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Latonya, 41

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(Pics - My hair switches btw blonde and brown)I will try keep this short and sweet... I am 41, I have a 21yr old son, great job, great friends... Can be active or lazy (depending on the day - nothing like a good movie on the couch on a rainy day!).. Love a great glass of wine with a delicious steak or a beer & nachos! Hard to really define "who I am" - I like to keep things different when I can.. I do not like too much redundancy.. And refuse to settle - I want to have fun with the person I am with. I think at this age, we know what we want from someone so why not get it? Overall, have done pretty good for myself - but as stated in my headline, change is constant - well, except for one thing which is me being single.. So, time to change that now at this stage in my life :) I am looking for someone FUNNY with a great sense of humor!!.. I truly think someone is most attractive based on their personality.. I don't like narcissistic people with ***naked selfy photos! Altho amusing - not my thing! I am not looking just to hook up so don't think you will get laid after a few****ails! BUT, I am certainly open to having fun dating with no pressure on a commitment too soon.. I think that type of stuff will just happen with out setting any expectations.. OK.. Not too short but, that will sum it up for now.. A lot more to know about me so if you are interested in what I have said so far, I look forward to hearing from you! Meet for a drink or two.. If we have a connection, then who knows what will happen from there..

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kristi

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    So if I told you I was sexy as hell would it make a difference? If I said I do what I say and say what I do, would you believe it? If I was honest enough to tell you I am a small BBW would you want to see how truthful I am being?Many guys are saying " Hey where are all the good women?" Or hey why is it so hard to find someone who is real or honest or does what they say they will.Maybe, just maybe......... it is because so many are seeking someone who can first fulfil your "fantasies" *** someone real that you can DO things with. Sex isn't wrong and it's fun as hell! but it also isn't the "meat and potatos" of life either. Eventually our bodies will begin to fail, and if you can't talk to your mate, or they are not your best friend, then really.. what do you have left? And how much time can you really spend in bed? The majority of our life is not spent there. Just saying.... I find pleasure in some of the small things in life. Swimming in the River beside a camp ground. Walking hand and hand by the ocean feeling the cool sand between our toes as we watch a lovely sunset. Laying in the sun and taking turns rubbing warm oils into eachothers skin. Slow dancing to sensual music at an outdoor festival. Curling up infront of a wam fire and chatting while enjoying our favorite beverage. Sharing the "pains of the day" and help eachother decompress. Sharing an awesome rollar coaster ride and laughing as we come off from it breathless...only to see the silly pictures they *** we started down the steep drop. LOL Feeding eachother morsels off from our plates when we are out to dinner and we have an excellent meal we want the other to taste....... Simple things...memorable things.... After all, that is what this life is all about, making memories to carry with us. So I can honestly say ALL of that is truthful and open and honest. Right down to being a very small bbw. Still reading? As you can see I am VERY VERY direct. I write as if I am sitting accross from you having coffee or a drink. ( So if a direct mannor is going to constantly be mistaken for mean, angry, or ****y? This could be problematic. I am none of those, I am simply DIRECT.) Side NOTE: If you are married or have a girl friend, pass me by. I don't like to hurt others, I am not into causing problems, and I don't need drama in my life. Although some of it eventually finds us all, I try to avoid drama if I can help it. I am looking for harmony, peace, delightful adventure, fun and games (that pleasure both people), new experiences, and quality in all things over quantity.I am mainly seeking friendship. I believe you can't have anything if you don't have the friendship first.I tend to like men who are younger then I am. However it depends on the man. I don't really have a certain TYPE of man.Life is too short not to LIVE, LOVE, LAUGH and PLAY! Want to come and play wiff me??Or a bowl of popcorn at home watching Sci Fi or Animal Planet or the latest action, horror, or scifi movie!Light hikingGo to the drive in (and actually WATCH the movie)maybe camping (I haven't done a LOT of this)zip lining!NEW Places and culturesAir HockeyAnd I LOVE to travel!I am up to try most anything. Twice if I liked it!Life is all about experiences and creating memories. It isn't a dress rehersal, "so Let's get it started!"Me: affection, respect, and yeah I do dare to say it "honesty"! Lot's of WARMTH and FUN! (and oh so VERY direct)Looking for the same in another. (If you can dance and or give a real massage (or truly want to learn) please at least drop me a note. I am employed full time, and would welcome platonic friends who just want to hang out sometimes.I want to TAKE IT SLOW. THIS means NOT jumping into ANYTHING. If you are seeking something VERY short term ..as in all you want is to *** *** Please just keep rolling on by. I am not looking for anything short term unless we don't get along... then it can be VERY short and I am good with that! :) (soft smile) I wish you the best in your search regardless of whether or not you decide to write to me. I DO try to return e-mails promptly although at times I am not online much. Something that would be comfortable for both people but allow us to interact and enjoy ourselves. A game of pool and a drink? Lunch or simply a cup of coffee. A long walk if it is warm enough. Sit on the Waterfront in a swing and chat? So many possibilities.

  • Vicky

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I like to keep busy. I belong to a boxing gym and box/kickbox 5 days a week during my lunch hour. I like boating, motorcycles and road trips to hidden joints. I spend time hiking in parks, making a mess in my kitchen and attempting to learn new things - like woodworking. Some attempts workout better than others! I come from a large family and I think I'm hilarious.My goal here is to find my best friend - someone to share interests with, someone to call when you've had a great day or a bad one, someone to celebrate their victories as if they were my own, someone to have a great physical connection to. I like funny, outgoing people who can laugh at themselves.I admit I am a mix of things - I can sit in a fancy restaurant or a dive bar and blend in. I grew up on a fishing resort so I can fillet a fish faster than most people I know (sexy right) but I don't handle spiders very well. I can be very quiet and introspective at times - sitting on the deck watching animals in the woods. Get me out in public and I'll blab to complete strangers. I like to take care of myself, dress nice and look pretty but I'm not one to spend hours on myself - I'll run out the door in jeans, a tee shirt and a baseball cap. I'm open, honest and would do anything for someone I cared about. For a first date I'd say drinks or coffee. You know right away if there is chemistry and would like to spend more time with the person. You can always extend the date!

  • Trisha

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I enjoy life and trying new things but find it funner shared. Looking to find a best friend and partner in crime to take it to the next level in life. If you enjoy a positive upbeat person that is full of fun and laughter then don't hesitate to say hello. I am not into living a life of missed opportunities, so I am here to meet interesting and engaging people who are seeking something similar. I love a great communicator, witty personality, compromising and adventurous soul.

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