level.I am the real deal Christian girl. By this I mean I really love God, and try to live my life in a way that pleases Him, although I know I fail at that daily.I LOVE kids and animals. So if you have some of these=Bonus points. I make people laugh. I think laughter is like oxygen. A sense of humor gets you through a lot of life's curve balls. I'm old fashioned. (If you make the effort to get the door for me, I would be honored to let you.)I have been single long enough.! I would like to meet someone who has a solid relationship with God, and is interested in continuing to grow closer to Him, and to me...... . I believe in being kind, responsible, loyal, and honest. And I respect myself enough to expect the same from you. YOU: I will never give up-I know you are out thereI don't have any certain type of guy I am interested in. (Although I do seem to have a weakness for the younger, brown-eyed boys-maybe I should switch that up-just saying)In all honesty I just need someone who fits me. It would be nice to have someone who shares some of my interests, but has his own too.It's important that we share the top 3 things: faith, family, and fitness. I like to spend time with my significant other, and I like to have fun wherever we do that. So, since we all have to eat, work, and work out daily, and, if we want to spend time together, it would be good if we were kind of on the same page about those kinds of things. I'm not really into long distance relationships. It's just easier to get to know one another if there isn't the geographical hurdle to maneuver.It would also help, if you are financially responsible, emotionally stable, at least moderately intelligent, and self-aware.As a Christian, I try to allow God to lead me in everything I do. So...where are you?!, Did you forget to ask for directions again dear?? short and sweet