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Ashlea, 40
United States, Colorado, Rifle

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*Disclaimer* NO I am not sad, I'm just not comfortable having my picture taken.I have a secret and I'm going to share it. As sexy as well trimmed facial hair can be on some men, I don't like the way it smells. Unlike most women (at least the ones I know) I really don't like to talk on the phone. Please don't send me your number and expect me to call because unless we've been talking for a while, I won't.No drama! I've got 4 kids of my own and take in several teens (sometimes I have up to ***with nowhere else to go so I have enough of my own. I seem to attract kids who are damaged, mentally, physically, or emotionally. I love having them and helping, but it's a lot of work. To them I'm often counselor, surrogate mom AND dad, friend, and educator. My word is law in my house. I also work a full time job. My free time is limited and I'm selective about who I share it with.I'm not looking to share the drama, just looking to make new friends. I've listed that I'm looking for a casual relationship, but that's not necessarily true. I'm really here just to make friends, if more develops that's fine.I've lived here for 4 years now and still haven't learned to ski. One of these days I plan on taking the kids and learning. I love the mountains, grew up on the ocean and miss it. I used to fish and camp and would like to do them again, but left all the gear with the ex. Sadly it hasn't been a priority, but I'd sure like to do all that again. I'd also love to learn to ride a snow machine in the winter and a 4wheeler the rest of the time - so if you're a good teacher and can laugh a lot...;)I am honest, not political, I don't judge people (or try really hard not to), I'm open minded, I try to stay positive but we all have bad days (sometimes weeks). I'll respect your boundaries and expect you to respect mine.I like to play pool and go bowling, am horrible at both, and haven't done either in quite some time. tried frisbee golf (frolfing?) last summer and had fun, I'm not good at it and we cheated a lot, but we were all laughing so isn't that what counts? I'm pretty good at regular frisbee though.I like all music with very few exceptions, and even those I've found I like some of it. Went to my first hockey game last year and loved it. Not a huge sports fan, but am willing to sit and watch a game if that's what you really want to do (just don't get mad if I fall asleep next to you!) Something relaxed in a public place. No expectations, I like to let things flow how they will. No matter how many messages we send back and forth or texts or whatever, I'm still shy at the initial in person meeting. Takes me a short while to warm up.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Indonesian South American History Music Sport Boxing Rodeo
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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Okay, so here's the fun part!! So, you've already read the stats....what they DON'T tell u is that im a total spaz.!), the walking part is usually a hot mess. Im the one with the toilet paper stuck to my shoe, my zipper down, and my a** hanging out cuz part of my skirt is shoved in my underwear. But, im almost always wearin a big smile! So Armpit .... alot more of u are from the Armpit of IL than are aware, lemme tell ya. Geographically speaking, im more bum-knee area .... lower than hemorrhoid but above toe jam. The Sheriff was arrested recently for being drunk & engaging in lewd behavior with another man ..... thinkin I should change my location to butt-f**k, IL... that's a COMPLETELY true story, btw.Goals?? Isn't it obvious if i'm on a dating site?? And, i've pretty well covered the unique topic. Music?? After referencing the mp3 player...currently AC/DC.. Did i cover the "successful description" tips? Im not real serious about anything...and, unlike most people on here, i have no idea who "I" am...i'm pretty well wingin' it every day. Let's see...I love to laugh...love to eat!! I ain't to salad-eatin bi**h, either....unless its beside a big honkin' steak or a side of ribs!! I have 3 horses, a cow, a cat, and a 4-pound chihuahua that thinks he's Hugh Hefner, a son, and two daughters. I love my kids (duh) but they're listed last because they're REALLY pissing me off today!! I have pretty toes & great teeth. Im not real good at this, LOLIm not especially picky when it comes to men, either (big surprise, huh?;peace" sign, or have the urge to message me to say you can give me a better ride than my horse, u may wanna keep fishing. Do us both a favor and DON'T tell me to come to your house ... that usually leads to insulting comments and, trust me, im better at that than you are ... i may be a bag of mixed nuts, but im still somewhat of a lady .. treat me like one (at least at first.)HAUNTED HOUSES!!! DUH!!!

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Hello all. Thank you for looking at my profile. I am looking for a good hearted guy, who can carry on an intelligent conversation and make me laugh. Honesty is a must with me, I can't stand liars. If you say you are going to be somewhere or do something, do it, if something comes up, the courtesy of a phone call is a big thing. I will give you the same respect. I know how to treat someone well, make the foods he likes, make sure his favorite beverage is stocked in the fridge, text him to let him know I am thinking of him, & do little things to show I care. Ultimately I would love to find a guy who does the same. I won't play games with your heart, and I do expect the same in return.I work a couple of jobs but most of my evenings are free and I would love to find someone to go out and play pool or mini-golf with, go to the batting cages, go to a movie, or cuddle up and enjoy a movie at home with. Eventually I would love to find someone to settle down with, but I am in no rush to jump into anything too serious. I feel that anything worthwhile starts out with a good solid friendship. I love to cook, and everyone tells me I am pretty good at it.R.; But I love anything with a good story. That goes for movies too; sci-fi, fantasy, action, drama, it all works. I do love kids, and would love to have one or two someday, but I am also realistic. If you have children, that is awesome, I think that we should be able to balance that, if we put our minds too it. However, I don't know about dealing with a psycho ex. hehe. Family and Friends are the most important thing to me. I am a very compassionate and caring person, and a very good listener. I am a LMT, and RMP (Licensed Massage Therapist, & Reiki Master Practioner), and I work a retail job on the weekends, until I can build up enough of a clientele to do that full time. Please DO NOT message me about "happy endings", that will get your profile blocked very quickly. I love my work, I love helping to ease peoples pain, and I am serious about my work. Someday I would love to open my own day spa. I think that is enough for the moment, message me if you would like to know more. Have a great day and good luck in your search. Start out with meeting in a public place for a cup of coffee, then if we hit it off maybe mini-golf, pool, bowling, or dinner, where ever the mood takes us.

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