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Latonya, 41

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(Pics - My hair switches btw blonde and brown)I will try keep this short and sweet... I am 41, I have a 21yr old son, great job, great friends... Can be active or lazy (depending on the day - nothing like a good movie on the couch on a rainy day!).. Love a great glass of wine with a delicious steak or a beer & nachos! Hard to really define "who I am" - I like to keep things different when I can.. I do not like too much redundancy.. And refuse to settle - I want to have fun with the person I am with. I think at this age, we know what we want from someone so why not get it? Overall, have done pretty good for myself - but as stated in my headline, change is constant - well, except for one thing which is me being single.. So, time to change that now at this stage in my life :) I am looking for someone FUNNY with a great sense of humor!!.. I truly think someone is most attractive based on their personality.. I don't like narcissistic people with ***naked selfy photos! Altho amusing - not my thing! I am not looking just to hook up so don't think you will get laid after a few****ails! BUT, I am certainly open to having fun dating with no pressure on a commitment too soon.. I think that type of stuff will just happen with out setting any expectations.. OK.. Not too short but, that will sum it up for now.. A lot more to know about me so if you are interested in what I have said so far, I look forward to hearing from you! Meet for a drink or two.. If we have a connection, then who knows what will happen from there..

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Patrica

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Okay let me start by saying....please do not message me if you are still married or if you are not interested in a relationship. If you are looking for dating and nothing serious then best of luck but I want more. Not interested in "who knows I might change my mind", I only want to meet a guy who knows what he wants. I am a widow and had a loving successful marriage for 12 yrs, I have been on my own since ***. My standards and expectations are very high, and I do have a tendencies to compare men to my late husband. I know that saying that will scare quite a few of you away but I know what I want and dont want. I really do love my job and give 100% to it, I am a workaholic (looking for a reason not to be). I travel around PA a lot but no complaints, I've made great friends. I do miss flirting and having fun with that one special guy, please don't misunderstand, I don't participant in casual sex. Its important that the chemistry is there so that a romantic relationship can unfold or who knows, catch us off guard. I am not looking for any more "guy" friends, I have lots of those. I have a bit of a devilish side and the smile of an angel so I promise we will have lots of innocent fun. I know I am getting long winded here but its important to say. If you have children I welcome the opportunity to eventually meet them. I say eventually because they are your pride and joy and need your protection. Children should not have to be exposed to or endure our adult choices. I stayed single for a long time to raise my kids, now its my turn to enjoy a good man in my life. I am a lady with girlish behaviour and a tomboy twist. Hoping you have a dry sense of humour, a natural born leader, an intellectual, social, easy going, and loving, a guy who doesn't sweat the small stuff and can laugh at yourself and me. You're compassionate, spontaneous, and playful, you're a protector of your girl but not controlling. You will appreciate that I am patient and loyal. I am looking to build friendship and trust, honesty and respect - it all goes hand in hand. What I am looking for: • Smart – school smart or street wise – as long as you can participate fully in a conversation (willingly not to appease)• Successful – someone who likes what they are doing and does it well (and proud of it).• Considerate – this includes kind and sweet….your family and friends would say you are a “great guy” for all the right reasons.• Loyal – knows how to be with one person (and isn’t keeping one eye out for something better)• Positive and fun – someone who has a good outlook on life and who knows how to laugh at himself and enjoys the little things (not looking for the class clown or a head cheerleader)• Attractive - I like a man who is "clean shaven", sexy (in his own way) preferably taller than me (I am just shy of 5'8) and enjoys being very active (which means be in shape- and round is not a shape) • Loving – ask me if you are not sure. I hope you enjoyed my sharing and have a great day.Please have a photo if you want a response. Please have photos that show how good looking you are, show your fantastic smile. And I don't go out with married men (separated is still married - sorry guys) Let's see if you are really reading this profile....I WILL NOT check your profile if you send an *** "WANT TO MEET YOU" option so please dont!!!! I only delete them.“That which is loved is always beautiful.” That sentence perfectly sums up true love, beauty and the transformational power of truth, trust and love. “You’ll Learn To Love Her. Warts And All.” ....p.s. I dont have much patience left for online games, so if you dont want to get to know me, not to worries I can handle it. I have learned to move on and getting better at it unfortunately. lets plan it together....Best first date ever.....we sat in a coffee shop with our iPads and search great songs...the hours went by quickly then we realized it was 1 am....we shared almost every part of our lives as they associated with different songs we found...I've never opened up like that so quickly with someone I met online. We are still good friends to this day. second favourite quote..."I dont need a man, I need a champion".....is that you?

