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Adela, 51

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About Me

Friends tell me I'm funny, caring, smart, strong, compassionate and dependable. I am self employed, have been for over 9 years - I love the freedom of it. I am financially self sufficient- own my own home and putting one child through college with second one on the way. I'm a living breathing oxymoron (If you think I just called myself stupid, please don't bother to contact me-ever) I'm a suburban bohemian, a liberal conservative, a strong softy, an idiot savant in many things...I think you get the picture. I'm a bit of a round peg in a square holed world- which makes it rather hard to find a similar soul. I'm a mom to three young adults (the baby is 16 and getting more independent by the day). Time for mom to rediscover that yes, I"m a person too, not just a taxi, cheering section and guidance counselor...don't get me wrong, I love being a mom...just very ready to have a chance to be "me" again- and working on rediscovering who "me" is.I love live theater, the beach, amusement parks, museums, exploring new towns, red wine in winter, white in summer; conversation, getting lost in good book, PDA, cooking - comfort food is my specialty. But I think there is nothing better than to curl up on the couch with that special someone just cuddle and watch a movie. I am a home body- I love that people tell me my home is a comfortable place to be- inviting. I like to think it reflects who I am (in need of a little work, but homey and warm).What am I looking for? I am a conversationalist - I need someone looking for the same- with a sense of humor (points if you have a snarky or twisted sense of humor). Someone with an artistic sensibility. I am an odd mix of socially liberal and fiscally conservative with a generous helping of Libertarianism thrown in for good measure. My faith is important to me- want to find someone with similar beliefs. Basically- do you have a brain, a heart and a soul? If so I'd like to meet you.Good luck with your fishing. A great first meeting is a chance to get to know you and vise versa ...something casual- a long conversation over a cup of coffee. A first date that's a different story =) an unhurried dinner, with lots of conversation, a bottle of wine.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I used to be a dancer so I like to stay fit. I am into the performing arts. Right now I am a freelance artist. In between projects I am a bartender.For big events. I consider myself a free spirit. I love to have fun. I have no baggage, by choice. Doesn"t matter if you do. I like too travel,and do so often. So if you have a passport then write back. LOL I love trying new restaurants,going too art museums,dance clubs,and going to the theater. I"am also a good cook I"m Italian so of course that is my specialty. I like latin music and jazz, Don"t like rap. I do have a small tattoo tastefully done. Don"t care for loud people or any drama.I can be silly at times. Not interested in playing any games life is to short. Love a man with a sense of humor,who likes to stay fit,and not high maintenance. My life is very fast pace, so the few quite moments I get I like to relax and be with someone special . Sorry guys I am a night person and I do work nights. Do work a few days. I always make time for that special someone. I do not like any drama, life is to short. There will be no drama,and not interested in hearing about your ex. And if u r separated u r still married! No thanks. If your into playing games,or you are a lonely serial dater. Move on to the next profile. BTW please have your shirt on unless you are in a pool. Have fun in your search. bye:) First time we meet could be drinks or coffee,even a nice walk through a Museum so there is time to chat with no pressure.I don"t feel you have to have lunch or dinner the first time you meet someone, It is not a first date it is a first meeting to see if you even want to have a first date. Right?LOL

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I like tall men, over 6', African American or Caucasian. Someone who can relate to inner space and going beyond our limitations, I like to cook, eating good cooked food, having great conversation and exploring our empirical inventiveness in the kitchen is just as good as anywhere else in the house. I am an artist by profession and nature, I like someone to see the intelligent hemisphere of me besides the artistic side. Someone who does not always think he knows it all, all of the time. NOT INTO FAMILY DRAMA WITH X-WIVES OR CHILDREN. I love children, but I prefer someone who has high schoolers or older. If your children take up all your time and cant leave you alone when we might embark upon that date, don't bother!. If we should exchange phone numbers, I gave you that number for a reason, TO CALL, NOT TEXT! I love a well dressed man, and one who can get into lay back days as well. Not into arguing, yelling and nit picking, I just assume resolve it!! or forget it!!!I have always liked the saying: "An open mind lets the good life in" and Im like the old school video on you tube of the Dramatics "What cha see is what cha get"

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    "Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." Dr. SeussI enjoy life, traveling, trying new things. I have visited many of the states, not all yet. Even though my travels are not wordly as of yet, I have met and remained friends with people from many countries.At home I am more boring. I like gardening, dancing and spending time with family. I am a retired computer programmer that wanted to play in the dirt.I want to meet someone to share big and small adventures. Starting with dating and see where things go. Think of something different. Drinks, dinner, or movies are good but where is the imagination.

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