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About Me

I am a laidback, funny, spiritual person who is looking for someone to date and possibly more. Someone who wants to be more than a f buddy but not necessarily want to get married at this very moment. Someone who wants to go to movies, dinner, music events, etc...you know...date! I have had plenty of hobbies in the past but the only one I have really held onto is reading: I LOVE to read! Maybe for the escape of it all? Perhaps you will be the one who helps me to have adventures and go to exciting places? BTW I also LOVE to travel but have not done so for quite a while.I work as a chemical and mental health counselor at a residential facility for adults. I like my job but need something more in my life I just don't know what. When I say I am a spiritual person I mean that I like reading about different cultures and what they believe. I would say I am more Buddhist than Christian but I am open to many ideas and believe I am always willing to learn something new.My taste in music is mostly soft rock I guess annd includes DMB, Aerosmith and many others. Anything but Rap, Bluegrass and Opera. For a first date I would like to meet for coffee to see if we are compatible and have good chemistry. Maybe the second date would be dinner and a movie. I am an old-fashioned girl in some ways and will not sleep with someone on the first date. Don't get me wrong I am no prude but I DO have some standards! By the way, if you are not willing to make an effort to be with me move on...NEXT!!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Trula

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I've been told that have one of those personalities that can get along with anyone. It is mainly because I listen and care about what you're saying. My life has been enhanced by working with children and young adults, who keep me young and remind me to appreciate life and live it to the fullest. It is important for me to stay active. Simple things like a game of catch or Frisbee or even washing cars together are fun. My bike riding is getting better. I'm not a fan of camping, but will do it once in awhile if a canoe trip is involved. That doesn't mean I don't like the outdoors. Campfires are the bomb!!! Dinner and movies are fine! I'm into gardening and interior decorating and I'm not afraid of hard work. It's fun trying new things and I really like school. I am very much into the KC music scene and can show you lots. I am spiritual person of strong faith but not so much about religion. If I had the ideal relationship it would be someone who works hard, owns their own home and likes it that way! It needs to be someone who takes time for me by listening & seeing each other fairly regular basis. I'm over the "playing game" but willing to try because as male and female we truly think differently and it is a must! Real intelligence is super sexy, which is very different than being a "know-it-all"! That would be my Mr. Right! Maybe our time together will lead into something and perhaps it wont; but either way we can still have a friendship and that's very cool. Life is too short not to enjoy the company of others and take chances. If I sound I sound like someone you would like get to know then inbox me. I look forward from hearing from you. First date? I'm sure we'll think of something we can agree on!

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