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Airlia
Benton
- Illinois
- United States
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Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
I'm an independent woman in search of an independent man. Life gets busy at times, I can and will make time for that someone special but I'm very turned off by a man who's clingy and demands attention all the time. I have a great job and I can take care of myself financially just fine, so I'm not looking for a sugar daddy. I get asked so many times "why are you single?" Answer is because I'm very selective! I know what I want in life and I'm patient enough to wait for it. St.;Mr. Right" I might venture his way. For all those who think I'm too far away right now to get to know, when I do move and if I'm still on this site ( Goodness I hope not! ) you didn't want to take a chance now and I definitely won't want to take the chance then. How does the little saying go? It's your LOSS! Good luck in your search, may you all find the hand you were meant to hold forever..!
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Leonida
Benton
- Illinois
- United States
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Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
I am a happy person I love to have fun. I like mud riding,fishing,camping and spending time with my 17 month old grandson. I would rather listen to music than watch t.v. I listen to all kinds of music.
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Kimberely
Benton
- Illinois
- United States
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Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
I'm going to give this one more try - and please don't take it personally if I don't return your *** timely basis...Sometimes I just don't get around to it and/or I don't think we are good match but good luck to you all...So here goes...I am a well educated, slim, active, attractive, clever, quirky, capable, sassy and stylish female looking for an equal partner in life and someone who will be a good friend. I have great professional career, am financially and emotionally secure, in the flow in many areas of my life and not so in others - but I know my trigger points and I guess that's half the battle....- and I am not sure why - but that's been my soul's journey up until now and I have no regrets of who and where I am. In fact, I feel like I am getting better and better with age, and the best is still yet to come....and I can't wait!Often described as having an effervescent and engaging personality, I am fun, funny, and quite playful. I have, what I think, is a unique blend of personality traits & interests. I have an analytical, mathematical mind and use it for work, and yet I'm fascinated by the metaphysical world. I am warm, compassionate, sensitive, sensual, spiritual and feminine and yet, I have the inner strength and courage to slay Goliath. I have a sense of adventure -- and yet my tour members would all agree that if I was on Survivor, I would be the first one voted off! I lead a very active lifestyle - I cycle, I run, I dance - and yet there is always a cute dress and a pair of shoes in my bag. I am outgoing, social and at times, can work any room, and yet, I equally love spending time alone or at home.What I am looking for is an educated, intelligent, respectful and compassionate partner. Someone with whom we both bring out the best in each other; who believes in personal motion forward; who doesn't have strong dogmatic beliefs but is flexible and open to different thoughts and cultures; who is able to communicate and work through his feelings; and of course, someone who is available...If only I could pick the ones I connect with - it would be so easy.. But alas, who understands this elusive thing called chemistry? I guess that is why Pi is an irrational number... : )(and yes, I know Pi has nothing to do with chemistry but I thought it was funny!) drinks, dinner, a walk
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Jinny
Benton
- Illinois
- United States
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Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
**REVISED**Completing the profile is quite a task. I've been asked what I am looking for. I can tell you I have no agenda. I'm not searching for a serious relationship. I think relationships are something that develop. If you click you know it. If something wonderful develops then a relationship is certainly not something I am opposed to. But at present I do not have a game plan. I am not on a mission to meet Mr.Right. While I appreciate the numerous messages please understand I am not interested in dating young men and while I respect peoples individual choices I am not interested in inter-racial dating. I'm a professional who works hard through the week and on the weekend I like to have fun or other times I like to unwind and relax. I enjoy cooking, live music, movies, new adventures. Enjoy live sporting events from time to time. And I love going out on a boat. Maybe that is the native Floridian in me. I have some wonderful friends and consider myself to be very fortunate. I like spending time with people who are positive and fun to be around. Bonus points for making me laugh. Who doesn't enjoy laughing?I am a curvey lady but I believe that's ok. I don't think I have to be skinny to be attractive but I do think its best to be in the healthy weight range. I am more attracted to big guys. Tall is great since I am 5'10" and I like some meat on the bones. Being attracted to you is the first step. But looks are second to personality and stability. I like the total package, someone who can laugh and cut up but be serious when the time is right.My adventurous past activities include sky diving, bungee jumping, zip lining and riding my own Harley for five years. Now I am not quite that bold these days but I don't want to just sit on the couch. Fun is important to me. You only go around once and I want to continue to make great memories.Good luck to all. I hope you find what you are looking for. Ah.... the first date. Simple, no big pressure or expectations is best. Meet for a drink or a meal. Truth is nobody knows if there will be chemistry until you meet. I think its best to have a short first date. If sparks fly make more plans. If nothing happens that's ok too. Just politely move on.
