It doesn’t matter whether you are looking for a one night stand partner or a person for a long-term relationship, the quickest and easiest way to do this is online dating. Such services give you the opportunity to communicate with hundreds of people and to find your one and only just staying at home. Ask yourself if you would be able to do the same in a real life. I guess your answer will be negative.
But unfortunately, some users may pursue absolutely different goals… Such online daters have much more than one dating profile on different websites; they also may use fake photos and names. Being a serious online dater you should learn how to detect such «partners» behind the screen. And here I don’t even mean online dating scammers as there is one even larger group of online hunters who may pose a real threat to young ladies who’ve always been dreaming of a prince.
What if your one and only appears to be married? What are his goals? In some cases married men who are sick and tired of a daily marriage routine and just look for some fun online. If their flirting stories are being left just within the framework of online communication – that’s not so dangerous. But sometimes they can involve you into their dirty games in a real life. That’s why if you are a young lady looking for love and romance be very cautious when you start communicating with someone online.
In this article we’ll provide you with some general tips which will help you to detect a dating liar:
A phone call: It appears to be the easiest way to find out if your online date is a fake. Just make a phone call and everything will become clear. If you don’t want to share your phone number with people you don’t know well, you may buy a prepaid phone. It is a rather cheap and effective way to avoid numerous unwanted phone calls. By the way, a live conversation may tell much more about your would-be partner than a hundred of messages.
Ask for a current photo: Nowadays it’s not a problem anymore to make a photo with your mobile phone and instantly send it to the partner. While having a conversation with your dates ask them where they are at the moment and then ask to make a photo of themselves. Of course, no one expects to get a high-quality photo, but this will bring you some confidence in your would-be partner.
Don’t forget about a webcam: It’s a wonderful tool which can shed light not only on the personality of you date but also on his/her living conditions. Who knows – maybe you’ll run into a necked weirdo sitting in front of the monitor. But the greatest thing about a webcam is that it will help to understand at once whether to meet with this guy/girl in person or not without wasting your time in cheap cafes with people who don’t deserve your attention.
If your online partner appeared to be real it doesn’t mean you may sigh with relief. This just means it’s high time to come to the second stage of the “detecting a liar operation”. In your next articles will share more useful online dating tips with you. Stay tuned!