Single Women In Bunker Hill, IL

• Bunker Hill

• Illinois
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Woman. 26 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

Looking for: man. In age: 18-20

When I love, I love very hard that means showing affection, spending quality time. I believe the simplest things can go a very long way. I look for someone who isn't afraid to show affection.

• Bunker Hill

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Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

Please read my profile, as I have added a few things. Only serious contenders please.I am a Christian first.......Romantic at heart, passionate (I love to kiss), energetic...... have been called a "cool chick." and have been told I have "soulful eyes." Compassionate heart, down to earth, previous ballroom dancing, which I might get back into.... I own a Harley helmet, so I can be the occasional "babe on the back of the bike."... I love NFL football, exercising, going to the beach, (I did scuba diving many years ago and would enjoy getting back into it), and make the best cheesecakes...... I am very comfortable being at home, watching a movie and cuddling, or going out with friends; not afraid of PDA's. Will tell you more when we talk.....:) Would like to meet someone who is attractive, active, enjoys romantic dinners at home or out; is not afraid of commitment or communicating feelings; financial stability is a must (I didn't say rich)... please be a kind, gentle yet strong man, who is seriously looking for your long term mate, perhaps even a wife someday. I would like to meet someone with a Christian background, i believe that two people should share core beliefs (i didn't say fanatical). I think you must be able to spend time with a person, in order for the relationship to grow, at least one day a week, and please be willing to talk on the phone some, Too much texting, makes "lost in translation" easy to occur.. If you are looking for a part-time" bed buddy" or lover, please keep searching elsewhere. The person I am going to be with romantically, will be a result of getting to know that person intimately, I don't want just a casual, physical relationship, I want the whole package: spiritually and emotionally. On another note, and not to sound shallow, but I do believe there has to be physical chemistry between two people. There are a lot of seemingly nice men on this site, but nice does not make up for chemistry. If you have seriously read this and have serious interest, please drop me a line. You never know coffee or tea and conversation.....then we'll see

• Bunker Hill

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Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

Looking for: woman. In age: 47-57

"The world is full of hopeful analogies and handsome, dubious eggs, called possibilities."“Once you stop looking for love you will find it” but I do know they were wrong. I tried it for a very long time and found only apathy awaited me. The less effort I put in, I of course met less people and stayed in my safe familiar routine.I give more credence to someone who advised me that by pursuing your own interests and doing what you love, you are more likely to find someone who has the same interests. Unfortunately, my sedentary interests are not really conducive with meeting new people. I have come to realize that I have become stuck in my comfort zone. I guess I am probably like many of you who realize that looking online is a now a viable option whereas it once had a bit of a stigma attached to it.Which is not to say that I don’t like the outdoors since I do enjoy camping, hiking, barbecues with friends, that sort of casual stuff. I certainly would do more of it if I had a partner that shared those interests. I have lost 75 pounds in the last 2 years and continue on the path of better health and a more active lifestyle. I realize saying that you are “trying” to lose weight is a bit like people who say they are “trying” to quit smoking. That is why I have only brought it up now after I have done it long enough to know it is not something I will give up on. I also want to find someone who will encourage and join me in more active adventures, even just a simple hike.I certainly don't think it is wrong to look online, I just think we may limit ourselves. I have a friend who has dated a few guys she met online and said something that really made sense. She said that she probably judges too quickly. Some people she dismisses just based on pics or one badly written paragraph in their profile.She mentioned how one serious relationship she had years ago she never would have had if it were someone online. She worked with a guy that she did not find physically attractive, and did not think was interesting. After working with him over several months, he opened up more and his great personality came through and she found herself thinking he was attractive, both inside and out. Although it ended after several years, she looks back on it fondly, and wonders how many of the guys she went on just the one date with, or did not even respond to online, may have been her perfect match. I guess we all may be guilty of that, expecting *** So I am striving to be more open and hope others out there will do the same. I do crave and thrive on intellectual stimuli. This does not mean the subject has to be heavy or controversial, it simply means I enjoy verbal communication with someone who can contribute but not dominate the conversation. The know-it-all people of the world are the biggest turn-off! I really enjoy when a relationship reaches the comfortable level. I know some who need constant drama but I love when it becomes comfortable and even a bit routine. This does not mean boring or stagnant.One of my favorite activities with friends is “wine cheese” night. We buy all different types of cheese and crackers along with assorted toppings. We gather together and slice up the cheese and toppings while drinking wine and talking. Just the prep time can take an hour. A simple pleasure that I find never gets old.I know this might sound a bit cliche’ but the biggest turn-on to me is a wicked, sharp, self-deprecating sense of humor. I can find humor in almost anything and appreciate that in others. Here are my deal breakers:Sense of humor. Top of the list. Has to be there. Even if you are somewhat shy, as long as you appreciate and understand my sense of humor, we are off to a great start. If you are too serious, there is no chance for us to mesh.You must not use the word irregardless. You must have basic grammar skills such as never stating, “I seen that.”You must love animals. You must be able to eat without your mouth open and you do not scrape your teeth across the fork.You drink socially but events, meals etc. do not get planned around the fact that you will be able to drink at said event.I will in turn offer you loyalty, humor, adventure, conversation, hopefully everything you are looking for. I love good conversation and friendly debates. I love my family and although you do not have to be close to your family you need to accept that I am close to mine.There is this great song that really sums up my feelings these days.;I'll miss you till I meet you." :)I have more to share but if you are not interested by now, I don’t think the rest would change your mind. Hope you are out there! Something simple, like meeting for coffee.

