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Bertha, 41

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About Me

I am a very laid back person who has a beautiful daughter. She is, and always will be, the light of my life! I love to look at life as a new adventure, I try to help people find the best in themselves and am easy to talk to. I am not a girly girl, but rather tend to spend my life in jeans and a t shirt....sometimes shoes :) Once a decade, I may dress up, towering over most people in my high heels! I take myself seriously when I need to, but have a childlike outlook to life. I tend to be better friends with men, as shopping and hair/ make up talk is soooo boring! I am looking for someone who can laugh out loud, dance in the rain, and who doesnt take themselves too seriously. I am always honest and expect the same from those around me. I am getting back into being more socially active now that my daughter is older. :) Things I have noticed about myself:* I have ugly feet and really don't care :) * I enjoy people watching and sometimes *** social situations, talking on elevators, sitting next to someone on a completely empty metro train, asking people if they like the items in their shopping cart while waiting in line.*I have the worlds WORST luck....I have tried to change this with no success.....at least it makes life interesting.*I cannot complete simple life tasks without something unusual happening, I always expect, and encourage, the unexpected. **I am competing in my first Warrior Dash soon and may be dead as a result.*I don't easily embarass, but have been known to try and embarass others. *I would rather be back country hiking in Yellowstone than attend any function where I have to dress up.....unless I can attend that function in my back country hiking clothes :) *I truly like to help people in need*I watch Dog the Bounty Hunter....*I refuse to buy a new car *My cell phone is just that, a cell phone.....may have a camera on it, but would have to check ;)*I am not as big of a pizza fan as I should be.*I love broccoli*I burn easily, but am convinced that it will peel off into a tan......hasnt worked so far but I am hopeful*I am a good driver*I have a torn acl and am putting off surgery......UPDATE- recently sucked it up and had the surgery.....now in recovery.....ugh! *The only hair product that goes in my hair is shampoo. Cant see the sense in paying for hair supplies when I barely brush my hair :) *I have strong opinions and love to play devil's advocate. Healthy debates are good. *I still own 2 VCRs and watch movies on them regularly*I am a pole fitness dancer....no, not stripper pole, but hard a hell athletic pole fitness.Pet Peeves:*People who insist that they dress their dogs like people....yuck!*This vampire movie/ book phenomenon....ewwwwww*and 2 pet peeves on this site:*Photos of guys with no shirt....I find it creepy*Edit/ spell check/ complete sentences.....if I can spell check and use complete sentences, so can you! That should be all for now! :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Constance

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I'm a high energy down to earth person who is curious, spontaneous, affectionate and sincere. I love to laugh, travel, cook, the beach and being outside as much as possible. I'm very close with my family and my friends.I'm good at maintaining a positive outlook, making people laugh, giving back massages, keeping promises, staying fit and just generally having fun. I don't like negativity of any kind, people who are judgmental, or anyone who will not admit they watch trashy reality TV at least some of the time!I love music, pretty much all kinds but mostly alternative, and rarely go anywhere without my I-pod and earphones. I love spending time in the city- I travel a lot for work, and for fun. I'm spontaneous and always up for a quick adventure somewhere near or far. I love to run and stay fit in general. I eat pretty healthy but am not obsessed with, I enjoy eating foods of all kinds, especially trying new things. Also love shopping (slight addiction to shoes), watching sports (soccer, baseball, basketball, football), meeting new people, reading, movies. I'm up to try most things but I've always thought meeting for a drink is the best way to get to know someone new. It's boring and typical I know.....

  • Celia

    Online

    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm a genuine romantic at heart and I believe everyone has a "soulmate". I also am a realist and know there is no "perfect". I have alot of love and passion to share with someone who has integrity. This lucky guy should know what he wants, says what he means, and means what he says. I look for chemistry first and compatability - the rest will fall into place. Please be open to communication - it's very important to me and goes hand in hand with a healthy intimate relationship which is also very important to me! With me, you'll always feel wanted, needed, loved and respected.I enjoy many things and I find that it's not so much what i'm doing or where I am, it's who i'm with. Love to ride my bike or take a long walk on a beautiful sunny warm day especially on the East Bay Bike Path - has anyone actually seen that scenery??? - (AMAZING). In the warmer weather I find myself spending as much time on or near the water. I also enjoy a campfire - in the woods or right in the backyard! Other activities: Reading, playing on the Ipad (SongPop, Words With Friends unfortunately, addicted) watching a good thriller or comedy and I also love my sports! Football, Tennis and Hockey!. I'm also very competitive with certain video, board and card games. BRING IT. Cooking is another favorite, and so far no casualties. If there's a recipe for it, I'll make it! My specialties are home made Portuguese Soup, Minestrone Soup, Shrimp Linguine, Steak Tips (must marinate for at least 24 hrs), Grilled Chicken, Choricou n Peppers, Meatloaf, Rotisserie Pork, Ribs in the oven, Stuffed Fish, Sauteed Scallops, Crabs, Clams, Lobster....Ok, I'm Portuguese - it's in my blood to throw it down when it's time. I sure hope you like to eat! Best of luck in your search!I am not willing to compromise my principals or values and anyone who tries to convince me otherwise, is not the one for me. Anything you want to know, please don't be shy - just reach out! Happy fishing!P.S. sometimes I don't logoff from the meetville app, it may seem like I'm online, but often times I'm not. Please don't get upset if I don't reply to you immediately. It's really open but maybe a place that a conversation can be held with minimal interruptions.

  • Catherine

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm pretty new to the world of online dating, so please be gentle with me...I'm a 41 year old professional woman just getting back into the dating scene. I am VERY easy going and I get along with just about anyone. I love live music, am a foodie, and could talk on any number of subjects from politics to bad movies.I'm engaging, personable, funny and kind. What else... I'm a mother of 2 beautiful biracial children. Are you tall dark and handsome with a great personality and sense of humor? If so, and you are interested, then please reach out!!I have a big smile and a heartfelt laugh, and use it often. A sense of humor is a MUST for me!I'm in a good place and I'm enjoying my career, raising two great kids (jointly with their dad - so I have time to myself too), spending quality time with family and friends!SO... I'd love to hear from you if you're interested! If not, wish you GOOD LUCK out there in the big bad world of online dating! :-) Maybe a coffee or lunch, a drink or dinner? I'm open... really depends on our connection and time!

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