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Debra, 51
United States, Connecticut, Groton

Offline, last seen Tue, 17 Mar 2026 14:26:31

About Me

I'm not very good at writing about myself, and Internet dating intimidates me, so here it goes:I am very laid back person who loves spending time with family and friends. I like to watch movies but I love live music (almost any kind but Rap). I love to travel, walk on the beach, ride motorcycles, (not drive), beautiful sunsets/sunrises, BBQs and dinner parties with family and friends, and I like to dance, though I'm not very good at it. On cold winter nights, I enjoy a fire in the fireplace, a nice glass of wine, a good movie and someone special to cuddle with. I have never learned to snow ski, but I love the snow. I also enjoy the outdoors, camping, fishing, boating, tubing, hiking. I recently bought a new bike that I'm going to begin riding on Town (I mean Lady Bird) Lake. I love sports so I enjoy tailgating during the UT football season, hosting football parties, or attending a game live. I like the Cowboys, Rangers, and Spurs, but I'll root against then anytime they are playing the Lions, Tigers, or Pistons. I'm a very stable person. I have worked for the same company for 33 years now, raised a wonderful son, and I own my own home. I have learned to be very self sufficient over the years so when it comes to a relationship, I don't 'need' a man to take care of me, but I want to share my life with someone special.HONESTY, communication, integrity, and faithfulness are important to me and I would like to meet someone with those same values.What I'm Looking For:I'm looking for someone who is outgoing and who can make me laugh, but also has a serious side. Someone to be my best friend and I can count on when things get tough or just had a bad day. I'm looking for someone who has a great personality and gets along with most, someone who is spiritual but not over the top, and someone who takes pride in their appearance but is not afraid to get down and dirty with the best of them. I would like to find someone who is considerate, romantic, fun, honest, caring, and down to earth. Most of all, I'm looking for someone who will let me be me and will except me with all my flaws, but will make me want to be a better person for being with them. I am not perfect by any means, and don't expect my partner to be either. Over the past few years, my job, school, and other commitments has not allowed me to spend as much time to work out as much as I needed to, so yes, I did put on a few extra pounds. I'm working to take those off know, but I believe its what's inside that really matters, the outside can be fixed.Friendship would be a great starting place to know if we have that connection or chemistry we are both looking for.OK, this is going to sound harsh, but I'm going to share my displeasures I have had with these sites so here it goes: If your business takes you overseas to purchase "goods", make sure your finances are in order and you have the funds needed to pay to get your "goods" back thru customs. DO NOT ask me to send you money because it will not happen. If you claim to be in the military and are stationed overseas, DO NOT ask me to send care packages containing money, cell phones, t- I have the utmost respect for our men and women in our military, so I do not appreciate someone who tries to be a military imposter. I know what I'm looking for I am too old for head games, so if that is part of your game, please don't contact me. If you are only interested in texting or ***, I'm not your girl, I'm not interested in having a cyber relationship. If we can't have a phone conversation or plan to meet within the first couple of weeks, lets not waste each others time. I don't believe in love at first sight and nor do I believe you can fall in love thru texts or IMs, this is something that you have to work on, face-to-face, but I do believe in immediate chemistry. The first 'date' is really a meet and greet so somewhere we can enjoy a cup of coffee or a drink and have a conversation without too many distractions. Its the 2nd date that matters, if it gets that far.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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