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Ashlea, 40

United States, Colorado, Rifle

Offline, last seen Wed, 12 Aug 2026 05:53:10

About Me

*Disclaimer* NO I am not sad, I'm just not comfortable having my picture taken.I have a secret and I'm going to share it. As sexy as well trimmed facial hair can be on some men, I don't like the way it smells. Unlike most women (at least the ones I know) I really don't like to talk on the phone. Please don't send me your number and expect me to call because unless we've been talking for a while, I won't.No drama! I've got 4 kids of my own and take in several teens (sometimes I have up to ***with nowhere else to go so I have enough of my own. I seem to attract kids who are damaged, mentally, physically, or emotionally. I love having them and helping, but it's a lot of work. To them I'm often counselor, surrogate mom AND dad, friend, and educator. My word is law in my house. I also work a full time job. My free time is limited and I'm selective about who I share it with.I'm not looking to share the drama, just looking to make new friends. I've listed that I'm looking for a casual relationship, but that's not necessarily true. I'm really here just to make friends, if more develops that's fine.I've lived here for 4 years now and still haven't learned to ski. One of these days I plan on taking the kids and learning. I love the mountains, grew up on the ocean and miss it. I used to fish and camp and would like to do them again, but left all the gear with the ex. Sadly it hasn't been a priority, but I'd sure like to do all that again. I'd also love to learn to ride a snow machine in the winter and a 4wheeler the rest of the time - so if you're a good teacher and can laugh a lot...;)I am honest, not political, I don't judge people (or try really hard not to), I'm open minded, I try to stay positive but we all have bad days (sometimes weeks). I'll respect your boundaries and expect you to respect mine.I like to play pool and go bowling, am horrible at both, and haven't done either in quite some time. tried frisbee golf (frolfing?) last summer and had fun, I'm not good at it and we cheated a lot, but we were all laughing so isn't that what counts? I'm pretty good at regular frisbee though.I like all music with very few exceptions, and even those I've found I like some of it. Went to my first hockey game last year and loved it. Not a huge sports fan, but am willing to sit and watch a game if that's what you really want to do (just don't get mad if I fall asleep next to you!) Something relaxed in a public place. No expectations, I like to let things flow how they will. No matter how many messages we send back and forth or texts or whatever, I'm still shy at the initial in person meeting. Takes me a short while to warm up.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Indonesian South American History Music Sport Boxing Rodeo
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