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About Me

If I had to descibe myself in one word it would be unique. It is safe to say that I am not like most girls out there. I have spent my life enjoying the people I meet and being there for those when they have needed it. My beliefs are simple, treat people the way you yourself would want to be treated. That being said, it seems as I get older I find myself trying to spend less time and energy on those that have proven not to deserve it. This of course can be difficult because I due honestly believe that there is good in all of us.What makes me so unique is simple. My sense of humor is what people are drawn to. In the past, I have been told I missed my calling as a stand up comedian. I stick to my core values and try to stay as positve as I can on a daily basis. Some days are better than others, just like everyone else. There is not enough space to go into all of my intersts. It is easier to say what I do not like; wresting, boxing, horror movies, tuna, snakes... and the list goes on. At this point in my life my interests are what makes me smile and taking on new experiences.After recently been asked what I DO want in a guy, I realize it is very simple to put into words. The guy I spend my time with wants to hold my hand when we are together. He must have a great smile and most of all like to actually show it!! My ideal man pays enough attention to me to let me know he cares but not too much to drive me away. The guy for me is funny, challenging, strong willed and consistent. Good luck to all of you guys out there...I have finally figured out what I want the hard part is actually finding it!Last, but certainly not least, I am a very strong minded and out-spoken woman. A man that I choose to spend time with should be very confident and not be afraid to speak their mind. I am very fun, sometimes too much fun, and insecure men cannot handle that. Honestly, if you are the type of person who likes to be told exactly what you WANT to hear then you better move on. I am not that girl!!!So, I am adding this last part after being on the site for a couple of weeks...1.If you do not have a profile picture to view...don't bother.2.If you do not like to smile...don't bother3.If you took one of your profile pictures while you were in the shitter...don't bother.4.If you have a white wife beater on in one of your pictures...don't bother.5.If you think you look like a stalker...don't bother.6.If you think an attractive,educated, strong willed woman is going to respond to some inappropriate initial comment...don't bother.I think that about covers it for now... It is challenging to describe what your ideal first date would be without coming close to a Cinderella fairy tale. In reality, we all know that the fairy tale does not work especialy for people like me. The key is to keep it simple but fun. The fairy tale can always come later!! With that all being said, my ideal first date would probably be simple...dinner, drinks and some sort of sports game on TV. It is important to me to keep things as real as they can be especially in the beginning. Most mature adults, including myself, want to not play games and be who they really are from day one. I do not want to waste my time or someone else's for that matter pretending to be something we are not.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Sharice

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I love country music, but enjoy all music. I have not seen any of the latest movies and miss going. My 3 year old son takes up alot of my time, he is my world!! I love being a kid again and showing my son all this world has to offer. We go\do something fun and interesting every other weekend when i have him. I have not read many books lately. I am looking to get out of the house for a bit with some good company to have some fun. My job takes up a lot of my time also, but i work hard so i can play hard. Smart guys turn me on. I have a zest for life and noone to share it with. First dates are always difficult. But just some drinks/coffee and good conversation would be a great way to start.

  • Twana

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I am looking for someone that is honest and caring and can look past a slight disability caused from my battle with cancer and see the person I am. I am a single mom of two great kids, with one that lives at home and the other lives with their father. I'm looking for that special someone that is willing to start out as friends and see where things go. I am an open book so anything you would like to know, all you have to do is ask. I like a lot of different music. I enjoy good conversation, watching movies or tv, listening to music, playing board and card games, going to the park. To go somewhere quiet for dinner or something to drink to get to know each other better and see how we feel being with each other.

  • Fidelia

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I can be alittle bit goofy and I love to make people laugh. Spending time with my friends is important to me. I get to do what I love for a living and enjoy waking up and going to work at a place that makes me proud. I like to get out and experience new things. Exploring in the woods, walks with someone I care about, a concert just about anything outside. I'm not much into sports but I do watch basketball occasionally. Skydiving would be a blast. I like all kinds of music. My favorite songs are sung in the car with the windows down on a sunny afternoon road trip. I am looking for someone that can make me laugh and that likes to experience new things as well. You have to be open-minded and I like someone that can carry on an intelligent conversation. Someone that can make me think. Someone that will wrap his arms around me and shut out the world. Outdoors free concert, drinks, picnic.. somewhere that we can talk. A first date should be short and sweet so we can decide if we want to get to know each other better.

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