• Bunker Hill

• Illinois
• United States

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Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

Looking for: woman. In age: 47-57

well here I go- I love many things in life. Especially smiling, I want to find people who are kind understanding, honest not a game player. And dosn't live for drama !! who wants to be treated special and will treat me the same way... Im someone that wants to meet people that don't judge a book by its "cover". I am so much that way!! .And would appreciate meeting more people like that.. I'm very independent and I live a life with spirituality not so much religion.I'm definitely spontaneous and can be ready in about 20 minutes to do about anything. I love all types of music especially live music.Some of my favorite lyrics are from Pink Floyd: For long you live and high you fly,For smiles you give and tears you cry, for all you touch and all you see is all your life will ever be. I think that sums it up quite nicely.I'm very easy going and enjoy meeting new people and talking with them and trying new things.I feel very blessed in so many ways,I have one beautiful daughter who lives at home and is very independent. I also have two very good friends their like a brother and a sister to me.. I need my special person, my partner to understand these kind of relationships. I'm not looking for any type of 3 ways or jumping into a uhaul !! I'm always working on myself every day. I'm over weight and trying to lose some weight not for vanity but to live a healthier life. I definitely would say I'm loyal,understanding and a great listener. And have been told this by many.And I enjoy meeting others that carry these same characteristics. I'm self employed so I need to stay close to SD .I love dogs and have two their the ones I sleep with every night. I strongly believe in only adopting animals from shelters or rescues.There are so many animals in need of homes. I wish I could have more but two is a good amount. I love travelling anywhere, even if its just a road trip to get some time to relax. I love getting a good massage regularly, I do pamper myself and others and have no problem doing that.. I've been told by many that I'm a good cook and I love to entertain,I love the pleasure of cooking a delicious and beautiful meal and watching others enjoy. The two things I must have are HONESTY AND RESPECT because I deserve that and so do you.I feel that those two things are very important in any relationships!!!! Looking forward to meeting you. Take are GG

• Bunker Hill

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Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

This part is hard. So returning to this site again after a little break. Looking for someone to spend time with and will accept me the way I am. I work full time and go to school full time as well. This leaves little time to waste so if you're a player and looking for playmate or casual anything-- look elsewhere. I had been out of the dating scene for several years while I raised my two children and had attempted to meet a good man who wants a good woman to be by his side but haven't had the best luck. I am returning to try this again. I am a little shy at first but will open up as I get to know a person. I mainly like classic rock but also listen to country, hard rock and classical. I like to go camping, hiking or long walks, or just hang out and enjoy good conversation although I haven't spent much time recently on any of these since I don't enjoy these by myself. Like I said earlier I am a student and love what I am studying. I believe one is never too old to learn something. As for what I am looking for- I am looking for a person to spend time with and to do activities. I would like to get to know you first and spend quality time getting to know you as a person. I do not want a man who wants to change me or fix my flaws but one who will accept me as I am, flaws and all. Everyone has flaws. I am not looking to change you and don't want to have to change to be with you. I do not want to be taken care of but want to share everything the hard times and the good, to work out the differences and to learn from each other.

