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Mellissa, 45

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About Me

I'm always surprised at how many people think it's ok to post pics that are old or don't depict you accurately. Mine do so, I figured I would clarify that upfront. :)I've heard a lot of great things about this site so here I am... I relocated to NJ from NY about 3 years ago. It's beautiful here! I'm a great Mom and provider. I enjoy time with my son, family and close friends. I appreciate good things (like fresh herbs in my salad or HDTV) but I'm not 'materialistic' and don't shop just for the sake of shopping. I live a healthy, active life. I play softball as much as I can. I golf (really for work and not often -so,I must admit, scrambles are my preference! I can drive the ball a mile but my pitching and putting lack the right 'touch'.)I am a joyful, confident person who appreciates the little things. I like to spend time on my home - whether it's decorating, fixing something or planning the next project. I have a great job and work with wonderful people. Like any career, it can be demanding at times but on the other hand, I have more balance in my life than I have had in the past; which allows me to spend quality time with my son (and significant other).I come from a traditional Italian family. I may be an independent and self-sufficient woman but I'm also old fashioned. I appreciate chivalry and a strong man.When I first meet someone new, I like to get to know the person. Dating is important to really get to know each other. A great kiss is a good way to end a night if it feels right. Once I'm in a relationship, I'm extremely affectionate, caring and attentive but I am admittedly conservative with my time and feelings until I know you and where it's going... There are so many different ways to have an amazing first date. I'm fine with meeting for a cup or coffee or a drink at first. This gives us both a chance to figure out if what we read and saw on this site is what we expected in person. (FYI - Honesty is important to me. If you say you are 6' tall and high on life, that shouldn't include standing on a step stool complaining about work or taking pain RX.) Ever notice that when there is chemistry, it doesn't matter what you are doing? The conversation flows... there's a lot of smiling and sharing... and neither one can wait for that first kiss! Sometimes, chemistry happens but not right away. That's great too. A fun first date, getting to know each other and then suddenly you can't wait for the 3rd or 4th date....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    This is always there hardest part..so i will follow their lead... My closest friends would describe me as a great friend. I love to be there for my friends and family.I am a hard worker but enjoy down time.I love to socialize or stay cozy at home. I love to joke around but can be serious. I am very easy going, generous, caring. I am a nurturer. I am a giver not so much a taker. I smile lots..doesn't take much. I am most proud of my kids. I put lots of time into my kids and loved every minute of it. I am grateful for life, my family, my job, my friends and of course my health. I would love to find someone with obviously similar qualities. He would have to be easy to talk to and just be comfortable around, enjoys being social but loves to stay home with dinner and a bottle of wine. He would definitely good family values.

  • Lolicia

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I work for the Army & love my job. So far, so good...meeting some great people and enjoying my surroundings. I'm laid back & love when someone can make me laugh until tears stream from my eyes & I snort! I'm positive & straight forward & expect you to be, as well. Be up front about your past...we all have one -feel free to ask away at mine . Intelligence, confidence, sense of humor & adventure, knowing what you want & a bit of a (fun) sarcastic sense of humor. A great smile & nice shoulders never hurts, either. :)As far as interests - shooting, reading, historical areas, music, cooking, cars, exploring new places, hiking, traveling & getting back into the gym. I have 2 dogs & love to get out with them. I'm not a club person, more comfortable in a pub type place. Please, dear God, don't send me photos of yourself with your bits & pieces hanging out, or the shirtless bathroom photo with the towel draped low, lol. Seriously, lol...I have no idea what's up with that, but it's just as bad as girls with that stupid pouty face, lol. If you're separated, still have a need to keep tabs on your ex-wife or have a jealous streak, please pass me by. :)Thank you! Get together for a coffee or drink, have some laughs, play things by ear.

  • Angele

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Warm weather agrees with me. I like to be outside for cycling and tennis. The ride definitely pushed me to work on hill rides. Whew! I finished up the trip with a few days on the beac in Croatia. It was great! I updated the photos in my profile to include many recent photos from this trip.My tennis game is pretty mediocre, but I have been threatening to improve it for years. I love to watch tennis too. Unfortunately, watching the pros has not helped my game at all. I need good conversation in my life. I am looking for someone who also enjoys a good discussion, some banter, and alternative points of view. I am interested in social issues, sports, local politics, celebrity gossip, and life's daily grind. I can be chatty. I am often sarcastic. And, I am opinionated, but I like to have my opinions challenged. There's always room for change. When relaxing, I enjoy the movies, especially independent films. I like to watch football and bad reality tv. I like pop, alternative, rock, and R&B music. I saw Train for the second time this summer - definitely a favorite of mine! I am also a person who needs time alone. I am an "I" I need some personal time each week to relax and rejuvenate.I grew up in LA.... I am an original "valley girl" Fer Sure! I graduated from Cal... Go Bears! Although I really, really miss being close to the beach, DC is much more my speed. Short and sweet. Let's make the first meeting simple. A cup of coffee or a glass of wine is great for a meet up and a little conversation. If the first date goes well, we can plan something fun for our second date.

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