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Scot
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Man. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: woman. In age: 51-61
I'm looking for someone that confidently knows where they've been, where they are, and of course where they WANT to be. At 54, I can't and won't participate in the head games and silliness that might have been considered acceptable and "normal" when we were in our late teens and twenties. I like to think that the challenges, successes, and yes some failures up to now have provided me with the intelligence to know what and who's right for me.I take mutual respect, honesty, and commitment VERY seriously. If these basic but essential traits aren't present from the very beginning of a relationship, well there is no relationship.Once I connect with someone, I tend to put their needs and feelings ahead of my own. Some say I'm very foolish to do so - some actually resent it (not sure I understand that though), but when I'm truly connected with someone - I can't help but give them everything I can (and no, I'm not just talking material things), and I would hope they would want to reciprocate. In that same vein, I'm emotionally and financially stable and I typically live accordingly. I'm looking for someone that enjoys and is eager to experience new things but knows how to savor the favorites. I enjoy making last minute plans, jumping in the car and doing something that I've always said "I'd like to do that some day". Sort of a bucket list without the bucket.Although I'm not a sports or exercise fanatic, I do admire folks that take fitness very seriously, but religiously spending inordinate amounts of time at a gym is just not for me. I want to be out, taking in everything I can, building memories *** muscles. I enjoy long walks/hikes (yes, on and off the beach), rain or shine. Adventure makes the adrenaline flow and when there's two of us it flows twice as heavily.I guess I have some doubts about on line dating being able to actually find that special person. Conversely, I'm just not into sitting in a bar hitting on women that have no interest in developing a real relationship; or that have a hidden or bizarre agenda. I'm definitely NOT into any one-nighter kind of thing. I firmly believe that a strong mutual commitment with the right person is essential for a great long term relationship. Holding hands, hugging, snuggling - you know what I mean. Just being close to someone that you truly care for (emotionally, mentally, and physically) is a real head rush for me and hopefully for you too.Friends consider me easy going and certainly easy to be with. If you have to make a concerted effort just to "be" with someone, it may be time to start looking again.I DON'T sport any body armor, tattoo's, piercings, or anything mother nature didn't do herself, nor do I have a motorcycle or a boat. I'm not into facial hair (including beard, mustache, ear, or nose) other than the occasional 5 o'clock shadow. My pix are all recent and I would hope yours are as well. Pen Pals are great but I'm looking for a relationship that if appropriate, can eventually go beyond ***, texting, and voice calls. In all seriousness, I'm NOT interested in an extended distance relationship as I'm looking for a true long term relationship. While the "; story is very touching and romantic it just won't work for me.- I doubt our relationship could go beyond rather brief pen-pals and that's just not what I'm interested in. Best of luck with your search. More like a first meeting... as new acquaintances ... a quiet coffee shop or local pub, early evening, enjoying coffee or an adult beverage. No expectations, no pressure, no assumptions. Just two people exploring a potential future.
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Deon
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Man. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: woman. In age: 51-61
I like to travel and do so every year. I like to attend sporting events ( Philly teams .I like to go to the movies, concerts, as well as historical sites. I am vvery easy to get along with.
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Washington
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Man. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: woman. In age: 49-59
If you have friends like I do, you have probably heard it all. "Don't worry, you will meet someone when you least expect it," or "the right woman will come along when you aren't even looking." Well, that advice has not worked. Time to take matters into my own hands. As a school teacher, work is not the best way to meet someone. My daughter is slowly growing up and I REALLY would like to meet someone to share my free time. Although my friends' advice has not worked so far, I will listen to them on one more piece of advice. I have heard from several of them to give meetville.com a chance. Well, here goes! I hope that, finally, I can meet someone with whom I can do fun things with and get to know a little deeper than, "" I hope you are out there and would like to meet a really nice guy. I enjoy spending time with family and friends. When I have free time, I enjoy cooking and entertaining. I like to try new restaurants and will enjoy a cup of coffee or glass of wine and share my company with intersting conversation. I enjoy most all music, except rap. I consider myself a gentleman and hope to find a nice woman with whom to share some of the things I have mentioned. After getting to know each other through *** some phone conversation, our first date should not be so stressful. I enjoy doing something that would include more conversation and getting to know one another. A movie would not be the right environment for that. A drink, some coffee or even dinner would be a nice way to continue getting to know each other.