3 Things Every Man Should Know when Buying Flowers for a Date

It’s one of those things that many men try to do for their lady as a nice gesture. No matter what stage of a relationship you may be at, the reality is that buying flowers for a girl can really make her feel special. Most men just go out and pick up some flowers without giving much thought to the whole thing. They want to show their woman that they appreciate them and that they enjoyed their company. 

After one of the first dates many men think that flowers are a great way to get her to think about him. The problem is that if you aren’t putting in enough thought to the flowers or the type that you buy this could easily end in a dating disaster.

 Yes, it really is that important and therefore, you must think this through from the start. If you are buying her flowers, be sure that it’s for the right reasons. If you are picking up a bouquet, then be sure that they are going to tell her what you really feel. The truth is that if you pick up flowers they should be an extension of what you are thinking. They should indicate where things are at, or where you want them to be. Flowers really can be a nice gesture, but you want to be certain that they are telling her exactly what you feel and what you mean by them too.

When you go out to pick up some flowers for her then put some thought behind it. The more that you consider as you go into this scenario, the more that it will pay off for you and help to take things to where you want them to be. Though this sounds like a really big decision, flowers can be a nice little gesture and speak volumes if you are mindful of everything as you move into the process. Here are some helpful things to consider in ensuring that your flowers tell her what you really want them to say.

1. Don’t go overboard, especially too early on: Men have a tendency to go overboard because they feel that this is actually a good thing. The problem is that if you go down this path after an innocent and great first date, it may scare her off. If you send the wrong message, then you may not get that second date because you pushed too early! If things are new or you are really connecting after a first date or two, then avoid the urge to overdo it. You may very well come on too strong with something as simple and innocent enough as flowers, and this may seal your fate in a really negative way that says otherwise than how you really truly feel.

2. Know that a little goes a long way in a nice gesture: Keep it simple and you simply can’t go wrong! A nice little bouquet says that you are thinking of her. A few of her favorite flowers done tastefully and simply can convey that you are interested in her. Pick a bouquet that shows effort, but doesn’t push too hard or come on too strong. You can pick up a bouquet at the store that indicates interest, but in a simple and sweet way. This is what the flowers are all about anyhow, so be sure that you use them for all the right reasons and in the right way too.

3. Be sure that you are not sending the wrong message: If you send flowers after a date was a little iffy, she may take it that you want something more from her. If you are coming on too strong overall, then it may scare her away and she may never come back. If you send flowers that lack luster then it may show that you are trying too hard but not thinking through the details. Send flowers for the right reason, and be sure that they always are an extension of what you want to say.

Flowers are a wonderful way to make  a woman feel special. Be sure that you use them for the right reason and in the right way, and this could very well help to take things to the next level in the right way and in the right timing for both of you too.