• Bunker Hill

• Illinois
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Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

I am fun-loving, free-spirited, intense and have been referred to as the life of the party. Personality, I definitely have. I can be quite amusing and certainly have a laugh that is infectious. I am feminine, kind, considerate, polite and tender-hearted, although I am no push-over. I can be quite blunt, driven and highly motivated.While I don't take myself very seriously, I do like deep, analytical conversations about politics, religion, the environment, etc., especially with individuals who have different opinions than me and can express them in ways that give me food for thought.I seek somebody who is intelligent, self-confident (minus an ego plus humility could be very hot indeed), has a Dominant nature, a chivalrous attitude and a focused mind (While I don't like admitting it, I am sometimes not so focused and need a yin to that yang.). I also seek somebody who is affectionate and physically demonstrative of that affection.I am one who needs to be both mentally and physically stimulated and I am open to being involved in a long-term, meaningful relationship.No pic likely means no response.***\\\***Put This***On Your***Profile if***You Know---\\\***Someone***\\***Who Died***\***Of***\\\***Cancer***\\\---Or who may be suffering from it.or has ever fought it & won.***Put this on your***!!!***page if you---!!!!!!!!!!!***know someone in the***!!!***Armed Forces or to***!!!***show your support***!!!***and respect to all***!!!***our troops!

• Bunker Hill

• Illinois
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Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

Looking for: woman. In age: 43-53

I\'m currently single and I have no children, but would like children in the future. Overall, I\'m looking for that certain someone who will complement my personality, make me laugh.

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• Illinois
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Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

Looking for: woman. In age: 47-57

I am a woman that believes in treating others as you wish to be treated. Kindness and tenderness in a relationship are not signs of weakness but of strength... I think work is a few hours in between our time together and although I like my job it doesn't make me who I am. I am childlike and playful as often as possible and love to tease but also spoil. I am very passionate and require the same. I prefer a woman that is more feminine then me but don't believe in roles as I can embrace the more creative feminine side of my spirit by cooking as well as swing a hammer and "take a look at it" if something needs fixing. If a label were necessary then I would say I am a soft butch and am old fashioned and like to open doors for my date. I want others to stare at us and be jealous of how connected and passionate we are. I am very well read and am turned on by intelligent conversations and I also love water amusement parks woo-hoo is what you will hear me yell there....I am silly yet deeply intuitive. You will find me to be very loyal, protective of those I care for and faithful once committed to someone. I am tough without being hard and love a woman with spine who can call me out when needed and soothe me when I am wounded. My family is important to me and living life fully without the drama is what speaks to me. Communication even when its hard is a must for me. Being open and honest allows another in to really know you. I am deeply connected to music and it is very important to me to be surrounded by beautiful noise and beautiful sights...Please no smokers, no drugs, no shady behavior...I mean that quite seriously the no shady behavior part as it is simply rude to not truly mean what you say...Time is precious and meant to be spent joyfully and lovingly. For my part if there isn't a connection don't try to make it happen. Offer the hand of friendship *** are the old fashioned great smelling women with long soft hair who know how to be a lady in the streets, the girl next door, and a tigress in the sheets? On our first date we would.....(you didn't think I would spoil the surprise and give it away did you?) PLEASE....NO SMOKERS.....

• Bunker Hill

• Illinois
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Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

Looking for: woman. In age: 46-56

I am a sensitive and caring person who would like to share that with the right person. I enjoy holding hands, walking on the beach, kayaking, spending time with friends and making time for special friends.I love sports and still enjoy playing and watching on television or in person. I have 1 cat and love animals. I am very much a summer person, and love being outdoors. I am looking to meet new people and see where it may lead. Maybe you could be that person.

• Bunker Hill

• Illinois
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Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

Looking for: woman. In age: 43-53

Looking to make new friends and if I meet that special someone great. I want people in my life that love life and are happy to be here. Your smile is the most important thing. I love the outdoors, my dogs, entertaining, spending time with friends, traveling, hiking and relaxing at home.