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United States, New York, Lake Grove

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About Me

Hi...I'm a nice guy with a great sense of humor--dry and/or silly come natural--warm and caring, friendly (usually, lol), romantic, masculine not macho, down to earth but interesting and fun. I can be a little shy at first, especially if I'm really attracted to you; this sometimes renders me useless for a few minutes ;)Spirituality is key for me. I'm a practicing Catholic and have learned that I can't go it alone. Kids are okay, but full time with younger ones might be a challenge. Much of my past work has been tech related, but now I work on contract for a lawyer. The independence and hours are great and it pays the bills.Summer's coming and I love to be outside enjoying nature, music, art, light hikes or walking about--rural, small towns or city. Maybe get a new bike (un-motored, lol). Near the water is cool too. Eating or dining out or in, seeing a movie, etc. You and I and a cafe for conversation, coffee and something sweet, besides you...;)Physical attraction and personality are what work for me, as for most of us. I love a woman who is more on the sweet or soft spoken side. But that's not necessary, as chemistry can be a funny thing.If you're wondering about loyalty, my last true love made me happy. When I had that, there wasn't even a desire to look at another woman for me.If you don't have a photo posted, please at least have (an honest***ready to ***! Please be slim or medium in build and cute. This is what works for me. I personally find that a low key first meeting is great (no pressure).Whatever you're most comfortable with: maybe a cup of coffee or a drink (I don't drink much though, lol) A walk is great too. Then we can go skydiving on our second date, OK? ;)Thanks for stopping by. (For the gramatical types--sorry for all the "I"'s.)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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