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About Me

It is September and I have taken a year off from dating and recently decided to give this another try. I am comfortable being single however I would like to share my life and interests with someone special. I would rather someone make their own opinion about me by talking and meeting me but I will tell you a little about me. First of all, I am a very happy person. I don't let things get me down and I always see the positive even in a bad situation. You will always see a smile on my face and I do joke and laugh a lot. I am quite the social person and have a large network of friends. If you like quiet, then Im not the one. I love having conversations, asking questions and learning. Im not a needy person so that works out great for me to have my self time. I don't have drama in my life and I appreciate the simple things in life. I very much enjoy going out to eat. I don't cook much so if you cook me a meal, that is a perfect date for me. And if you send leftovers home with me, it means more to me than trying to impress me with gifts. I am financially and emotionally stable. I don't watch tv much except for my favorite fall shows and I do not own cable. I prefer to stay busy than being a couch potato. I don't drink much but a glass of wine with a nice dinner out. You rarely will find any alcohol in my house and Im not much of a bar person. I am a faithful and trustworthy person. I put others before myself. I am very comfortable with who I am and where I am in life. Although I like to look nice going out, I definitely have no problem running to the store in jogging pants, tshirt, hair in pony, glasses and no makeup. I think communication is important. I tend to be on the bold side and say whats on my mind. There is never guessing with me, I will let you know what Im thinking. I would like a guy who would equally take charge on making plans. I tend to be the more aggressive one in past relationships and it would be nice for once to have someone make plans and tell me what we are doing, but equally share that responsibility also.What I am looking for is hard to explain. Ive never been willing to settle and I have never wanted to get divorced. Im not looking to get married (if it happens, great) but mostly what I am looking for is a nice healthy committing relationship that may eventually lead to that. This person must be stable, faithful and trusting in all aspects of life. I am not picky in looking for the drop-dead-gorgeous guy, just someone that makes my heart beat a bit faster. It could be the sparkle in their eye, their smile, the way they laugh. Just simple things. I am more attracted to someone who has a nice smile. I do not get along with anyone who is negative or unhappy in their life. I tend to stay far away from those type of people. It is important that this person is willing to involve me and share me with their family as I do not have family near.I am quite sure it will take some time to find the right (not perfect) person for me. I appreciate all the nice *** are sent to me and regret if I feel we are not a good match. I believe this process takes time. Im not a serial dater so I only respond to those that I feel confident on attributes that I am looking for. Most of all, I'm looking for someones who shows respect.Note-Those with shirt-off photos or flexing your muscles, Im not interested. Also not interested if all your photos are taken in a distance or sunglasses and hat in every photo. There are serious and not so serious people on this site. In my opinion, if you put effort into your profile, then you are person that will put effort into a relationship. I like a first date to be simple. A quick drink or I don't mind meeting for lunch/dinner as I do enjoy a nice meal out and conversation. You can expect me to pay for my own as I view this as a first meeting, not a date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Johnie

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I was married for 18 years. I haven't been on a first date in about 20 years. I'm a little rusty, I've been practicing my flirting on random people, but I'm still kinda feeling awkward. LOL.I have two kids who are the most improtant things to me. They take precedence over most things. I work two jobs and have other obligations, so I don't have a lot of time for myself. I enjoy the movies and staying home to watch tv. I like good restaurants, good bars and watching sports. I'm not very athletic myself, but I can watch and carry on a knowledgeable conversation about many sports.My taste in music is pretty low-key.I like to read, but I rarely have the time. I like to go on car rides, but I hate to drive. If you'd like to learn more, message me. However, if you can't spelling or communicate coherently, don't bother. Typos I understand, not knowing the difference between your, you're, there, their, and they're. Forgetaboutit. Makes me a b****? Maybe. Honest, heck yeah. I've got no idea where to go on a first date. Haven't been on one in 20 years, and that was a hookup at the 4-H fair! I guess I'm thinking a meet and greet at a bookstore or coffee shop. I guess someplace low key, with little pressure to perform (I am NOT going to go rock-climbing on a first date. Maybe 2nd) Let's figure it out together.

  • Angelo

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    full time mom to my 2 teenage daughters who are my world ..if that's a problem then there's an issue already ... I'm also a college student as well as my my job .. So I don't have a lot of free time ...texting is the best way for me to communicate .....to get to know each other for starters atleast for me and if it goes good we can see from there.... I am a very open and honest person looking for the same in return. Tired of playing head games that these loser men that I meet seem to love to play..... Isn't there any true heart filled winners who want an honest and faithful relationship anymore ... Not just sex and games - if that's all you want I'm not interested so keep on going there are plenty of those kind of girls out there at the bars with everything hanging out for you to see ....lol ... I love to hang out with friends and family laughing and joking around, drinking along with listening to all kinds of music especially 80's rock. I do listen to all kinds of music and love listening to live music as well. I have 2 daughters ages 13 and 16 whom are the world to me. If you don't like kids it won't work ... My kids are everything to me and I won't choose someone else over them. I love to do many things outdoors such as riding motorcycles, taking walks, play volleyball, sitting my a campfire just bullshitting with friends and/ or family and like to try different hingsI do work alot of hours so doesnt leave alot of free time ....I am back in school for my bachelor's degree so excited !! But I do love to text and get to know a guy before anything goes anywhere to begin withl Love to watch movies and text open

  • Novella

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I have to say Im in a really good place right now & life is very good ! I have many intrests & am a very positive person who loves to laugh & enjoy life.Family & friends mean the world to me. Its the small things in life that end up meaning the most. I love animals & nature & photography !!!! Enjoy classic cars & cruze ins, comedy clubs, art, bowling, shooting pool & much more. Fairs, flea markets, antiques, walks in the woods, spending the day on the water, hiking, & discovering new places, all sound good to me : ) I enjoy a wide variety of music from 40s & 50s to 80s rock to new age & much more. I have been told I am easy to get along with. Been trying to get out & try new things & meet new people. Would be great to find someone to get out & try new things with me :***of the new things Iv been doing is line dancing classes ! So far its alot of fun :) So hey if you want to meet a nice lady who is cool to hang out with hit me up :) The best relationships start out as friends & then who knows where it might go :) Im pritty open to whatever. Just someplace we can talk & get to know each other. I love the parks & just relaxing & enjoying a walk or even a picnic would be a great way to get to know each other !?? Anything really, its more about the company then what you do !!!!

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