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About Me

I am a laidback, funny, spiritual person who is looking for someone to date and possibly more. Someone who wants to be more than a f buddy but not necessarily want to get married at this very moment. Someone who wants to go to movies, dinner, music events, etc...you know...date! I have had plenty of hobbies in the past but the only one I have really held onto is reading: I LOVE to read! Maybe for the escape of it all? Perhaps you will be the one who helps me to have adventures and go to exciting places? BTW I also LOVE to travel but have not done so for quite a while.I work as a chemical and mental health counselor at a residential facility for adults. I like my job but need something more in my life I just don't know what. When I say I am a spiritual person I mean that I like reading about different cultures and what they believe. I would say I am more Buddhist than Christian but I am open to many ideas and believe I am always willing to learn something new.My taste in music is mostly soft rock I guess annd includes DMB, Aerosmith and many others. Anything but Rap, Bluegrass and Opera. For a first date I would like to meet for coffee to see if we are compatible and have good chemistry. Maybe the second date would be dinner and a movie. I am an old-fashioned girl in some ways and will not sleep with someone on the first date. Don't get me wrong I am no prude but I DO have some standards! By the way, if you are not willing to make an effort to be with me move on...NEXT!!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Brandy

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I would really like to just get on with my life and move forward. I do not mind having alone time at all., it allows us to reflect and learn from our life and ourselves every day.. But i am ready to enjoy the rest of my life laughing and not spend so much of it alone..or working or mowing the grass or watching a sitcom and crack up laughing and know that i am the only one in the house. So with that being said....... Here goes me... If you are ready for this me..I am the type of girl who will burst out laughing in dead silence at something that happened yesterday.. I believe that what lies before us and what lies behind us is nothing compared to what lies within us.. I believe that if you have enemies..good..that means you stood up for something in your life. I believe that someday someone will walk into our lives and make us realize why it never worked with anyone else. I would just like to say that I am about as real as it gets... I still have the little girl in me with hopes and dreams that i still wait for to come true..one of them still.., that i will find the one love to gracefully grow old with.Sometimes it would be easier to be alone but loneliness is everything it's cracked up to be! whether we want to admit it or not....we are all looking for the same exact thing and late at night when the lights are out and no one is looking ...we all feel the lonliness tug at our heartstrings, yet still a glimmer of hope we find what we yearn for. I personally believe it truly doesn t matter what the first date is about as long as there is a connection and chemistry with each other...you can actually just sit and stare at a rock with a person and be happy... if they are the right person.. it is all in who you are with....and that is a fact...! i love nature..it is one of the greatest of all things...i love the rain...thunderstorms...the first snowfall.....autumn..walking thru the leaves...the stars...campfires. All of which are fantastic alone, but would only be even more great when shared with someone that you want to spend the rest of your life with..........first date? i would just like to spend some time together ..get to know one another...take a walk in the evening....maybe just sit down outside in the middle of god and nature....and talk....about whatever it is that we feel is important at the time and if we feel comfortable with each other..conversation will come naturally...and take it from there.....

  • Wendi

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I am a single Mom who has devoted my life to raising my son. He is now 20 and it's time for me to start living life for myself now. I don't go to bars and it appears that single men don't frequent Publix so I am trying this site for a little while.I'm an incurable romantic who would like to find that special someone that will complete my life. I love to hold hands, snuggle, hug, kiss, laugh and travel. Cruises are my favorite and I have a few places on my bucket list. I believe honesty, trust and communication is important in a relationship.Music: Country, Classical, Pop, Latin - pretty much everythingMovies: Comedy, romance, action, musical - not into scarey moviesTravel: Cruises are my favorite.Dislikes: Younger men - which means if you are more than 5 years younger than me I am not interested but thanks for the compliment Prefer someplace where we can hear each other and don't go home smelling like cigarette smoke.

  • Joceline

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I’m seeking balance in my life.I have a wonderful career, a great family, a close circle of friends I can depend on and I wake up happy each morning. So what am I missing? A companion. A great guy who has …..*A sharp wit to keep me laughing. * A love for music so we can burst into song on a car trip or check out some of my friends performing around town. * Spring in his step so we can do the happy dance together. * Youthful exuberance to match mine. * A keen intellect to remember what I’ve forgotten during a ‘menopausal/blonde/it’s been a really long day’ moment. * An adventuresome spirit because darn it, it’s time we had some fun!* Optimism because the doom and gloom attitude is very unhealthy.* An open mind... don't worry, your brain won't fall out.* Patience for when I have to put in crazy hours for an event or deadline.* Decent cooking skills so we don’t starve during previously stated crazy hours for an event or deadline. *The most important thing is integrity, because with that, trust and a good foundation begins.Now.... as for me.....* I am healthy, happy , and I just LOVE to laugh.* I evaluate people by their character, not by their ethnicity.* I don't relate well to men who have to have their way all of the time. We can meet in the middle like intelligent adults.* I find that self confidence is very attractive.* I'm a real snuggle bug and very affectionate.* I'm optimistic 99% of the time.* I have degrees in fine arts AND accounting. Both sides of my brain work well together.* I am blessed to have a beautiful studio and art gallery. Thus the reason for events and deadlines mentioned earlier.I'm a happy woman who wants to share her life with a happy man....... simple as that. surprise me!

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