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Mellissa
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Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
I'm always surprised at how many people think it's ok to post pics that are old or don't depict you accurately. Mine do so, I figured I would clarify that upfront. :)I've heard a lot of great things about this site so here I am... I relocated to NJ from NY about 3 years ago. It's beautiful here! I'm a great Mom and provider. I enjoy time with my son, family and close friends. I appreciate good things (like fresh herbs in my salad or HDTV) but I'm not 'materialistic' and don't shop just for the sake of shopping. I live a healthy, active life. I play softball as much as I can. I golf (really for work and not often -so,I must admit, scrambles are my preference! I can drive the ball a mile but my pitching and putting lack the right 'touch'.)I am a joyful, confident person who appreciates the little things. I like to spend time on my home - whether it's decorating, fixing something or planning the next project. I have a great job and work with wonderful people. Like any career, it can be demanding at times but on the other hand, I have more balance in my life than I have had in the past; which allows me to spend quality time with my son (and significant other).I come from a traditional Italian family. I may be an independent and self-sufficient woman but I'm also old fashioned. I appreciate chivalry and a strong man.When I first meet someone new, I like to get to know the person. Dating is important to really get to know each other. A great kiss is a good way to end a night if it feels right. Once I'm in a relationship, I'm extremely affectionate, caring and attentive but I am admittedly conservative with my time and feelings until I know you and where it's going... There are so many different ways to have an amazing first date. I'm fine with meeting for a cup or coffee or a drink at first. This gives us both a chance to figure out if what we read and saw on this site is what we expected in person. (FYI - Honesty is important to me. If you say you are 6' tall and high on life, that shouldn't include standing on a step stool complaining about work or taking pain RX.) Ever notice that when there is chemistry, it doesn't matter what you are doing? The conversation flows... there's a lot of smiling and sharing... and neither one can wait for that first kiss! Sometimes, chemistry happens but not right away. That's great too. A fun first date, getting to know each other and then suddenly you can't wait for the 3rd or 4th date....
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Man
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Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
NOTE: Please have a profile PICTURE, if not, then I can't reply. Thanks! I really enjoy meeting all types of people. My profile may come across as very "Type A', but in actuality, I am a very laid back person and just trying to find balance between fun, serious, active, and relaxed in this great world of ours! I believe in doing things side by side with my man, but not everything has to be done together. I love spending my time dancing, being with friends, and doing sports. With dancing, it's salsa or swing dancing or 80's dancing. I have no pride and love to dance (my man doesn't have to dance). I am a sports freak. Mostly doing them (equestrian. triathlons, cycling, scuba, mountaineering, kayaking). Although, I also can be a couch potato. I love watching soccer, football and baseball. I'm so psyched as have finally recovered from dual shoulder injuries and I am now free after 2 years of "taking it easy"....it was a bummer! I am no "fluff chick" who expects her man to wait on her. In fact, I prefer to do things myself...that great feeling of accomplishing a goal. I've included all types of pics as my body type is somewhere in between Athletic/few extra pounds. I have broad shoulders, a ton of muscle mass, and just enough extra skin to make my girly parts "more fun". Pics included hiking at Blackcomb Glacier to go skiing out of bounds, and beach shot from 09, Halloween 09 as Xena Warrior Princess, and my self portrait with the SouthPark boys (I use to work there for 3 seasons)...I have sometimes very liberal humor on account of being on the payroll so long :P (at least, that's my excuse ;) I have lived all over North America, and I have met so many great people along the way. The warmth and trust that people have shown me has been overwhelming. It has shown me that working for relationships, being honest, and the respect that we show each other is the most important thing in the world. It always comes back "at us" what we put "out there"..and I have been so lucky to have met my friends (really, my extended family). My friends ARE part of my family. They validate who I am. What you put out there, is what you'll get in return.Thanks for stopping by!Please include a photo (fare is fare) Anything but Jello Wrestling. (a lady would never do that on a first date)..the second, maybe? :PRelaxed environment where we can talk freely. Extra points if we are both laughing while in a Turkish Prison! :)
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Kalla
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Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
Hi! You should want to know more!!! Here is a top 10 list of things about me and my outlook on life:1. I want to date a man who lives a healthy lifestyle, but is not at the gym every day. I like to work out, but also I enjoy a****ail occasionally and red meat 2. I love anything to do with the beach and ocean: swimming, sailing, snorkeling or just looking for shells3. My niece and nephews have taught me so much about life - more than I can ever teach them4. Love nyc but the Yankees still suck5. For any big decisions, I make a pro and con list7. Humor and self-deprecation are important pieces of a person’s character8. Favorite movie: A tie between JAWS and The Godfather I9. Favorite book: The Old Man and the Sea10. I believe life is short, but you should plan for the long haul and make EACH day countSo, at least you got a quick *** who I am. If you want to learn more, please contact me.