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Adela, 51

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About Me

Friends tell me I'm funny, caring, smart, strong, compassionate and dependable. I am self employed, have been for over 9 years - I love the freedom of it. I am financially self sufficient- own my own home and putting one child through college with second one on the way. I'm a living breathing oxymoron (If you think I just called myself stupid, please don't bother to contact me-ever) I'm a suburban bohemian, a liberal conservative, a strong softy, an idiot savant in many things...I think you get the picture. I'm a bit of a round peg in a square holed world- which makes it rather hard to find a similar soul. I'm a mom to three young adults (the baby is 16 and getting more independent by the day). Time for mom to rediscover that yes, I"m a person too, not just a taxi, cheering section and guidance counselor...don't get me wrong, I love being a mom...just very ready to have a chance to be "me" again- and working on rediscovering who "me" is.I love live theater, the beach, amusement parks, museums, exploring new towns, red wine in winter, white in summer; conversation, getting lost in good book, PDA, cooking - comfort food is my specialty. But I think there is nothing better than to curl up on the couch with that special someone just cuddle and watch a movie. I am a home body- I love that people tell me my home is a comfortable place to be- inviting. I like to think it reflects who I am (in need of a little work, but homey and warm).What am I looking for? I am a conversationalist - I need someone looking for the same- with a sense of humor (points if you have a snarky or twisted sense of humor). Someone with an artistic sensibility. I am an odd mix of socially liberal and fiscally conservative with a generous helping of Libertarianism thrown in for good measure. My faith is important to me- want to find someone with similar beliefs. Basically- do you have a brain, a heart and a soul? If so I'd like to meet you.Good luck with your fishing. A great first meeting is a chance to get to know you and vise versa ...something casual- a long conversation over a cup of coffee. A first date that's a different story =) an unhurried dinner, with lots of conversation, a bottle of wine.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Alma

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Well a little bit about me...I love the outdoors and being around the water. I have two small dogs that were my dads[so yes they are very special to me.] I am an amimial lover and a sun worshiper. I am not much for small talk however I love good conversation. I like to cook,listen to music and of course a good movie now and then...I even like football, collage is the most exciting. So enough about me what about you??? For a first date I would like to have drinks, dinner or just coffee. I do like to chat, talk and get to know each other a little before meeting.Not looking for a quick hook up!

  • Aurora

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Have respect for yourself and the person who is *** A hello note or send a no thanks respnd.:) There are honest women on here so again show some respect to the women and men that are truely looking for the right person.I am looking for someone to laugh with passionate and excited about life. My ideal man would be someone who truly and understands what it is to love. Yes, passion is great, but love is something different. Love is looking at a person and knowing you'll still care when they are old and falling apart. It can start with passion, and with a little luck that stays around, but to love someone is to keep on caring during times when the passion has taken a back seat; still feeling grateful for the good company and the wonderful feeling of knowing that your care is appreciated. It's good to know the difference. Love is something to give away;"Caring is a wonderful gift that no-one can buy... it is made up of LOVE that roots in our heart 2 make fruits of memory not just 4 a while, 4 a life time. I can be with those I care about without being there... Do not let the biker chick scare ya.. I love to riding!!! I would love to share my dreams with my best friend. Our goals may not be the same!! But we can still share them together..... I enjoy a walking in the park, Catching a movie, Dancing, softball, watching football or just some down time to share a fire with someone. I`m willing to try something new at least once. Lets have an adventure.I like a person who looks at life head on, and you certainly do that. I like to know your differentiation between passion and love. To me passion you find in a bar seen, love you find in your heart of hearts. Not to say people in love can't enjoy passion it just makes love making all the better. A little about me, I'm honest yet compassionate for those in need I'm very affectionate and love touching and being touched, I love holding hands while walking. I'm patient but not quick to judge, I'm spiritual which is different from religious. I'm looking for someone to perhaps develop a long term relationship with..Dating is a form of courtship consisting of social activities done by two people with the aim of each assessing the other's suitability as a partner in an intimate relationship or as a spouse. While the term has several meanings, it usually refers to the act of meeting and engaging in some mutually agreed upon social activity in public, together, as a couple. The protocols and practices of dating, and the terms used to describe it, vary considerably from country to country. The most common idea is two people trying out a relationship and exploring whether they're compatible by going out together in public as a couple, who may or may not yet be having sexual relations. This period of courtship is sometimes seen as a precursor to engagement or marriage.If you're interested or have questions, write me back. I only bite a little :}........ Please be Honest. Always grateful to met new friends! I would love to take a walk or just have dinner, go to zoo so we can talk. By then we should know if we are right for each other or if NOT we can LEAVE on good terms WITH no hard feelings. Time to Me is very important which it should be for everyone. Let's spend sometime getting to know each other!!!! Have respect for yourself and the person who is *** hello note, send a no thanks respond. There are honest women on here so again show some respect to the women and men that are truely looking for the right personThanks Have a GRATEFUL DAY

  • Eloise

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I have been reading some really good profiles. To bad most of you live so far away. My work, my family, my friends all live around me. I would like to find that special someone that does to. Driving an hour one way is not realistic. Marriage is a strong word... But game playing gets old real fast. I have been single long enough to know that I would like to share life with the same person everyday. When your done playing around e-mail me and we can start from there. About myself; To the people that I'm close to I would have to say that I'm dependable, responsible, loving, caring, giving, loyal, and thoughtful.I'm an active person. I like doing different things and going new places. Keeping things fresh.I like being around family and spending time with my friends. I also like quit time.I'm not a good cook. But love helping in the kitchen. I love hot summer nights where I can stay out till dawn and cold winter mornings when I don't need to get out of bed.I can go on but.......it's time for you to share somethings about yourself.PS... I find that I have one foot in the country and one in the burbs. As much as I like my overalls I like a black tie affair.NOTE: Since we don't live in mid-evil *** Life is what it is. There's no stopping it. Lets do something fun.

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