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8 Steps to Get Ready for a Perfect Relationship

“Single people sometimes tend to think that finding the right person is a very difficult,”
By Alex Glover July 17, 2020

8 Steps to Get Ready for a Perfect Relationship

“Single people sometimes tend to think that finding the right person is a very difficult,”
By Alex Glover July 17, 2020

Single people sometimes tend to think that finding the right person is a very difficult, and even impossible task. However, the truth about finding the perfect partner is very simple - people just don’t know how to find them or where to start the search. If you are interested in a serious relationship, then this article will help you figure out how to start searching for the right person.

Understand yourself first

The first step to finding the perfect partner is a pen and a sheet of paper. No, you will not write a personal ad. You should write a list of your character traits and those traits that you want to see in your life partner. This list should include: the traits of your character and those that your partner should have, your physical properties and those that your partner should have, as well as a list of hobbies, interests, religion, and beliefs (should you and your partner belong to one religion and have similar beliefs or not), a desire to have children, a willingness to accept other people's children, communication style, etc. You can consider your friends or former partners to help yourself determine your desired human qualities.

Turn the list into a characterization of the desired partner

This should resemble a human skeleton. It should not be a list of requirements, but a general outline of your future soulmate. The list should be realistic and prioritized. Looking at this characteristic, you will see which aspects are important to you. For example, you like to spend time exercising. Then find a company of people that loves hiking, or whatever. You do not have to be 100% similar to that in everything, but this is a good start to meet someone with similar interests.

Keep in mind what other people tend to search in a partner

You can find numerous studies on what men and women look for in a partner and use them so that you can understand what others want to see in their partner. This will allow you to emphasize your strengths, no matter in what area they are, in order to make it clear that you have interesting traits, beliefs, or activities in which your potential partner is interested. Some of the most popular things that men and women pay attention to in each other:

  • Women pay attention to (in order) personality, sense of humor, common interests, intelligence, appearance, sexuality, voice, spirituality, profession, money, talent, and finally, religion.
  • Men pay attention to (in order) personality, sense of humor, intelligence, common interests, appearance, purity, sexuality, voice, talent, spirituality, money, religion, and, finally, a profession.

Love yourself and your body

This is the main tip of the century - your ideal partner will love you for who you are and see that you are doing the same. If you cannot come to terms with this reality, we recommend you boost your confidence a little, and then the mental desire to conform to everything that your partner says will disappear. To find the right person, you must keep the following thoughts in mind:

  • You deserve it. Yes indeed. Hold your head high, smile, and feel confident. It looks attractive and will allow your potential partner to see that you are ready to communicate.
  • List all that you have succeeded in - what makes you a great friend, what are your 10 best achievements in life, what you are proud of in life, and why you are a great partner.
  • Dress to look good, not to fit fashion, labels, or, even worse, the size on the label. Whether you are a man or a woman, good and proper clothing makes you more attractive and distinguishes you from other people.
  • Be in harmony with your body. This is much more attractive than constantly worrying about your size.

Start your search

Find social groups and events where your potential partner can be, and where you can talk a lot with new people. It is very important to go where you are likely to find a partner than just sit in a bar and wait for you to get to know each other. The best place to meet is where you enjoy spending time. This will be your first common interest.

Do not be too picky

You and your future partner are looking for someone you can make happier. Get to know different people in different contexts to know their basic characteristics and compatible personalities. Keep an open mind on those small details that you and your potential partner could improve in the future by compromising. If you insistently demand a certain set of qualities from a person, then you probably will not be able to find the right person for you. Do not be picky about the details - like in a good car that you drive. Over time, you cease to notice the little things and appreciate what you have in general.

Make a good first impression

Dress up and make a good impression when you first flirt or go on a first date. People often judge by first impressions, so you can only have one chance to please another person. Use a sense of humor. Both men and women consider this aspect to be very important, and there is a reason for this. Humor helps to cope with the awkwardness on a date. A person with a sense of humor is a much more suitable partner for life than a killjoy.

Make sure you immediately clarify that you are looking for a serious relationship

The worst thing you can do for yourself is to fall in love with a person who will leave you in three months because he/she is not ready to settle yet. You must clarify that you are looking for a serious relationship after the first few dates (it will seem a little desperate to discuss it on the first date) or when you realize that you are interested in another person. Take your time, just make sure that you are both on the same wave. Keep in mind that you should use your common sense when voicing your desires - no one wants to discuss marriage on a second date!


These are just several tips on how to be smart when searching for the right person. Of course, no one guarantees you will find the love of your life tomorrow, but one thing is known for sure - you have to do something to succeed! Good luck searching! And remember, Meetville dating site is still the best option for those in search!


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