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Aretha, 36

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About Me

After careful thought I ha e decided to revamp my profile for those of you that actually read it. I have already been "catfished" so pls...if that's your idea of how to go about doing things...leave me out of it. There is no reason to lie about who you are or anything else. My pics are me and recent. If you are into games or married or have a girlfriend, pls move on. I get asked what I am looking for all the time. The truth is, I am not lookin for anything in particular. I want to go out and meet new ppl. If it goes somewhere great, if not that's ok too. You can never have too many friends. I like to hang out with friends, go to amusement parks, have cookouts, go have a beer at a dive bar with good live music...."I'm a ****. I'm a lover. I'm a child. I'm a mother. I'm a sinner. I'm a saint. I do not feel ashamed!!" I do not currently date black men. I'm totally not racist. I just haven't ever been emotionally or physically attracted to a black man yet. So I'm just trying to not waste your time or mine. First dates can be fun and exciting, but they can also be nerve racking and awful. I don't like playing 20 questions or being interviewed. Relax and have a good time. A few beers at a local pub is never a bad idea. Btw: a date is not you inviting me over or yourself over.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Darby

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    First I have an teenage daughter who is my world. I also work with children. Looking for someone who does love kids too.I enjoy movies and music, I'm a big fan of comedies adam sandler are my favorite.I love music all kinds and enjoy going to local country concerts.I love the outdoors and fishing.I'm an easy going girl, down to earth type. I like working out at the gym and outdoor exercising., anything u would like to know just ask*I'm not looking for a one night stand or anything of that sort.I'm still old school and still believe in getting to know the person and talking for a bit before even meeting*I'm not a drinker, maybe a few times a year I may have a drink if that, I'm not the bar type, don't mind going if its to listen to a band , sime of the best shows are a just a singer with their guitarAlso I'm sorry not trying to seem racist but I don't date outside my race, its just my personal prefrence. Some place we both would enjoy

  • Iraida

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I think my closest friends would describe me as fun-loving, smart, and loyal. I have a great sense of humor (sometimes sarcastic) and value spending time with the people I care about. I’m shy and quiet around people I don’t know, but once I get to know you, you’ll have a hard time getting me to stop. I’m brutally honest and tell it how it is, which can sometimes get me in trouble. I’ The commute isn’t fun, but I love my job so it’s worth it. Outside of that I try to run as much as I can with my schedule -- it’s my way to just get outside, listen to some music, and de-stress. I like to read and go to the movies.’m happy. I love going to area wineries and wine festivals, and have even gone to a beerfest or two. I consider myself a good cook and I can bake too. I’m completely uncoordinated and have never been good at sports. I can’t ride a bike but still have hope I’ll meet someone one day who will finally have enough patience to teach me. I am, however, very very competitive at Mini Golf and would love to learn the real game of golf. I wish I would make hiking more of a priority.I’m not much for the hot humid weather, I love winter -- snow tubing, sledding, and making snow angels. I love city life, but would choose the mountains over the beach any day.I’m looking for someone who is as comfortable in a suit as he is in a t-shirt and jeans, someone who’s handy, who likes to go out and also is ok with just chilling at home. He should make me laugh (and find the same things funny).I want a guy to treat me right, keep his promises, and pay more attention to me than to his cell phone when we’re out. He should have a decent job, value the same things I do, and make our relationship a priority. I’m old-fashioned about dating and think a guy should make the first move, open doors, hold my hand, etc. I look forward to making a real connection with someone who I can share my life with. Please have a photo if you message me, thanks.

  • Abbigayle

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I have to be honest here, guys...at this point I'm simply trolling profiles for the entertainment value. Were I a weaker minded individual then I fear my self esteem would suffer greatly by the quality/type of interactions here, but I'm not. I'm made of stronger stuff. I am bored seeing the chip on your shoulder worn like a badge of honor. We've all been hurt. That's why we're "here". Trust is always an issue for those who have been betrayed. But oh the numbers of "honest" guys who "treat a woman with respect" and "like a queen" - when they can't even carry a decent conversation that doesn't immediately introduce sex as a topic of discussion...I won't even get on THAT soapbox. There is nothing compliant about me, and I won't pretend to be what I'm not. I don't play a part to attract someone or get them to like me - what you see is what you get. And my sex kitten is only let out to play with someone with whom trust and intimacy are established... Not right out of the gate. I'm a great person, with intelligence and a sense of humor. I'm independent - I don't need a man to squish bugs, do the yard work, or carry heavy things for me. I have a career, a home, a car that gets me where I need to go, and wonderful children that fill my heart with joy. I have a beautiful balance in my life, and I would love someday to share that with a man who has integrity, character and intelligence.

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