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About Me

If I had to descibe myself in one word it would be unique. It is safe to say that I am not like most girls out there. I have spent my life enjoying the people I meet and being there for those when they have needed it. My beliefs are simple, treat people the way you yourself would want to be treated. That being said, it seems as I get older I find myself trying to spend less time and energy on those that have proven not to deserve it. This of course can be difficult because I due honestly believe that there is good in all of us.What makes me so unique is simple. My sense of humor is what people are drawn to. In the past, I have been told I missed my calling as a stand up comedian. I stick to my core values and try to stay as positve as I can on a daily basis. Some days are better than others, just like everyone else. There is not enough space to go into all of my intersts. It is easier to say what I do not like; wresting, boxing, horror movies, tuna, snakes... and the list goes on. At this point in my life my interests are what makes me smile and taking on new experiences.After recently been asked what I DO want in a guy, I realize it is very simple to put into words. The guy I spend my time with wants to hold my hand when we are together. He must have a great smile and most of all like to actually show it!! My ideal man pays enough attention to me to let me know he cares but not too much to drive me away. The guy for me is funny, challenging, strong willed and consistent. Good luck to all of you guys out there...I have finally figured out what I want the hard part is actually finding it!Last, but certainly not least, I am a very strong minded and out-spoken woman. A man that I choose to spend time with should be very confident and not be afraid to speak their mind. I am very fun, sometimes too much fun, and insecure men cannot handle that. Honestly, if you are the type of person who likes to be told exactly what you WANT to hear then you better move on. I am not that girl!!!So, I am adding this last part after being on the site for a couple of weeks...1.If you do not have a profile picture to view...don't bother.2.If you do not like to smile...don't bother3.If you took one of your profile pictures while you were in the shitter...don't bother.4.If you have a white wife beater on in one of your pictures...don't bother.5.If you think you look like a stalker...don't bother.6.If you think an attractive,educated, strong willed woman is going to respond to some inappropriate initial comment...don't bother.I think that about covers it for now... It is challenging to describe what your ideal first date would be without coming close to a Cinderella fairy tale. In reality, we all know that the fairy tale does not work especialy for people like me. The key is to keep it simple but fun. The fairy tale can always come later!! With that all being said, my ideal first date would probably be simple...dinner, drinks and some sort of sports game on TV. It is important to me to keep things as real as they can be especially in the beginning. Most mature adults, including myself, want to not play games and be who they really are from day one. I do not want to waste my time or someone else's for that matter pretending to be something we are not.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Tilly

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Wow, too much to say...! My favorite saying is, "Instead of adding up your troubles, why don't you count your blessings?" and please, SAY WHAT YOU MEAN AND MEAN WHAT YOU SAY!!! I've been called fun and the life of the party and love having a fun time in everything I do! smilie(' ') I've ventured alot of places, seen alot and traveled....it's all good and fun but better when you share it w/ someone! I love being spontaneous....drop of the hat..ROAD TRIP!! I soo love dancing and concerts...if you were to say pack a small bag and have 15 minutes to do it..well you better have a big R.V. cause I don't travel light! hahaha I'm the go to girl......the past several months have been a blast for me...i'm soo ready to "chill" a little and hopefully meet someone w/ character, morals and definitely values...cause life is too short to play the field when you have a home run!!! I'm not high maintenance by any means, but I love dressing up and "playing the part"....I totally expect "my guy" to do the same! Be the fun loving, out going guy that can get dirty, but at the same time dress up and play/dress the part as well! Sorry guys, I've raised my daughter, so no young kids!!!LAST BUT NOT LEAST...I AM NOT INTO BLACK GUYS! (getting alot of that) sorry!!!! The first date can be anywhere "we" feel comfortable meeting... somewhere for HH. I feel chemistry is key and important and I think you can tell within 15 minutes if there is a spark or something "there". First dates in my opinion, should be casual and laid back.

  • Andrea

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    A meet and greet over coffee or a beer would work just fine for me.

  • Lupita

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I work long crazy hours so I enjoy spending time with my family and friends when I can . I enjoying being outdoors, taking my dogs for a walk, horseback riding, cooking out. I like to go out but I just as happy snuggling on the couch and watching a movie . If there is anything u want to know just ask Something where we can talk and get to know each other

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