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Jutta
Online
Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
Well here's my "sales pitch", i have a love seat, its comfy and brown but no one to sit beside me, i have a tv and lots of movies but no one to watch them with...i have vacation time but no one to spend it with and then there's the Holidays oh my! And of course the queen bed that has a side that's still brand new! Don't get me wrong, i have friends and of course my two kids but it's not the same as sharing with that partner...All I ask is that your true to your profile, pictures, intent, character, all that...if you dont look like your pics then your gonna have to buy me enough drinks until you do..haha.....i am who i say i am and im honest about what im looking for just please do the same. Let me add this as well, put a little time in and actually get to know me you might be surprised and discover that I'm one of the good ones out there :)Ok so a little about me.. Im a true Cancer...very compassionate and tender hearted and loyal with a "Suzy home maker" DNA, I don't have self esteem issues or self confidence issues and I try to take care of myself in all ways. I am pretty laid back and can be spontaneous. I have a healthy sense of humor and love music and art. I grew up with a fishing pole in one hand and nail polish in the other. I was a "daddy's" girl no doubt and he was my hero. Im very transparent, family oriented and open minded for the most part. I don't NEED a man but i do enjoy the company of a good one, i am a pretty up beat and positive person and like to surround myself with the same types. I dont need you to make my truck payment, I've already paid for it.I don't believe a first meet should be dinner out, why should you pay for a strangers meal? What if you don't like me? Your stuck with me for at least the length of time to eat!!! Or you could get a "to go bag" ..you could persuade me I suppose but it seems so cliché...lets go on a scavenger hunt ***!!! First Date? How about a "Meet" first?
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Treasure
Online
Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
It is September and I have taken a year off from dating and recently decided to give this another try. I am comfortable being single however I would like to share my life and interests with someone special. I would rather someone make their own opinion about me by talking and meeting me but I will tell you a little about me. First of all, I am a very happy person. I don't let things get me down and I always see the positive even in a bad situation. You will always see a smile on my face and I do joke and laugh a lot. I am quite the social person and have a large network of friends. If you like quiet, then Im not the one. I love having conversations, asking questions and learning. Im not a needy person so that works out great for me to have my self time. I don't have drama in my life and I appreciate the simple things in life. I very much enjoy going out to eat. I don't cook much so if you cook me a meal, that is a perfect date for me. And if you send leftovers home with me, it means more to me than trying to impress me with gifts. I am financially and emotionally stable. I don't watch tv much except for my favorite fall shows and I do not own cable. I prefer to stay busy than being a couch potato. I don't drink much but a glass of wine with a nice dinner out. You rarely will find any alcohol in my house and Im not much of a bar person. I am a faithful and trustworthy person. I put others before myself. I am very comfortable with who I am and where I am in life. Although I like to look nice going out, I definitely have no problem running to the store in jogging pants, tshirt, hair in pony, glasses and no makeup. I think communication is important. I tend to be on the bold side and say whats on my mind. There is never guessing with me, I will let you know what Im thinking. I would like a guy who would equally take charge on making plans. I tend to be the more aggressive one in past relationships and it would be nice for once to have someone make plans and tell me what we are doing, but equally share that responsibility also.What I am looking for is hard to explain. Ive never been willing to settle and I have never wanted to get divorced. Im not looking to get married (if it happens, great) but mostly what I am looking for is a nice healthy committing relationship that may eventually lead to that. This person must be stable, faithful and trusting in all aspects of life. I am not picky in looking for the drop-dead-gorgeous guy, just someone that makes my heart beat a bit faster. It could be the sparkle in their eye, their smile, the way they laugh. Just simple things. I am more attracted to someone who has a nice smile. I do not get along with anyone who is negative or unhappy in their life. I tend to stay far away from those type of people. It is important that this person is willing to involve me and share me with their family as I do not have family near.I am quite sure it will take some time to find the right (not perfect) person for me. I appreciate all the nice *** are sent to me and regret if I feel we are not a good match. I believe this process takes time. Im not a serial dater so I only respond to those that I feel confident on attributes that I am looking for. Most of all, I'm looking for someones who shows respect.Note-Those with shirt-off photos or flexing your muscles, Im not interested. Also not interested if all your photos are taken in a distance or sunglasses and hat in every photo. There are serious and not so serious people on this site. In my opinion, if you put effort into your profile, then you are person that will put effort into a relationship. I like a first date to be simple. A quick drink or I don't mind meeting for lunch/dinner as I do enjoy a nice meal out and conversation. You can expect me to pay for my own as I view this as a first meeting, not a date.
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