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Ashlea, 40

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About Me

*Disclaimer* NO I am not sad, I'm just not comfortable having my picture taken.I have a secret and I'm going to share it. As sexy as well trimmed facial hair can be on some men, I don't like the way it smells. Unlike most women (at least the ones I know) I really don't like to talk on the phone. Please don't send me your number and expect me to call because unless we've been talking for a while, I won't.No drama! I've got 4 kids of my own and take in several teens (sometimes I have up to ***with nowhere else to go so I have enough of my own. I seem to attract kids who are damaged, mentally, physically, or emotionally. I love having them and helping, but it's a lot of work. To them I'm often counselor, surrogate mom AND dad, friend, and educator. My word is law in my house. I also work a full time job. My free time is limited and I'm selective about who I share it with.I'm not looking to share the drama, just looking to make new friends. I've listed that I'm looking for a casual relationship, but that's not necessarily true. I'm really here just to make friends, if more develops that's fine.I've lived here for 4 years now and still haven't learned to ski. One of these days I plan on taking the kids and learning. I love the mountains, grew up on the ocean and miss it. I used to fish and camp and would like to do them again, but left all the gear with the ex. Sadly it hasn't been a priority, but I'd sure like to do all that again. I'd also love to learn to ride a snow machine in the winter and a 4wheeler the rest of the time - so if you're a good teacher and can laugh a lot...;)I am honest, not political, I don't judge people (or try really hard not to), I'm open minded, I try to stay positive but we all have bad days (sometimes weeks). I'll respect your boundaries and expect you to respect mine.I like to play pool and go bowling, am horrible at both, and haven't done either in quite some time. tried frisbee golf (frolfing?) last summer and had fun, I'm not good at it and we cheated a lot, but we were all laughing so isn't that what counts? I'm pretty good at regular frisbee though.I like all music with very few exceptions, and even those I've found I like some of it. Went to my first hockey game last year and loved it. Not a huge sports fan, but am willing to sit and watch a game if that's what you really want to do (just don't get mad if I fall asleep next to you!) Something relaxed in a public place. No expectations, I like to let things flow how they will. No matter how many messages we send back and forth or texts or whatever, I'm still shy at the initial in person meeting. Takes me a short while to warm up.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Leola

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    So I obviously need to redo my intro. If you are looking for a hookup I am not the one. I am looking for a man who can match me intellectually, spiritually and sexually. A gentleman, someone who us strong, confident and self sufficient. A man who will treat me like a lady and who knows how to make me feel important. I am a proud mother of two wonderful kids. One is in college the other is a sophmore in high school. You having kids does not bother me as Lon as you are a good and honorable father. Do not need to raise a man who should be grown by now. I am successful in my career and goal driven. I enjoy adventures and at the same time enjoy a nice evening at home watching a good movie. I would like to find my partner in life. I have no time for games or drama. I enjoy movies, camping, cars, motocycles, a good book, traveling, anything to do with water, and learning new things. I love to cook especially if I have someone to cook for. I have tattoos. I am not a barbie doll or model material but I am heathy and in good shape. I love going to the gym and keeping fit. I am somewhat outspoken and know what I want in and out of life. I like to have fun. God is very important in my life and is my driving force. If you think that we would be a good match send me a message. If I do not message back it is because I am not interested. My first date I would want to be suprised.

  • Austyn

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I am a single mother of two beautiful little girls. They are with me 5 days a week and they're my entire life! I have a great full time job as an office secretary. I own my own home and consider myself pretty independent. I love to spend time with friends and family and I'm very close to my family. I'm usually up for just about anything, depending on what I'm in the mood for. Whether it's go out and have a few drinks at a party, go to the movies or spend a quiet night at home. Looking for someone with a great sense of humour to spend time with. Meeting for a coffee or a drink would be great! Somewhere we can sit and chat.

  • Margery

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    !!!!!!!!REWARD IF FOUND!!!!!!!!LISTEN UP BOYS, SHE CAN BE IDENTIFIED BY THE FOLLOWING TRAITS:SHES FUNNY, PLAYFULL, OUTGOING, CREATIVE, PASSIONATE, AMBITIOUS AND COURAGIOUSWell now, have you ever watched someone thinking so hard on something that you could see the wheel o' turning but the hampster was dead? Not with this lady. Her ideas may wind up an adventure, bound and determined perhaps at an amusement park dragging home a ride just short of a roller coaster!(she's done that before - her neighbors are always wondering 'what next') She is playful like a kitten yet couragious like a lion. Her sense of humor and imagination combined brings on an adventure when a funny thought comes to her mind and she considers acting upon it. Shes been heard to say that she would love to just walk up to a flagman, grab his walkie talkie and sign and re-direct traffic to allow her car through. Only of course to throw the sign in the woods when shes done, brush her hands off and look at the flagman as she walks away. Those who heard her say this thought it was the expression she would receive from the flagman that had her so intrigued to do so one day. I think its just the laughter. She loves to make people laugh, then yet I dont know maybe shes just a little crazy. Just be careful out there on your search for this one, if she acts upon something like this it could get a little wild. SHES ATTRACTIVE, HAS A BEAUTIFUL SMILE, NO KIDS AND SHES AVAILABLENow I've known this lady for quite a while now and I have become a fan of her personality. I couldn't help but listen at a local pub when a man approached her and asked her "You have the most beautiful smile, how did you get your teeth so white?" Well, the little lady obviously didnt know anything better to say, with a smile but "toothpaste." I swear I could've seen her heart drop to the floor when the man smiled back at her and was missing some of his teeth while the others were bound to fall out at any moment. I thought I would just drop to the floor as I watched her face when that man smiled. You see, sometimes humor just follows the little lady. I could tell it made her feel SO bad, she worried that he may have thought she was being a smart ass by saying "toothpaste", but she wasn't. Let me tell you now thats a warm hearted woman. You wouldn't catch this lady saying a bad thing about anyone, unless of course they deserved it and if they did, believe me buddy, they gonna know it. Yes sir, but we will talk about that another time.SHES SENSUAL, HONEST, LOYAL, GENEROUS, CONFIDENT, DIGNIFIED AND INDEPENDANTNow I've know of this little lady a long time. Shes never been married but I guess you could say shes been through the steps of divorce at one time of her life and shes learned from it, atleast about judgements of character. She is loyal and committed to those she loves. Her confidence is evident upon entering a room. Between you and I, this little lady needs someone to look up to, someone to guide her along but not control her. You would have to be strong and of a some what independant nature. Now if shes what you're looking for on your search, well than good luck on your adventure son. HER PERSONALITY WILL BE YOUR REWARD. Be mighty careful, you could easily fall in love with this one. By the way if you do find her, tell her I said hello. Believe me, she will know who I am, just tell her I finally retired from the road crew. The tiring years of being a flagman are finally done. OK, now let me go over her INTERESTS to assist you with your search: CAMPING - You could find her with friends, family, sticks, marshmallows and drinksBOATING - Dont oversee her now. Shes been seen floating in a two man boat with numerous friends and drinksFISHING - More than likely you will find someone else with her to assist in putting the worm on the hookAMUSEMENT PARKS - Riding them damned ole roller coastersSHOOTING POOL ***or 9 ballSHOPPING - Yep, she likes thatCOOKOUTS -

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