  • Rosalie

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am going to get all the crap out of the way first because I keep asking myself WHY am I on here? *NOT INTERESTED IN BOOTY CALLS* First things first- if I look out of your league and vice versa, please don't contact me. I don't date guys that are older than ***please see preferences) and I don't date anyone other than White or Latino. Thank you in advance!!!! Now that that is out of the way, Hi :) First off, I was diagnosed with Stage 1 breast cancer December of ***. Since then, I have had surgery to remove the cancer and now taking medication to further reduce the chances of it coming back. It really brought light to my eyes on what is important. What is really important is that I was given a fighting chance to change some things and go on a different path. Some things that will never change; my sense of humor (I crack myself and my friends/co-workers up), running is my passion, the outdoors is my sanctuary, the beach is my love, and my kids are my world. I may say that I want to date or find someone to do fun things with, but there is always the potential to meet someone who will be long term. I have no expectations, what happens, happens. However, I won't settle for less. What I mean when I say this is; first impression is a lasting impression. I am not anyone's property, piece of meat, or play toy. I like the keep the first date casual. I get nervous meeting someone for the first time. I try to be nice but if I am not the girl, please tell me and I will do the same :)

  • Tommie

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I like to spend time with family & friends, travelling, boating, bonfires on the beach, downhill skiing, camping, canoeing, running, deck parties, entertaining, dancing, riding horseback on the beach, watching sunrises, and looking at the stars on a brisk night! I have recently started taking Salsa and Bachata lessons and am loving it!!I'm educated, confident (but not arrogant or the know it all type), independent, romantic, affectionate, and a lot of fun. I'm spontaneous and adventurous so I'll try just about anything but may need a little encouragement depending on the activity. Music plays a big role in my life. My mood determines what genre I listen to. I'm very open and accepting of most things with the exception of dishonesty. Tell me the truth or don't tell me anything at all!!! My career is very important to me and I have been fairly successful so far. I have been categorized as being, too driven from time to time. I am very passionate about what I do, what can I say? My friends would tell you that I am independent, loyal, generous, caring, very accepting of differences, and fun. I'm a good listener and love to talk about almost anything but politics. Someone recently told me that I can be country or classy and everything in between. I guess that shows how adaptable I am. ;) I'm looking for someone to get to know and spend time with in hopes of a more serious relationship down the road. I'm to a point in my life that I don't rush into relationships or someones bed. I truly believe letting a friendship grow into what it was meant to be is so much more rewarding. I hope to find the kind of relationship where mutual respect, honesty, love, and affection is given freely. I believe a true relationship is when your partner stands beside you and you work as a team, stands in front of you to shield you, and stands behind you to support you at the appropriate times. I absolutely hate drama and have been known to exclude people from my life that thrives on it. You must be willing to accept me for who I am. I'm attacted to men who are assertive, know what they want, and know how to express their feelings. They need to be honest, loyal, and make me laugh;; comical but yet knows how/when to be serious; romantic and will plan dates from time to time; open in expressing his feelings and knows how to express them in a positive way; Definitely needs to be a cuddler (love to snuggle on the couch watching movies or listening to music). I have a strong faith in God and use christian values to guide my life. I am by no means holier than thou and am definitely a work in progress. I will always be on a road of self improvement. My number one priority are my kids. The people that I choose to have in my life need to be strong enough to understand that and accept them. :) I have a very amicable friendship with my ex and his wife and we all are committed to keeping it that way. A first date would consist of fun and laughter. A comedy club, putt putt golf, a walk in the park. I'm flexible.

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