Attracting Senior Singles

Dating is not easy for everyone. To some, it could an exciting and fun activity that allows them to meet other people, and maybe even their potential life partner! But for others, this ritual can feel like slow and painful torture, leading to an execution; especially for those men who do not have much luck when it comes to attracting women. But there are ways you can attract women and realize that they might be interested. It doesn’t have to be as difficult as you think it might be.

When in-person, read body language. Chances are, she’s putting out signals that she’s really interested. Some tell-tale signs of interest include:

• Biting her lips
• Twirling her hair
• Gazing at you
• Touching her face
• Laughing and touching you

Whether online or in person, be approachable and open to conversation. Be friendly and ask questions. Smile a lot when in person. Convey that smile when online. You can actually do this through positive comments and talk about yourself and the person you are chatting with. 
When face to face, it’s important to be clean and presentable. Women are not going to go for guys who have poor grooming habits. When going out, men should always wear clean clothes, comb their hair, and never douse themselves with aftershave. A little is okay, but a lot can be too much to take, and may send the women scurrying away in the other direction!

When you’re over 40, you may notice the presence of an abnormal amount of ear or nose hair. Keep these areas trimmed and clean. It’s a real turn-off to see these errant hairs sticking out when trying to keep up an interesting conversation.

Make eye contact, too. There’s nothing more attractive and sexy than having someone look directly into their eyes while they are talking with them. They say the eyes are the window to the soul. There’s no better way to connect with a woman than to give her a glimpse into your own soul.

Finally, have something clever to say. Women love men with a great personality and this can be conveyed through what you say. If the woman you’re talking with has a love of literature, quote something from a well-known book. If she loves the theater, refer to the amazing symbolism in her favorite play. You’ll not only win her heart but her respect as well.

And no matter what people may tell you – chivalry is not dead and women DO appreciate it. This is especially true for seniors. Senior women remember the day when a man opened the door for a woman and let her enter a room first. Pull her chair out for her at a restaurant and help her put on her coat. While feminism is still alive and well, all women love to be pampered, and remembering these tried and true techniques will impress her!

So many women – especially senior women – are in search of Mr. Right. Women tend to live longer than men, so some women think that the pickings might be slim when they reach a certain age. This is far from the truth.

There are ways to find and attract that special guy. But there are also obstacles that stand in your way.

First and foremost, you need to get rid of that extra baggage you’re carrying around with you. Past relationships can affect future relationships, but don’t let them. What happened in the past is the past. You don’t have to dwell on it and let it be part of your present or your future.

Many women have low self-esteem that can influence the attractive qualities that are naturally inside them. You need to change your way of thinking here and convince yourself that you’re worthy of a good relationship to complement everything that you are.

Low self-esteem is an aspect of your personality that has been cultivated over years and years. Let go and let yourself be that wonderful person that lives inside of you. Tell yourself positive things including that you deserve to be loved and you deserve to continue living a healthy and full life. Confidence is the ultimate sexy trait in women, but avoid being too confident. A little humility is sexy as well.

If you think there just aren’t any good men out there, you’re wrong. This is a belief that has been bantered around for years. Some of this is rooted in past experiences. Still more is because you’ve set your expectations too high. No one is perfect and if you expect to find someone who is perfect, you’ll be disappointed.

As a mature woman, you have many great qualities that you should embrace and use to your advantage.

Remember when you were in the first throes of a new romance, all of a sudden you got hit on a lot? That’s because you radiated self-confidence; you were loved. Now, in your mature adult years, you should have plenty of self-confidence in your ability to balance a job, the ex, the kids, the bank account, the aging parents, friends, etc. Self-confidence is the biggest turn-on and once you’ve reached 40, you’ve got plenty of it.

You’ve been there and done that too! Now you know what you like. You are a better lover than you were at 20 because you know what turns you on, and you should be comfortable telling your partner exactly what you need. Indulge yourself.

And if you feel like you have to be demure and shy, get rid of that! You have the right to be a strong, sensual woman – even as a senior citizen. You don’t have to be that coy little chanteuse anymore. Assert yourself and enjoy the results!