I think no one will argue that most of us always tend to make plans for everything: expenses plans, education plans even holiday plans. But how many of us have thought over a dating plan?
Most of us still consider it useless. We don’t look for we prefer to wait and watch. It’s a common misconception that love just may happen or may not and that we have nothing to do about.
But I want to assure you that love would likely to come to those who seek for it rather than to those who just hopes for a miracle to happen. And if you are one of those naive dreamers, then the following tips would be probably useful for you.
Realize what you are really looking for.
Make a list of qualities you want to see in your would-be partner. A lot of us choose their matches based on their appearance and interests. But think if it’s enough to build up long-term relationships. Of course it goes without saying that there is no relationship without chemistry. However, when the magic is gone what will be left?
Realize what you are to do to achieve your goal.
Are you ready to step out of your comfort zone and to do something you’ve never done before? Be ready to work hard and change your social habits if you want to meet more new people.
Realize how to use your dating experience.
It’s illogical but we tend to repeat the same mistakes again and again. In order to break this tendency you should stop for a while and try to analyze your dating failures, if there are any. Find out what was wrong about them do your best to avoid the same slips in future.