It may sound strange, but being a nice guy means you’ll have little chance with women – they prefer to make friends with nice guys, not fall in love. The reality is so that man with nice guy syndrome will probably have lots of women friends, but unlikely to have physical relationship with any of them. Are nice guys pleased with being just friends or do they dream of something more? The answer is obvious.
If a nice guy wants to change the situation he should stop putting other people’s needs first and realize that it is not a productive way of being. For many men this step is the hardest, but anyway you should change your way of thinking and living. If you’ve managed it’s high time for next step.
Now you have to start being less nice. This step involves taking more time for yourself and finishing all the relationships which go nowhere. You don’t have to turn into a jerk and being kind and polite is still possible, but should have its place. And remember that the earlier you start, the faster your will enjoy the benefits of being a less nice guy!