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About Me

If I had to descibe myself in one word it would be unique. It is safe to say that I am not like most girls out there. I have spent my life enjoying the people I meet and being there for those when they have needed it. My beliefs are simple, treat people the way you yourself would want to be treated. That being said, it seems as I get older I find myself trying to spend less time and energy on those that have proven not to deserve it. This of course can be difficult because I due honestly believe that there is good in all of us.What makes me so unique is simple. My sense of humor is what people are drawn to. In the past, I have been told I missed my calling as a stand up comedian. I stick to my core values and try to stay as positve as I can on a daily basis. Some days are better than others, just like everyone else. There is not enough space to go into all of my intersts. It is easier to say what I do not like; wresting, boxing, horror movies, tuna, snakes... and the list goes on. At this point in my life my interests are what makes me smile and taking on new experiences.After recently been asked what I DO want in a guy, I realize it is very simple to put into words. The guy I spend my time with wants to hold my hand when we are together. He must have a great smile and most of all like to actually show it!! My ideal man pays enough attention to me to let me know he cares but not too much to drive me away. The guy for me is funny, challenging, strong willed and consistent. Good luck to all of you guys out there...I have finally figured out what I want the hard part is actually finding it!Last, but certainly not least, I am a very strong minded and out-spoken woman. A man that I choose to spend time with should be very confident and not be afraid to speak their mind. I am very fun, sometimes too much fun, and insecure men cannot handle that. Honestly, if you are the type of person who likes to be told exactly what you WANT to hear then you better move on. I am not that girl!!!So, I am adding this last part after being on the site for a couple of weeks...1.If you do not have a profile picture to view...don't bother.2.If you do not like to smile...don't bother3.If you took one of your profile pictures while you were in the shitter...don't bother.4.If you have a white wife beater on in one of your pictures...don't bother.5.If you think you look like a stalker...don't bother.6.If you think an attractive,educated, strong willed woman is going to respond to some inappropriate initial comment...don't bother.I think that about covers it for now... It is challenging to describe what your ideal first date would be without coming close to a Cinderella fairy tale. In reality, we all know that the fairy tale does not work especialy for people like me. The key is to keep it simple but fun. The fairy tale can always come later!! With that all being said, my ideal first date would probably be simple...dinner, drinks and some sort of sports game on TV. It is important to me to keep things as real as they can be especially in the beginning. Most mature adults, including myself, want to not play games and be who they really are from day one. I do not want to waste my time or someone else's for that matter pretending to be something we are not.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Aretha

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    After careful thought I ha e decided to revamp my profile for those of you that actually read it. I have already been "catfished" so pls...if that's your idea of how to go about doing things...leave me out of it. There is no reason to lie about who you are or anything else. My pics are me and recent. If you are into games or married or have a girlfriend, pls move on. I get asked what I am looking for all the time. The truth is, I am not lookin for anything in particular. I want to go out and meet new ppl. If it goes somewhere great, if not that's ok too. You can never have too many friends. I like to hang out with friends, go to amusement parks, have cookouts, go have a beer at a dive bar with good live music...."I'm a ****. I'm a lover. I'm a child. I'm a mother. I'm a sinner. I'm a saint. I do not feel ashamed!!" I do not currently date black men. I'm totally not racist. I just haven't ever been emotionally or physically attracted to a black man yet. So I'm just trying to not waste your time or mine. First dates can be fun and exciting, but they can also be nerve racking and awful. I don't like playing 20 questions or being interviewed. Relax and have a good time. A few beers at a local pub is never a bad idea. Btw: a date is not you inviting me over or yourself over.

  • Jocelyn

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Ready to travel the world, one step at a time. Enjoy listening to music of all kinds, writing stories. Seeking to meet new people from all walks of life and have some really good time with.

  • Haleigh

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I'm looking for someone who wants to enjoy life and have fun. Someone who is a gentleman, not afraid to open door. I want someone who loves to laugh and joke around but not afraid to be serious and show how they feel as well. I love affection and holding hands. I think the little things in life are most important. I like to leave a note or send a text just to say hi and I'm thinking about you. I love to cuddle up on the couch as much as go out hiking or camping or a night out on the town. I want someone to share life with and enjoy those moments that are special. I like a man who thinks to surprise me with flowers or a card just because he's thinking of me. I want someone who thinks for himself, strong but caring and loving too. I like a man who can adapt to changes in life that may happen and wants to stand by each other. Someone who I can confide in and he knows he can lean on me too. This is what I'm looking for, what are you looking for..... going for coffee or dinner to get to know each other...

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