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Stepanie, 33
United States, Missouri, Bethany

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I've never been your "average" girl...I've always been a bit of a Math/Physics nerd and a tomboy at heart. Growing up, I got along better with the boys and spent my days tossing footballs, playing street hockey, watching my dad try to fix his old cars and searching for frogs, salamanders, bugs & snails and would often beg my parents to let me keep them for a few weeks as pets. I still toss footballs, watch hockey and pick up all of those things for my kids but I am looking for someone who doesn't mind killing the spiders.I absolutely love camping (tent or trailer), hiking, fishing, quading, playing at the beach, backyard BBQs and star-gazing. Before next summer I would like to improve my golf game, re-learn how to ski (exiting the chairlift with me could get embarrassing), get back into tennis (I need a partner!) and find someone with differing hobbies and skills who has the patience and the desire to teach me...perhaps dirt biking or teaching me how to drive stick? Likewise, I may be able to teach you a few things! I truly believe that the couple that plays together stays together...if you can't enjoy each other's company doing the things that you love, isn't it a little pointless? I hope to one day own a telescope and learn a little more about astronomy. I would also love to take scuba lessons and do a little more traveling as I'm absolutely fascinated by underwater life...that said, I also love to eat underwater life, as my all-time favourite foods are sushi and crab legs. I prefer red over pink, hot over cold, lime over lemon, and a good beer over wine...although wine can be nice too ;) On that note, I am definitely not a big drinker and you will never see me loser-drunk, and I am not into the bar/club scene...so would prefer to be with someone with similar traits in that respect. I've decided to simply start dating again without any pressure or commitment *in the beginning*, *** putting all my eggs into one basket and jumping into a "commitment" right away. I recently ended a long-term relationship, and before that I was in a 14 year relationship (left 3.5 years ago) and never really took any time for myself in between. Terrible, I know! Just because I intend to date first before becoming serious about someone, doesn't mean I'm going to be careless or fooling around with more than one person. Chances are, if I like someone enough to go there, I'm pretty much hooked lol. Don't mistake me for an “easy conquest“. If you're looking for one, there are plenty on this site and in the bars. I will only give the very best of myself to someone who earns it and deserves it. After that, good luck keeping up with me lol.Ultimately I'm looking for an honest, laid-back, genuinely kind-hearted and loyal man who loves to make me laugh, play outdoors, have fun and spend time with me and my kids...someone who loves to cuddle up and watch movies, have BBQs and bonfires with good friends and neighbours, sit through kids’ Christmas plays and squeaky band concerts, and fall asleep with me every night. Integrity, loyalty, self-control, honesty and maturity are all EXTREMELY important to me...if you are lacking in any of these areas we simply will not work out. I won't look back because the kind of love, affection and relationship I have to offer is the very best and my children and I deserve the very best in return. Just to be clear, I'm not looking for a fling or a half-hearted attempt at a relationship... If you sincerely feel that we could be a match then I would love to hear from you! "Unless it's mad, passionate, extraordinary love, it's a waste of your time... There are too many mediocre things in life. Love shouldn't be one of them." Tetris Battle!! Just kidding ;) Kinda. Coffee seems too impersonal and short to me...I think it would feel more like an interview than a date, so ideally I would at least like to go for lunch with you or something along those lines...it would keep the pressure off and give us plenty of time to talk and get to know each other a bit, see if there's any potential and chemistry, and offers a few welcome distractions if needed like extra chewing, etc. Sound fun? Haha...if lunch goes well, we can find something a little more fun and custom-fit for our 2nd date!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Rock Play Musical Instrument Traveling Archery Drag Racing Pets
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