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Lela, 39

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About Me

I have two kids and they are my number one priority. I enjoy Zumba classes several times a week. I am not a fitness fanatic, but going to the gym gets rid of my stress. I am very ecclectic in my taste of music. I listen to everything from 80's hair bands to 90s rap, classic rock and pop. I love movies - comedies, horror, drama, action - love them all! I am looking for someone that has a great sense of humor and frankly someone who gets mine as well. I'm pretty sarcastic. I like a man who is confident but not arrogant, educated but not a know-it-all and someone who enjoys the simpler things in life. I am NOT a country girl so if you are looking for someone that enjoys hunting, fishing and camping, I'm not your match. I am looking for someone that has been in a relationship for 5+ years and I will not date anyone that is separated. I enjoy going to the movies, watching UFC fights or just sitting home with a bottle of wine and good conversation. My favorite places to go to relax are the beach, the mountains or amusement parks. I am a christian and my faith is a very important aspect of my life. If you are not a man of God, you are not the man for me. I think first dates should be pretty laid back and just condusive to conversation. Coffee or drinks are a good start.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ashlea

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    *Disclaimer* NO I am not sad, I'm just not comfortable having my picture taken.I have a secret and I'm going to share it. As sexy as well trimmed facial hair can be on some men, I don't like the way it smells. Unlike most women (at least the ones I know) I really don't like to talk on the phone. Please don't send me your number and expect me to call because unless we've been talking for a while, I won't.No drama! I've got 4 kids of my own and take in several teens (sometimes I have up to ***with nowhere else to go so I have enough of my own. I seem to attract kids who are damaged, mentally, physically, or emotionally. I love having them and helping, but it's a lot of work. To them I'm often counselor, surrogate mom AND dad, friend, and educator. My word is law in my house. I also work a full time job. My free time is limited and I'm selective about who I share it with.I'm not looking to share the drama, just looking to make new friends. I've listed that I'm looking for a casual relationship, but that's not necessarily true. I'm really here just to make friends, if more develops that's fine.I've lived here for 4 years now and still haven't learned to ski. One of these days I plan on taking the kids and learning. I love the mountains, grew up on the ocean and miss it. I used to fish and camp and would like to do them again, but left all the gear with the ex. Sadly it hasn't been a priority, but I'd sure like to do all that again. I'd also love to learn to ride a snow machine in the winter and a 4wheeler the rest of the time - so if you're a good teacher and can laugh a lot...;)I am honest, not political, I don't judge people (or try really hard not to), I'm open minded, I try to stay positive but we all have bad days (sometimes weeks). I'll respect your boundaries and expect you to respect mine.I like to play pool and go bowling, am horrible at both, and haven't done either in quite some time. tried frisbee golf (frolfing?) last summer and had fun, I'm not good at it and we cheated a lot, but we were all laughing so isn't that what counts? I'm pretty good at regular frisbee though.I like all music with very few exceptions, and even those I've found I like some of it. Went to my first hockey game last year and loved it. Not a huge sports fan, but am willing to sit and watch a game if that's what you really want to do (just don't get mad if I fall asleep next to you!) Something relaxed in a public place. No expectations, I like to let things flow how they will. No matter how many messages we send back and forth or texts or whatever, I'm still shy at the initial in person meeting. Takes me a short while to warm up.

  • Cherice

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I love all music except country, I love the outdoors, I really like funny guys, I am layed back and I just want a friend if it turns into more than that than it would be cool with me. I have four kids ages 20, 16, 14, and 13.

  • Katheryne

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I'm not kidding! There's a lot going on! I have two kids, twins- boy and girl, age 8. I also have a dog, cat, hamster and a fish tank. I work full time and own my own home. I like to do lots of outdoors stuff- horses, camping, hiking, riding motorcycles, boating. I would def rather be doing something outside than hanging out in a bar, whether its sitting around the campfire and listening to country music or playing in the garden. I also spend lots of time out at rend lake or any of the local hiking trails. Any other questions, just ask!Just to warn you, I use the app on my phone. It says I am online when I am not. If I don't answer right away, please be patient. I will get back to you as soon as I can! :-) I think both of us should decide together.

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