Dating is not easy for everyone. To some it could an exciting and fun activity that allows them to meet other people, and maybe even their potential life partner! But for others, this ritual can feel like a slow and painful torture, leading to an execution; especially for those men who do not have much luck when it comes to attracting women.But there are ways you can attract women and realize that they might be interested. It doesn’t have to be as difficult as you think it might be.
When in person, read body language. Chances are, she’s putting out signals that she’s really interested. Some tell-tale signs of interest include:
- Biting her lips
- Twirling her hair
- Gazing at you
- Touching her face
- Laughing and touching you
Whether online or in person, be approachable and open to conversation. Be friendly and ask questions. Smile a lot when in person. Convey that smile when online. You can actually do this through positive comments and talk about yourself and the person you are chatting with. When face to face, it’s important to be clean and presentable. Women are not going to go for guys who have poor grooming habits. When going out, men should always wear clean clothes, comb their hair, and never douse themselves with after shave. A little is okay, but a lot can be too much to take, and may send the women scurrying away in the other direction!
When you’re over 40, you may notice the presence of an abnormal amount of ear or nose hair. Keep these areas trimmed and clean. It’s a real turn-off to see these errant hairs sticking out when trying to keep up an interesting conversation.
Make eye contact, too. There’s nothing more attractive and sexy than having someone look directly into their eyes while they are talking with them. They say the eyes are the window to the soul. There’s no better way to connect with a woman than to give her a glimpse into your own soul.
Finally, have something clever to say. Women love men with a great personality and this can be conveyed through what you say. If the woman you’re talking with has a love of literature, quote something from a well- known book. If she loves the theater, refer to the amazing symbolism in her favorite play. You’ll not only win her heart, but her respect as well.
And no matter what people may tell you – chivalry is not dead and women DO appreciate it. This is especially true for seniors. Senior women remember the day when a man opened the door for a woman and let her enter a room first. Pull her chair out for her at a restaurant and help her put on her coat. While feminism is still alive and well, all women love to be pampered and remembering these tried and true techniques will impress her!