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Janis, 49

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About Me

I am a 49 year old widowed***white female. I am 5'4" tall, approximately ***lbs. and I have a M build. I am a former Iarge BBW***. There is still room for improvement and things that I cannot change. I am working on completing my personal transformation and looking into becoming a certified personal trainer to help others. I have long; naturally blond/curly hair and blue eyes. I consider myself average in appearance. I am a fashionista of sorts, but I am not high maintenance. I have a couple of small tatts and a nose and eyebrow piercing that I wear.infrequently. I tend to be very laid back. After burying a child and a husband before the age of 45, everyday life just isn't that serious. I am forever HOPEFUL. I am strong, independent, and self sufficient. I have a sarcastic and sometimes bawdy sense of humor. I like the simple things. I prefer daisies, camping and buffets over roses, luxury hotels and fine dining. I love the outdoors; being near the water(pool, lake or ocean) and I love the smell of pine. I love animals(the furry kind). I have 6 guinea pigs. They are my four legged children. I have 3 children of the human species.;; living in heaven with GOD. I have a huge heart that needs to be filled with love. I am 100% loyal and dedicated to those I choose to give my heart to. I am very demonstrative with my feelings; verbally, physically and sexually. I prefer younger men, but it is not a deal breaker; young at heart is fine. I do have a desired age range; it is 35 to 52. I prefer someone who is relatively fit; for health reasons and I don't need someone who will derail my own efforts to get fit. Looks are not important(exception: no long hair and/or full beards; body hair we can work on). Attraction comes with an emotional connection. I want someone who takes care with their appearance. They make amazing grooming products for men these days. Work clothes are for work; no dirty clothes or suits and ties. I love men in a trendy pair of blue jeans and a graphic tee. I would like someone who loves the outdoors and animals. I would love a man that comes with a dog. Older children are okay. Money, fancy cars and motorcycles are unimportant.I need to be with someone who can express their feelings physically and sexually. Your masculine parts need to work. I can't live the rest of my life without touch. I need someone who has a passion for me and shows it.It is not necessary to have all the same interests. I enjoy my ME time. Time apart is healthy. I don't need to be up anyone's A$$ ***.I took the time to complete my profile; so if you wish to communicate with me, you need to have at least a couple of short paragraphs about yourself in your profile or say something more than HI, when you message me for the first time. My chat is turned off. You must mail message me. Nothing fancy or expensive. Bar food or appetizers. We can even split the bill.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Well, here's a bit about me. I'm 47, divorced and finding that I'm having more time for myself, so now I'd like to find that special guy to spend some of that free time with. What I'm interested in is an on-going relationship based on honesty and sincerity. I want to feel that my guy is as much there for me as I would be for him. Good communication based on mutual respect. Now that I got the "serious" stuff out of the way, I do consider myself fun-loving and affectionate, and believe that having a sense of humor is a must! I'm a child of the 70's so I like the oldies music. I'm also kind of an old movies buff. I am gainfully employed and have a home. I enjoy all sorts of activities, and although I'm not a jock or anything, I do take care of myself. I enjoy watching some sports but I don't play any. I'm a mom to three kids, youngest is a teenager, which is why I have more time for me now! Well, guess that's about it, if you'd like to know more, you'll have to ask! Meet for a drink somewhere quiet.

  • Inez

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    professional woman looking for a man that believes in treating a woman like a lady I'm not lazy and I'm looking for the same,some one to get ahead with no dead beats please,if your hear trolling just for sex move on that is not all that im intrested in would like a man of substance and honor not a roll in the hay all though that could be ok with someone special that i would be involved in a long term realationship with get to know the person inside for that is where true beauty is found not in the superfical things in life happiness does not come from things it comes from the heart

  • Beverly

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Hello,I am a single mom whose kids are grown, guess you could say now it is my turn to get out and enjoysome of the things life has to Offer, I enjoy Exploring, Adventure along with enjoying Quiet Time curling up on the couch watching a Good Movie. I would love to thank this Recession for making a lot of lives tough... mine included.. so what does one do? We go and reinvent ourselves... I just finished going to school to become a Medical Student after 35 yrs! Ouch that hurt... I did finish w/high honors ... naps had to be included!!! LOL Everyone has a story and I have found it interesting to hear them along with sharing mine. Not that I have had this great story to tell.But sharing adventures we may have had to get to where we are today. To me a Rich Person is not from what someone has...... but how little someone needs. The 1st date is not where you go, or what you do....It is whom you spend your time with that really counts!!!!

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