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Carletta
Benton
- Illinois
- United States
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Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
.GEEZIf you have a crazy ex wife who was in jail, currently in jail, tried to murder you or just downright unstable..move on. If YOU were in jail, tried murdering someone or unstable..move on. Unfortunately I have encountered both and it is not pleasant. Seeking someone who is spontaneous, loves to travel and is willing to take a chance! A sense of humor is a must. Please have a stable job..I have met all kinds on here so I know what I want and don't want.It seems as we get older it becomes more difficult to find the one and I am starting to lose hope. Please restore my faith!I am a single mother of a little boy who is 10. He means the world to me and my match should understand that he comes first. Family is extremely important to me as it should to you. I have a pretty good sense of humor...which is needed in the world of online dating lol. I think I am a good person and try to treat people with respect. I am guilty of caring about everyone's feelings and not my own. Don't get me wrong, I am not a pushover or let people walk all over me. I guess what I am trying to say is I am a kind hearted person and I am seeking the same! I want someone who is not afraid to show or express their feelings. Wounded birds need not apply. PLEASE HAVE A PIC!!!!!!!!! Getting tired of getting *** people who don't have a pic and is not willing to share it OR their pic doesn't represent who they really are which makes for a very uncomfortable first meeting. Something low key like grabbing a beer. I prefer not sit through a 7 course meal, especially if you don't like the person!
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Shannan
Benton
- Illinois
- United States
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Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
Will fill out later..Deleted my profile when I started dating someone and ahhh just didnt work out so I wanted to get back on the market..HA! Have not had the best luck fishing here but I will remain optimistic and cast away weeeeeeeeeee! Whatever we both agree on
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Abagale
Benton
- Illinois
- United States
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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
I finally quit smoking!!! (Just had to say that!) I want a good, honest man, and I know ya'll want good,honest, women. (Well most of ya'll) But in my case I haven't had much luck with that department. Honesty is few and far between on here, but what do you do? Move on, live and learn, continuously looking for the honest ones! And I have met some honest ones too, but it still usually never pans out. :)And I think you guys are right when you say it is crazy to talk about myself In this section. In person is always much better, so not looking for anymore "text buddies" LMAO. Divorced mother of 2 teenagers, boy 14 and girl 16. I love them but they will move on eventually, which means I will have an empty nest.I am easy going, I like to have fun and all the normal stuff, maybe some not so normal, lol.! They always say what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. Well, if that is true, I should have turned into the She-Hulk by now!! PS. If I add you to my "favorites" and don't contact you immediately it's because I move slow sometimes!! I am up for anything fun! Just ask!
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Jazlyn
Benton
- Illinois
- United States
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Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
I am mostly a free spirit but I am sure I have my moments.
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Shameka
Benton
- Illinois
- United States
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Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
i enjoy doing things outdoors going to the lakes,fishing,camping,i want someone to enjoy those things with,I have 2 girls and love spending time with the family bbqs,vacations,i have a easy going personality,like to try new fun things,im not into 1 night stands,i am here looking for a long term relationship,and friends..If your interested and would like to know more feel free to message me. meet for coffee or dinner and get to know each other,
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Ignacia
Benton
- Illinois
- United States
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Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
I'm a pretty laid-back, go with the flow kind of person with an "out there" kind of sense of humor. I joke that I hate nature, but I actually love a good mountain walk (not hike...lol, but walk;) or a day at the beach. Other than that, I'm pretty much a big movie buff...all kinds, comedies/horror/slasher/suspense/indies (sometimes;). Also, my family is really close and they are a pretty big part of my life. Oh yeah, and music is really important too, mainly rock with a little bit of pop and maybe some country. Dinner or coffee...as long as it's not crazy loud and you can spend plenty of time talking and just hanging out.