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Patrica, 41
United States, Florida, North Port

Offline, last seen Thu, 01 Jan 2026 05:51:53

About Me

Okay let me start by saying....please do not message me if you are still married or if you are not interested in a relationship. If you are looking for dating and nothing serious then best of luck but I want more. Not interested in "who knows I might change my mind", I only want to meet a guy who knows what he wants. I am a widow and had a loving successful marriage for 12 yrs, I have been on my own since ***. My standards and expectations are very high, and I do have a tendencies to compare men to my late husband. I know that saying that will scare quite a few of you away but I know what I want and dont want. I really do love my job and give 100% to it, I am a workaholic (looking for a reason not to be). I travel around PA a lot but no complaints, I've made great friends. I do miss flirting and having fun with that one special guy, please don't misunderstand, I don't participant in casual sex. Its important that the chemistry is there so that a romantic relationship can unfold or who knows, catch us off guard. I am not looking for any more "guy" friends, I have lots of those. I have a bit of a devilish side and the smile of an angel so I promise we will have lots of innocent fun. I know I am getting long winded here but its important to say. If you have children I welcome the opportunity to eventually meet them. I say eventually because they are your pride and joy and need your protection. Children should not have to be exposed to or endure our adult choices. I stayed single for a long time to raise my kids, now its my turn to enjoy a good man in my life. I am a lady with girlish behaviour and a tomboy twist. Hoping you have a dry sense of humour, a natural born leader, an intellectual, social, easy going, and loving, a guy who doesn't sweat the small stuff and can laugh at yourself and me. You're compassionate, spontaneous, and playful, you're a protector of your girl but not controlling. You will appreciate that I am patient and loyal. I am looking to build friendship and trust, honesty and respect - it all goes hand in hand. What I am looking for: • Smart – school smart or street wise – as long as you can participate fully in a conversation (willingly not to appease)• Successful – someone who likes what they are doing and does it well (and proud of it).• Considerate – this includes kind and sweet….your family and friends would say you are a “great guy” for all the right reasons.• Loyal – knows how to be with one person (and isn’t keeping one eye out for something better)• Positive and fun – someone who has a good outlook on life and who knows how to laugh at himself and enjoys the little things (not looking for the class clown or a head cheerleader)• Attractive - I like a man who is "clean shaven", sexy (in his own way) preferably taller than me (I am just shy of 5'8) and enjoys being very active (which means be in shape- and round is not a shape) • Loving – ask me if you are not sure. I hope you enjoyed my sharing and have a great day.Please have a photo if you want a response. Please have photos that show how good looking you are, show your fantastic smile. And I don't go out with married men (separated is still married - sorry guys) Let's see if you are really reading this profile....I WILL NOT check your profile if you send an *** "WANT TO MEET YOU" option so please dont!!!! I only delete them.“That which is loved is always beautiful.” That sentence perfectly sums up true love, beauty and the transformational power of truth, trust and love. “You’ll Learn To Love Her. Warts And All.” ....p.s. I dont have much patience left for online games, so if you dont want to get to know me, not to worries I can handle it. I have learned to move on and getting better at it unfortunately. lets plan it together....Best first date ever.....we sat in a coffee shop with our iPads and search great songs...the hours went by quickly then we realized it was 1 am....we shared almost every part of our lives as they associated with different songs we found...I've never opened up like that so quickly with someone I met online. We are still good friends to this day. second favourite quote..."I dont need a man, I need a champion".....is that you?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hardcore Horror Martial Arts Sci-Fi
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