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Ilene, 49

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About Me

Be kind to one another...stop lying and cheating! Be open and honest in whatever situation your life has found you. If you want phone/Internet sex...move on!If you're looking for friends w/ benefits..move on!If you're goal is to find one nite stands..move on!If you like to date multiple woman...move on!If you're looking for casual sex only...move in!If you are interested in exploring a friendship that may develop onto a long term love and maybe marriage..then we can talk! Liars-fakes-losers-jerks-cheaters-abusers.,, and those of low integrity please don't msg me!! We can decide together...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Abby

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I am a confident, loving, fun, and intelligent woman who knows what she wants in and from life. I enjoy being outdoors and love the water. My favorite outdoor activities include swimming, scuba diving, boating, skiing (water and snow), baseball games, walking/hiking, and horseback riding. I also love to dance, enjoy all music, and spending time with my family and friends means a lot to me. I am definately a giver but am certainly not opposed to being a little spoiled now and then!I am looking for that man that can walk beside me, enjoy life with me, and love me for me... just as much as I will love him for him.It's important to me that he is totally honest, financially stable, has some interests of his own, can go along and get along like I can, is humorous and enjoys living life.I have raised three wonderful, handsome, & respectful boys. It wasn't always easy; but well worth the tears, worry, & going through school four times! (lol) I am a happy, energetic and optimistic woman. I'm a good listener and enjoy open and honest communication. I appreciate positive and corrective criticism and learn something new everyday. Physical intimacy is important to me. I never leave anyone I care about, even for a quick trip to the store, without a kiss or hug & telling them I love them. There are only so many days in our lives and we have no idea when our time to leave the present will come & I don't want to waste a minute on games, insecurity, lack of respect or stupid fights! I also always tend to fight for the under dog!Simply put I am a survivor and love living life to the fullest & want to find that man who wants to live it with me! If any of this interests you please send me an *** all we are all on this site looking for that special someone and if we don't communicate it will never happen!!! I enjoy doing different things. Dinner or coffee is great but sharing an exciting and fun activity together gives us a chance to really get to know each other and our respective personalities!!

  • Janis

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am a 49 year old widowed***white female. I am 5'4" tall, approximately ***lbs. and I have a M build. I am a former Iarge BBW***. There is still room for improvement and things that I cannot change. I am working on completing my personal transformation and looking into becoming a certified personal trainer to help others. I have long; naturally blond/curly hair and blue eyes. I consider myself average in appearance. I am a fashionista of sorts, but I am not high maintenance. I have a couple of small tatts and a nose and eyebrow piercing that I wear.infrequently. I tend to be very laid back. After burying a child and a husband before the age of 45, everyday life just isn't that serious. I am forever HOPEFUL. I am strong, independent, and self sufficient. I have a sarcastic and sometimes bawdy sense of humor. I like the simple things. I prefer daisies, camping and buffets over roses, luxury hotels and fine dining. I love the outdoors; being near the water(pool, lake or ocean) and I love the smell of pine. I love animals(the furry kind). I have 6 guinea pigs. They are my four legged children. I have 3 children of the human species.;; living in heaven with GOD. I have a huge heart that needs to be filled with love. I am 100% loyal and dedicated to those I choose to give my heart to. I am very demonstrative with my feelings; verbally, physically and sexually. I prefer younger men, but it is not a deal breaker; young at heart is fine. I do have a desired age range; it is 35 to 52. I prefer someone who is relatively fit; for health reasons and I don't need someone who will derail my own efforts to get fit. Looks are not important(exception: no long hair and/or full beards; body hair we can work on). Attraction comes with an emotional connection. I want someone who takes care with their appearance. They make amazing grooming products for men these days. Work clothes are for work; no dirty clothes or suits and ties. I love men in a trendy pair of blue jeans and a graphic tee. I would like someone who loves the outdoors and animals. I would love a man that comes with a dog. Older children are okay. Money, fancy cars and motorcycles are unimportant.I need to be with someone who can express their feelings physically and sexually. Your masculine parts need to work. I can't live the rest of my life without touch. I need someone who has a passion for me and shows it.It is not necessary to have all the same interests. I enjoy my ME time. Time apart is healthy. I don't need to be up anyone's A$$ ***.I took the time to complete my profile; so if you wish to communicate with me, you need to have at least a couple of short paragraphs about yourself in your profile or say something more than HI, when you message me for the first time. My chat is turned off. You must mail message me. Nothing fancy or expensive. Bar food or appetizers. We can even split the bill.

  • Leanne

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I'm not sure if anyone really reads these or not, but here goes. I hope you take the time to read to the end. He must be honest, kind, dependable and be able to see the person I am by what's in my heart and not by just the physical and what he sees on the outside. I may not be a "Barbie" or have the "Perfect Figure" for some standards but I do have a great heart. A guy who likes to cook, entertain friends, going to fairs and festivals, cuddling, holding hands, lazy days sometimes just relaxing on the couch watching movies and must love animals. I would be great if he likes to do some traveling. Listen guys, I live in the real world and I do realize that there most likely isn't a man out there that has everything that I've listed above and you know what, that's quite okay... But a girl can always dream I am a down to earth woman and a proud Christian who likes and appreciates the simple things in life. I do want to say my faith is very important to me and I strive everyday to live a Godly life, I'm just not a for lack of a better expression a "Bible Thumper". I really love to listen to Classic 70's Rock and if I like the song I will sing and I will be the first to say I am not a good singer at all I am hoping to find someone to start a sincere honest friendship with that could possibly grow into a serious relationship. Not a one night stand or meeting for casual sex kind of relationship, that's not what I'm looking for. Yes, I am retired, been retired since ***due to an eye condition. I've since had Cornea Transplants in both eyes. My vision has suffered because of it. I no longer drive and I have adapted my life to my circumstances. It is all in Gods plan for me. I am secure knowing I have the Lord in my heart and have faith He will sustain me and guide my path. I am not looking for someone to take care of me physically or financially. I am hoping to find someone to share life with. I'm a woman with a very tender, loving, giving, caring heart. I do not play mind games or play with peoples hearts, that is a very cruel thing to do. When I love someone I love them with my whole heart, in other words I love unconditionally after all we all have our own flaws none of us are perfect. I am a caring, compassionate, sensitive, romantic, loving person. I love to show affection as well as to receive it. God and family mean the world to me. I believe that a persons heart is more important than whats on the outside. I am an animal lover, I love to cook, laugh and have good wholesome fun. I think I have a great sense of humor I just need the right person to bring it out. I love to travel and explore new places. I can be a planner and I also like to be spontaneous. I like a wide range of music including Oldies, 70's, Contemporary Christian, Big Bands and some Classical. This part is Non- Sorry but after God my family is extremely important to me. If anything you have just read sounds interesting to you send me a message.

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